As a septuagenarian I've used providers about once a year and had maybe a handful or two that were really satisfying, mostly in JApan.

However, the advent of TER and the GFE have really transformed the experience and the industry. It seems a miracle that and old fart like me could actually feel like a teenager again after spending a mere hour with an extremely lovely and talented provider.

All I can say to the really professional providers of today is to express my profound gratitude for bring the joys of Spring into the Autumn of my life.

Sadly , my mouth is now my best sexual organ and I'm very happy with my results.

when referring to our forefathers or our military....

This is a transactional relationship buddy... You show up.. You pay...You fuck..You leave.. You show up again when the mood strikes...

Now not saying that you shouldn't treat providers with respect and kindness.. But "profound gratitude"...Really?

Next thing we know you are writing "Ode to Chinese delivery guy.."

The experience means more to some then to others. I think we know where each of these two stand.

I am sure a lot of providers worry the guy might get a heart attack or even worse die in the sack. Maybe that's what he meant by 'profound gratitude'.

at his age, maybe he feels the ladies he sees are very patient and comforting to him. They make him feel young again. When you get to his age, I'd be willing to bet your tune will change. Some women wont see guys his age. He is appreciative of the ones that will and the experiences they give him. I have no problem with the words he used and frankly, you are coming off as smacked ass.

This is a very diverse corner of the universe.

Not everyone is looking for the same thing out of their time with a lovely young lady--but too many think eveyone should be after the same things THEY are.

Not everyone has the same sense of physical beauty--but too many get upset when another grades differently than THEY would grade.

Not everyone has the same appriciation of what the company of a lady means to them--but too many think THEY know what a couple hours can or cannot mean.

There are some amazing ladies out there, I'm glad you found one who was compatable with what you are looking for.

It starts getting in the gray area when lines between "hobby" and "love" start getting blurred..

Next thing we know the OP is hanging out with Hefner and posting 'I-have-fallen-for-hooker" threads..

And smacked ass? Why so...?

And no I wasn't picking on his age. I am glad he can perform at his age..

And so what if he falls in love? I dont know his situation. Maybe thats an emotion he hasnt had in awhile. That would make him feel like a teenager again. And who is talking about love anyway? It wasnt the OP. All he really said is that he is very grateful for the women in his life that give him comanionship and sexual gratification. What the fk is so wrong with that????????????? And if he starts hanging out with Heff, you'll be kissing his ass to get grotto viewing seats.

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I make my once in a blue moon revisit to the board, and there's someone jumping on someone else's case about what he should feel or not feel. Hey! If he feels profound gratitude he feels it! I didn't read anything in what he had to say that he was going to fall in love with these young ladies!

because I'm one of those who feels the same way towards the select few special women who have enriched my life! Well said Alfie. I'm sure that you speak for more than a few of us!

I am very happy you have found ladies who have made you feel special as you should be treated. It is wonderful to know how much joy one man can get no matter what his age. I would think your post would be an inspiration to all the hobby stands for and TER. I myself love older gentlemen who remember what foreplay is and how to enjoy it. Time spent with me is like one big make-out session ; kissing and taking clothes of piece by piece until your naked and in torrid lust.

For Alfie : never underestimate the pleasure your tongue can give. I prefer a soft, willing, warm and wet tongue any day to a big hard cock with no emotion other than to please himself.

Kisses Haley

You will get there one day too. That is, if you live long enough.

When they are paying for HIS time and HIS orgasm, then tell HIM what to think and say ad infinitum.

Why do you hate guys so much?  Is it a lesbian thing?

And FWIW.. I wasn't telling him what to think, but rather what not to think...

But it can get a little complicated when you leave out important fact... i.e. "I have sex for money...." No?

....Curly, you have pounded this "it's just a transaction" way to much, IMHO.   And your comment to Alfie, who is an older gent and should be treated  with some measure of respect, did come off as a smart ass comment.  In fact, it pissed me off.  Defending it by posting that you wanted to give him "perspective", really?  YOUR perspective which many of us do NOT agree with.  And just like your comment below to Haley about sex for money, you act like the rest of us don't know what we are doing.  I'll give you a little hint, I have been in this game for more years than you have been alive and  as I posted on this board the other day, I have seen hundreds of women both in the hobby and civvie life.  Here's a news flash Curly, lots of civvie woman have sex for money too, and no, I'm not talking about sugar babies, just ordinary everyday women who want something in return for the sex.  And before any of the gals jump on me for this statement I did not say EVERY woman, but many do.  So sex for money?  Hardly the exclusive province of the hobby.  This is a free country and you are entitled to your opinions and perspective, just don't act so rude when others of us here disagree.  One thing for sure there is no Hobby Rule Book, as much as it seems at times like you wish there was.  Most of the time I just ignore posts I don't agree with here, but not today!

Certainly my post has nothing to do with his age... I have respect for everyone..young, old, and in between...

It was all about drawing a line. And you gotta draw line somewhere or other...

How many times have we seen posts where the guy is fallen for the provider and is unable to get up (LMAO)... It usually starts with the guy making the "hobby" bigger than its supposed to be...To me.."Hey... Its just SEX.. Be nice to her.. Respect her boundaries...Be clean...And show up again if you feel like seeing her..."

Why the fuck we need to make this bigger than its supposed to be? Why the heck we need to use grandiose terms like "profound respect".... I don't know what is to be achieved by putting providers on a pedestal...

The OP (alfie47) has ONE post on this board...forever.  Maybe his post belonged on the +60 board as more fellas in that world may appreciate what his comments were than a "punk" of only 32  LOL

But if you had slowed down and actually comprehended his OP...he was in NO way suggesting that he was falling for any hookers.  Quite the contrary...he was thanking them as a whole for seeing his +70 ass.  And with a heluva lot of appreciation.  He also comments that fucking isn't part of his repertoire anymore...but oral is his limited access to sex now.

As blueman said...you will get there at some point and understand why the OP feels as he does.  For some fellas that may be as early as 40...while others are quite functional and active to 70+.

There was NO reason to jump on this guy the way you did.  

Learn to read a post before you comment...something that takes skill.  Or is it maturity?

There are plenty of asswipes here that you/I can jump on...the OP wasn't one of them!

It sound like you were dumped in the woods as a child and raised by christ knows what. Glad you admitted telling the OP what not to think...because we all need someone like you around to tell us whether to think or not...freaking dumbass.

Okay, this tired old "hate guys" response is just that...tired. It seems you can't come up with anything else, like maybe I said similar to what a couple of others said but you don't seem to throw that out to them...you're so darn transparent when it comes to this shit.

How about this. if you feel that I hate all men...I will agree to shut you the fuck up..there got it?, get it?, good! Now go away and play with something sharp.

that you hate men for this post. Or maybe he saves that for me because he has nothing constructive to say..bitter little boy bitch.

.............How about this:

Constructive enough for you?

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.....I have NEVER disrespected you on this board, so WTF is up with this response? You want to mix it up with posters you have crossed swords with in the past, ok, but leave me the fk out of your cheap shots.

Who find it within themselves to try and tell you what to feel. A lot of us realize this is a transactional situation but no one can tell you or I how to feel about it. That is personal and when people try to push their beliefs about this on to everyone else, well they just look stupid.

And nothing beats a great mouth!

You quote me? How was that really meant Johnny.

And, what is this 'line' other than your personal opinion about how other people are "supposed to do this"?

What's wrong with him having profound respect for the providers that are adding value to his life?

I saw nothing in the OP that suggested he had (or was in danger of) falling and not getting up. He was not making anything bigger than it needs to be. And, who says how big it should, or should not be anyway?

And what if he did fall? What do you think you're going to save him, or anyone else from by drawing this line?

.....is that it was NOT constructive, IMHO.  Here it is again, you tell me what was constructive about it.  Of course it depends on your meaning of constructive, but mine is that it adds something to conversation, which this comment did not, IMO.

And I gave you mine...

I'm sure that they are very grateful to have you as a client as well

Damn CPA! You beat me to it....well said.

I agree. Nothing wrong with expressing a new found gratitude for anyone or anything that adds a little more happiness to your life. I am grateful for TER, as it gives me mice to play with bwahahhaa.