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Since it's an imaginary client with an imaginary erection won't the CIP semen be imaginary too? What's the worry?

Posted By: EroticRobbin
One of the perks of having TER's VIP membership, is being able to read the entire review.  When a hobbyist contacts me for a rendezvous request, I always read his reviews.  I just read one, and the hobbyist said, "I drained myself inside of her."  There was also no mention, in the entire review, of condom use.    
   
 I'm not being judgmental, but here is my question:  
 Should I assume the hobbyist is used to receiving BBFS, during a rendezvous, and expects it?

EroticRobbin1469 reads

One of the perks of having TER's VIP membership, is being able to read the entire review.  When a hobbyist contacts me for a rendezvous request, I always read his reviews.  I just read one, and the hobbyist said, "I drained myself inside of her."  There was also no mention, in the entire review, of condom use.  

I'm not being judgmental, but here is my question:
Should I assume the hobbyist is used to receiving BBFS, during a rendezvous, and expects it?

plus, the guy isn't the brightest bulb either

Posted By: mrfisher
plus, the guy isn't the brightest bulb either.  
Hi, it's lovely hearing from you! :)

Obviously, I'm not going to speak about intimacy with the hobbyist, but since the review is with a provider from the city where I rendezvous, would it be out of line for me to contact her and ask?

Robbin: no, I would not assume it means bbfs, or expectation of it.

In most cases, it is probably "literary lazyness". I have been guilty of it in the past and as a consequence learned that there are lurkers out there.

After a couple of my early reviews, I received PMs asking if she bbfs'ed. My jaw dropped, but I did politely reply, making it clear that was not the case.

Sad that we have to spell things out, we are not 6 years old anymore ;-)

Yeah,  I got one of those,  when I hadn't mentioned the condom in my review.  
Unbelievable!  
My reply was probably less polite than yours

BBFS wouldn't occur to me, Robbin.  It suggests (to me) that the act was completed vaginally, as opposed to orally or ejaculation on body/face.  But the only way to be sure would be to contact him directly and ask what his expectations would be with you.  Let's see what the others have to say

It's more & more common apparently...😎

Posted By: termeup
BBFS wouldn't occur to me, Robbin.  It suggests (to me) that the act was completed vaginally, as opposed to orally or ejaculation on body/face.  But the only way to be sure would be to contact him directly and ask what his expectations would be with you.  Let's see what the others have to say.  
   
 

There were all those threads he got pulled down. Made lots of us "invisible" catch my drift?

Check out his other reviews to see if he ever references a cover or female condom at any time.  I know some reviewers don't take the time to specifically mention they slipped on the cover or some phrase that would alert you that protection was used. However, when it comes to your own safety, I would do whatever you believe is necessary to discover the information you seek to your satisfaction.  If at the end of the day it is still inconclusive, then follow your gut and do what you believe is best for you.

Shaft1

Posted By: EroticRobbin
One of the perks of having TER's VIP membership, is being able to read the entire review.  When a hobbyist contacts me for a rendezvous request, I always read his reviews.  I just read one, and the hobbyist said, "I drained myself inside of her."  There was also no mention, in the entire review, of condom use.    
   
 I'm not being judgmental, but here is my question:  
 Should I assume the hobbyist is used to receiving BBFS, during a rendezvous, and expects it?
I read the reviews of the provider, and she does indeed give her dates BBFS.   Soooo, I now have my answer, and I will NOT accept a rendezvous with the hobbyist.

Thank you, to those of you who replied to my thread!  

Robbin
xoxo

I think it's wise that you did your homework
I recently read reviews on a new provider in my area.  
It was clear that she was submissive so if the client pushed for BBFS that's what he was getting.  
Was very clear to me that seriously beautiful or not this was one I was avoiding.

Posted By: bocabuster
I think it's wise that you did your homework  
 I recently read reviews on a new provider in my area.  
 It was clear that she was submissive so if the client pushed for BBFS that's what he was getting.  
 Was very clear to me that seriously beautiful or not this was one I was avoiding.

FatVern263 reads

Why would a guy with "questionable" reviews, use those reviews to be screened?

To many people, BBFS is desired, and not frowned upon as in the past.  

Also, because I do adult industry work, I suppose guys presume I offer BBFS.  They don't realize, I film solo porn, and if I film with male talent, I make sure they're tested AND wear a condom during FS scenes.

BTW, 'FatVern' it's nice to post with you again! ;)

Robbin
xoxo  

Posted By: FatVern
Why would a guy with "questionable" reviews, use those reviews to be screened?

Posted By: EroticRobbin
One of the perks of having TER's VIP membership, is being able to read the entire review.  When a hobbyist contacts me for a rendezvous request, I always read his reviews.  I just read one, and the hobbyist said, "I drained myself inside of her."  There was also no mention, in the entire review, of condom use.    
   
 I'm not being judgmental, but here is my question:  
 Should I assume the hobbyist is used to receiving BBFS, during a rendezvous, and expects it?

I am not being judgmental as to what other people do, but...I am trying to be SAFE!  

Honestly, I was hoping I misread the review.  I merely wanted the opinions of members of the TER community.  It's not as though I can get escort advice, from just anyone.  I trust the hobbyists and providers, and their replies mean a lot to me.

Posted By: EroticRobbin
I am not being judgmental as to what other people do, but...I am trying to be SAFE!    
   
 Honestly, I was hoping I misread the review.  I merely wanted the opinions of members of the TER community.  It's not as though I can get escort advice, from just anyone.  I trust the hobbyists and providers, and their replies mean a lot to me.
What does this have to do with staying safe judgement.?

Do you make your clients go to an std clinic and show you papers in order to come see you?What if a hobbyist was fucking his wife bareback would you refuse to see him too?Just put a condom on it and call it a day

Posted By: LondonBay
Do you make your clients go to an std clinic and show you papers in order to come see you?What if a hobbyist was fucking his wife bareback would you refuse to see him too?Just put a condom on it and call it a day
As I researched further, I found out the provider the hobbyist saw, has BBFS with her clients.  I'm not going to 'out' anyone on this discussion forum, but I've read the provider's GD board posts , and she states that she sometimes sees 5-6 clients a day.  Well, IMHO, I would consider her to be a 'Walking Sperm Bank' and every hobbyist who performs DATY on her, is licking her prior client's cum.  That may not bother some hobbyists, but it sure would, mine!

As I said, I'm not judging her or anyone else, but PLEASE don't judge what I'm comfortable doing to my body and, possibly endangering the lives of my clients and their spouses!  IMHO...Wearing a condom with a hobbyist, who has BBFS with a high risk provider, such as this one, does NOT guarantee I won't contract an STD/STI and then pass it on to the TER community.  Thus, I will refuse to rendezvous with the hobbyist, and continue to 'Play Safe.'

And after viewing her ads and site.... I'm not surprised... But then again nothing surprises me anymore

But you're not judging-BAWHAHAHA! And  are you REALLY going to actually see someone in P4P? Really? Slow day in Vegas? This sounds like one of your fiction works.

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Keep trusting them...

Good call to investigat further, and a better call to avoid the client...

Posted By: jelloman42
Keep trusting them...  
   
 Good call to investigat further, and a better call to avoid the client...
Nothing like trusting your own gut instinct.She putting the spotlight certain reviews..That's why she started topic.

Fancy, if her intention was to spotlight something she would have linked to it...she raised the topic to get input on whether her instincts were correct...

I should have been a P.I. ;)

Thank you, for your kind reply!

Posted By: jelloman42
Keep trusting them...  
   
 Good call to investigat further, and a better call to avoid the client...

There was actually a vegas add last week where th provider states on her web site that she likes no barriers and does creampies, if thats not asking for trouble i don know what is.........i would never in a million years touch a provider without protection nor would i let my husband no matter how many times we see someone......it boggles my mind that people actually do this!!!! I commend you for staying safe!!!!  

Posted By: EroticRobbin
One of the perks of having TER's VIP membership, is being able to read the entire review.  When a hobbyist contacts me for a rendezvous request, I always read his reviews.  I just read one, and the hobbyist said, "I drained myself inside of her."  There was also no mention, in the entire review, of condom use.    
   
 I'm not being judgmental, but here is my question:  
 Should I assume the hobbyist is used to receiving BBFS, during a rendezvous, and expects it?

Thank you, for your kind words, and post! XOXO's

I repeat, I'm not judging what other people do or don't do, but I am NOT comfortable risking my life, or the lives of my lovers and their family members, by having BBFS with anyone.

Posted By: vegasgirllover
 
 There was actually a vegas add last week where th provider states on her web site that she likes no barriers and does creampies, if thats not asking for trouble i don know what is.........i would never in a million years touch a provider without protection nor would i let my husband no matter how many times we see someone......it boggles my mind that people actually do this!!!! I commend you for staying safe!!!!  
   
Posted By: EroticRobbin
One of the perks of having TER's VIP membership, is being able to read the entire review.  When a hobbyist contacts me for a rendezvous request, I always read his reviews.  I just read one, and the hobbyist said, "I drained myself inside of her."  There was also no mention, in the entire review, of condom use.    
     
  I'm not being judgmental, but here is my question:  
  Should I assume the hobbyist is used to receiving BBFS, during a rendezvous, and expects it?

Sometimes the condom is not mentioned so it could sound like bbfs when its not.... And if so,we already don't know what clients do in their personal life with their spouses,regular fuck buddies,providers ect and we still do this work and there is going to be some risk involved.....I'm assuming you would be using protection right? If so that's about as much piece of mind your going to get with any client IMO....

Posted By: EroticRobbin
One of the perks of having TER's VIP membership, is being able to read the entire review.  When a hobbyist contacts me for a rendezvous request, I always read his reviews.  I just read one, and the hobbyist said, "I drained myself inside of her."  There was also no mention, in the entire review, of condom use.    
   
 I'm not being judgmental, but here is my question:  
 Should I assume the hobbyist is used to receiving BBFS, during a rendezvous, and expects it?

I'm not ignorant, I did my research.  The provider's reviews specifically state the hobbyists cum inside of her!  

Posted By: Gypsy2184
Sometimes the condom is not mentioned so it could sound like bbfs when its not.... And if so,we already don't know what clients do in their personal life with their spouses,regular fuck buddies,providers ect and we still do this work and there is going to be some risk involved.....I'm assuming you would be using protection right? If so that's about as much piece of mind your going to get with any client IMO....  
   
Posted By: EroticRobbin
One of the perks of having TER's VIP membership, is being able to read the entire review.  When a hobbyist contacts me for a rendezvous request, I always read his reviews.  I just read one, and the hobbyist said, "I drained myself inside of her."  There was also no mention, in the entire review, of condom use.    
     
  I'm not being judgmental, but here is my question:  
  Should I assume the hobbyist is used to receiving BBFS, during a rendezvous, and expects it?

Posted By: EroticRobbin
One of the perks of having TER's VIP membership, is being able to read the entire review.  When a hobbyist contacts me for a rendezvous request, I always read his reviews.  I just read one, and the hobbyist said, "I drained myself inside of her."  There was also no mention, in the entire review, of condom use.    
   
 I'm not being judgmental, but here is my question:  
 Should I assume the hobbyist is used to receiving BBFS, during a rendezvous, and expects it?
If your good IP then what the problems

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Guys come in here to be witty and charming. the girls play up to it with their ads and reviews....it's all in the game.....you should know that by now.

For your replies, and I look forward to future thread posts with you!  Now, it's time to get my butt offline, and enjoy this gorgeous day. ;)

Robbin
xoxo

LasVegan228 reads

Are you still a provider?  How could you be?  No reviews in over 7 years and no website URL on your profile!

So while your post has relevance, why did you REALLY post it?  Do you even have any clients?

Since it's an imaginary client with an imaginary erection won't the CIP semen be imaginary too? What's the worry?

Posted By: EroticRobbin
One of the perks of having TER's VIP membership, is being able to read the entire review.  When a hobbyist contacts me for a rendezvous request, I always read his reviews.  I just read one, and the hobbyist said, "I drained myself inside of her."  There was also no mention, in the entire review, of condom use.    
   
 I'm not being judgmental, but here is my question:  
 Should I assume the hobbyist is used to receiving BBFS, during a rendezvous, and expects it?

So she hasn't been here a while. Maybe she decided to just come back for whatever reason. Who gives a shit why? She's back, should t we welcome her. Besides, she looks pretty hot to me! Welcome back Robin!!
This place is something!

Posted By: Dallas_texan
So she hasn't been here a while. Maybe she decided to just come back for whatever reason. Who gives a shit why? She's back, should t we welcome her. Besides, she looks pretty hot to me! Welcome back Robin!!  
 This place is something!
Thank you very much, Dallas_texan, for the warm welcome back, and your kind compliment! XOXO's

Over time, on the discussion boards, I've learned a valuable lesson.  As you may have noticed, I ignored and refused to reply to the haters.  They are obviously unhappy, bored people who thrive on attention, and have nothing better to do than to bully others.  I could care less what the haters say, because I intend to...Make Love, NOT War! ;)

Dallas_texan, I'm in the process of redesigning my escort website, but if you'd like...you may view my XXX personal site, which has now been added to my TER profile.

I hope you have a lovely day, and again, Thank You!  

Robbin
xox

"Unhappy."People have long memories and you've pulled some real stunts.

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I call BS! All the hate came from a couple of people that just beat around the bush with their little comments and take jabs. It all sounds way to personal. That's all I'll say. Robin is very wise not to respond to that BS. I will say this tho, being pretty new here, no matter what u say or who says it, someone is gonna hate on it/you. That's too bad because I love reading the post and threads here at TER. But it makes us new guys hesitate to post and reply. In fear of being embarrassed for asking.  
Anyway, Robin, I'll definitely check ur site out. And if in LV, I'll holla!

Posted By: MatureGFE
People have long memories and you've pulled some real stunts.

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With BIG balls, who tells it like it is! :D  

We are going to get along VERY well, Dallas_texan, I can tell.  I sincerely hope you get to Vegas someday. ;)  

Robbin
xoxo

Posted By: Dallas_texan
I call BS! All the hate came from a couple of people that just beat around the bush with their little comments and take jabs. It all sounds way to personal. That's all I'll say. Robin is very wise not to respond to that BS. I will say this tho, being pretty new here, no matter what u say or who says it, someone is gonna hate on it/you. That's too bad because I love reading the post and threads here at TER. But it makes us new guys hesitate to post and reply. In fear of being embarrassed for asking.  
 Anyway, Robin, I'll definitely check ur site out. And if in LV, I'll holla!  

I would make a trip to Vegas if she said that to me.

GaGambler203 reads

Send me a hundred bucks and I guarantee you I will get her to say the EXACT same thing to you. Deal???

Posted By: GaGambler
Send me a hundred bucks and I guarantee you I will get her to say the EXACT same thing to you. Deal???
Make it a 50/50 split, and I will. ;)

GaGambler217 reads

but I think that opportunity has passed.

Posted By: Greenbacks2
I would make a trip to Vegas if she said that to me.
Come to Vegas! ;)

in my reviews...  unless I got a CBJ I tended to not mention when the condom went on.  They were all Covered for FS...   Most of them were posted before the curent wave of BBFS posts.  I don't think thise posts were even approved at that time.  I will be much more careful with my writing in the future.

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