"visiting doctor" line would work!

Just kidding, but you just can't always believe what someone tells you, so it's impossible to figure out what's going through his mind.

that many docs do not have good bedside manners.

I am more handsome than Superman and insulted by your comparison.

You were suckered by a kid who had off from school today.
You don't really believe you were contacted by a real Dr. sending his photo on the internet before a convention, do you? Seriously.

I'll try to make this short.

Visiting doctor wanted to see me for a dinner next week.

he sends a photo he says is of him looking like a geek --- Actually it is very handsome, younger, square jaw gentleman.  I write back how lucky I am to be seeing
such a handsome man who looks much more like superman then clark kent. *hubbah hubbah*

He has seen a photo of me already in jeans and t-shirt.. also one of me in before dinner full dress up.
He writes that he would like a 'more revealing photo' and not to worry becuz he is a doctor.

I sent an artistic  tasteful nudie and tell him I'm happy to bring a camera if he like to take his own.

He writes back he doesn't want to see me. Says he is offended that I sent a nudie . Said he was wanting a casual photo of me in an everyday setting  and furthermore he didn't appreciate my sarcasm about him being good looking.

What just happened here?  does anyone have a clue?
I'm just so amazed at this response as to be flabbergasted.  
Is this some type of game player or insane or ?

xx Alea                                

I know I/we often talk about some of the ladies we encounter being real prizes (literally and sarcastically).

Wellll..... the same holds true of clients. I tend to think of myself as fairly average, and am amazed at the comments I get from some ladies. I like to arrive on time, with the proper donation, grab a quick shower on site, leave on time, etc. and some ladies act like they've hit the jackpot. I know it's not my rock hard abs (more like a mini-keg) or my wavy hair (on my back), etc.

Count your blessings and just say, "Next."

What the heck kinda pic did he expect when he asked for a more revealing pic? It's been my experience when dealing w/ some, NOT ALL intellegent ,well educated people they often lack common sence and basic people skills. Their thought process is wired different.  Plain and simple the guy's an asshole! I would lose any sleep over it

Yeppppp!  Don't waste any more time trying to figure out this douche, or what's in his pin-like head.

I agree with hounddog, and I will add, ABSOLUTELY! his loss! The man is a fool. Don't waste any thoughts on him.

Most doctors are clueless about many things. They are in control of their kingdom/office/hospital and when they are out of it they don't have control.

One can be very intelligent and clueless as the case seems to be in this caes.

Disregard his ignorance and  disrespect.. As a former surgical Tech I can tell you that most Docs are the least up tight of all about nudity etc. I suspect he was just an A## Move on and count your blessings..

I thought the cardinal rule of p4p is not to discuss anything until behind closed doors?

Unless you know for sure that he is a medical doctor, or just some jack ass calling himself a doctor, or maybe he has a PHD in something like fungus, it doesn't matter. He's definitely some one you should not worry about.  You seem to be a well reviewed lady and should be fine without his business.

He tells you he wants to see "something more revealing" and then says, "don't worry, I'm  doctor"?

What would any normal person conclude he meant by that?

Did you verify him to see if he is what he says he is?

He's got some serious issues or just likes to fish for nude pics.

...maybe by 'revealing' he meant unblurred full face shot?  Full body shot?  It's tough to know without seeing the photo you sent.  Regardless, I think the photos on your website show all that anyone needs to see.

Did he really mention that he was a doctor so much?  People confidant in their professions usually don't drop comments about what they do.  In general, I think the less guys say, the more good stuff they could say.

Without knowing what you actually wrote, it's tough to know whether you might have sounded sarcastic.

My guess is that he's insecure and wasn't sure he wanted to go through with it anyway.  Somewhere along the way he had second thoughts and instead of backing out like a man, made up some lame ass you-blaming excuse.

Don't sweat it.  Move on.  If I were in Dallas, I'd hire you in an instant.  Not that seeing me would be any consolation.   But hey -- it's the thought that counts.

You know how teen girls have pictures of whoever is the new Scott Baio now (that guy from twilight)?
They have them because the fantasy is safer than the reality. As he got closer to actually booking you, he lost his nerve and backed out, chalk it up to experience. Entering this world does cross a line, he wasnt ready to cross it is my guess.

Also The whole picture and doctor thing is weird, probably best you didnt meet him.

Some guys get sexually obsessed with things that are off limits simply for the fact that they are off limits. Some guys get sexually aroused by tricking someone into doing something, even if there are plenty of other people who would gladly do the same thing with no hesitation.

Such are picture collectors, whether they be straight or gay. If you don't have any nude photos available, then that's what they'll want to see. Fully-clothed pictures to these guys is like a ball of yarn to a cat. There may be an infinite supply of nude photos on the Internet but that's just unraveled yarn -- inert and boring.

On one level I understand it since sex is all about building tension to a climactic release, and for them a freely available nude picture provides no tension. But for the most part I think they're being retarded since it usually means they're foregoing actual sex for this stupid "hunt." Like ... a cat ignoring actual food I guess.

This moron has such a low self-esteem of himself - hence he didn't appreciate you tellin him he's good lookin.   If you were pretty and you'd tell me I'm good lookin, I'm gonna give you the benefit of the doubt and will confirm it when I'm inside you and you come lookin at my pretty cute face LOL.

Now on the nudie pic - this dude is gay. How could be offended by a tasteful photo of a beautiful nude lady like yourself?  I say hogwash. This guy is a gayest of the gay.

Don't cry or fret over this guy.  I'd be super happy to take a nudie photo of you anytime and also take any complements without that crazy reaction.

-- Modified on 1/27/2011 3:44:28 PM

I  think I was overly tired yesterday and forgot my rule to walk away and refocus on the positive...
He and I had exchanged a couple of lengthy conversational emails and it seemed we had many common interests.
Even though there is an excitement meeting someone new for the first time in itself...
The anticipation can be added when it seems I've truly met a kindred spirit in life philosophy.
when the illusion is cleared away.. can be disappointing.  

For all those that said I should immediately forget about the incident...  
completely correct.

hugs all around.  Alea!

You did exactly what he wanted you to...  so that was probably his goal all along.  Probably not an MD.  
Definately a JERK!!
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There is no telling the real age of the person you talked to, there is no way to verify ages actually, lets be real. It was probably some bored punk kid who wanted to mess with one of us ladies, because that is what bored punk kids do.

Present day drawn-out version of a prank call...

The exceedingly handsome picture is a dead give away....

could have just been a scam tio get your pictures.  some guys collect "cheesecake".