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Hey, Ciara.....
bobb3950 8 Reviews 1854 reads
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Great post.
Thanks for giving us a little insite.
Thanks for your honesty and openness.

You are a sweetie.

I hope you know how much I am looking forward to seeing you.

Not just my opinion...

B

The thread a few days ago on Czech Prostitution has got me thinking about the whole sleazy 'slavery' side of this business.  The NR article that A Spectator posted back in May had some pretty sweeping generalizations in it, like this gem: '[Providing] is not work; it is not a job like any other. It is abuse and exploitation that women only engage in if forced to or when they have no other options.'

Now, sadly, this clearly is true in many cases.  But *all* cases?  It's certainly not the impression I get from the ladies on this board, but I'm a man, so what do I really know about it?  So, here's the latest Elvish Artisan Totally Unscientific (tm) Poll Question, for the ladies: why do you engage in this most demanding of professions?  Is it *primarily* about financial need (perhaps you've tried to leave the biz, but couldn't make ends meet)?  Or is this something you do because you have a Vocation for it and it's what you love to do?  Or some other reason?  Feel free to use an alias if you wish.

Cheers!

Ci Ci3635 reads

I primarily got into this business for the money. I was stiffed on a great job when I first arrived in Phoenix, although the company offered me freelance work later. My profession is very limited and many places were afraid to hire me for other more remedial type positions because of my degree and experience (silly wabbits). Anyway, I thought about several things, even stripping. Then I realized my identity would not be concealed as a stripper, I couldn't wear (yet alone dance) in those six-inch "fu . . . me pumps" and I'd have to be tipsy or completely drunk to do this type of work. So, I answered about five different escort ads in the newspaper and finally decided to go on an interview with one company. I felt at ease when I met the owners and had a typed, one-page list of questions I wanted to ask them. I was totally paranoid of doing this occupation. I knew that once I did this, there was no turning back the clock. I insisted on seeing only those men in nicer places, and when I did attempt two different calls in less-than-attractive areas I had bad experiences. Now that I'm an independent, I can pick and choose and screen the way I want to and work when I want to. Yes, I enjoy sex (immensely), but the free time and money is uncomparable. That doesn't mean I make a fortune, because I choose not to work every night and certainly not two clients/friends in one night, but I could if I wanted to. My chosen hours for this occupation allow me time to do other things I've always wanted to venture into. I hope this helps.

Hugs,
Ciara

SirPrize3102 reads

I imagine many women would not do this if they had a realistic alternative, but the money and hours are hard to beat.

Even if a $$$ lady works only one hour a day, five days a week, that is still $1500/week cash. $75,000/year cash is nothing to sneeze at.

Where else are most people going to make that kind of money, especially with that work schedule?  

I doubt many ladies will admit that they hate what they do but do it for the money. Not exactly good for business.  

Ci Ci2885 reads

I don't hate what I do. I often enjoy the heck out of it. But if I were stinking rich, I'd probably give it up and travel.

Hugs,
Ciara

40firstAve2137 reads

75K/yr is not very much considering the overhead cost and lack of other financial fringe benefits(for example medical insurance)

mouth2108 reads

I hope that you are saving some money from your engagements as you never how long the opportunity will avail itself for you.
you can if you wish call me --my name is peter robinson at 416-651-9238 or 416-824-3015 or 1-888-624-0183(work) or email me at [email protected]

Seems like you found your balance in life ... that's great.

Great post.
Thanks for giving us a little insite.
Thanks for your honesty and openness.

You are a sweetie.

I hope you know how much I am looking forward to seeing you.

Not just my opinion...

B

ready for action!

Thanks for a peek into the life of a provider. Very interesting. I truly wish that civi's would take time to learn a few things from you woman. IT would make life with them soooooooooo much more easy.


Hope we can meet one day. YOu and netm., are a real gas to read! Total woman and boy would I love to.......

Love, hugs, kisses, and a big wet lick anywhere you want....

Bob

to be so open and vulnerable with us.  It does sound like you're struck a good balance.  If you ever make it to DC, please let us know -- you sound like a lady I'd like to know!  :)

Cheers!

lildesi3172 reads

I was definetly not forced into this.  I was always intrigued by the erotic side of life.  I began stripping and learning to belly dance in high school.  I enjoyed the thrill of it, and, of course, making money.  I was a bit of a wild child and tired of being locked up in a disclipinary school. I know it sounds bad, but I fell in love with the art of seduction.  

I came across an escort site and noticed the amount of money they make, figured I'd try it out.  Posted my own ad, got some replies and began escorting at 18.  I came to realize the advantages of escorting.  I could satiate my desires, be discreet, work less, and make more money than if I worked as a stripper.  I stopped escorting for three years while I had a steady boyfriend.  Now, at 22, I'm starting up again.  I escort for the money and because I love it.  I wouldn't do it if I didn't enjoy it.  I have a wildness in me that I need to feed.  I love sex and money, and I enjoy seduction.  It just all seems to ad up...  I am going to college to earn some degrees.  But I don't know when I'll quit escorting.  I suppose if I get married...

Great insight and honesty from such a young woman. I suspect that you will do all the things you say and when it's time to walk away from this part of your life, just do it... no explanations, no apologies, and no guilt. Yes, at your age many lives await, go alone or go in company, but learn this now, what we ALL must learn: Each life has it travels... and in the end the only person that can look back and know the roads and trails of your days is you. No matter whether you traveled those roads alone or with many companions, you are the only person "in" the skin which you walk with and as we all must do, live out our lives and CHOOSE the roads that have the most meaning for you...

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