If a provider charges $2,000.00 for a four hour date in a major city and you take her to a Sporting Event, Broadway Show, or Concert and dinner without sex is that two much money? Should you get a discount for this type of date since no sex is taking place?

I only pay a provider for her time, it's just that I'm such a sexy hunk that they always want to blow me and fuck me for two hours. It's good to be me, just ask me, I'll tell you.

don't get me wrong she should get paid a fair rate but I just feel it's a lot of money when you add tickets dinner for a no sex night.  

Some people think that spending a couple of hundred bucks on a hooker for sex makes you out of your mind, other people drop thousands at a strip club and don't get so much as a kiss. It's all relative.

But to each their own. It is up to each provider to choose what her time is worth, whether it is steamy sex, or social time. If a provider is busy enough to keep her dance card full, why should she spend time at a lower price, just because someone doesn't want to spend that time in the sack. It's your choice how you choose to spend your date/money. If others wish to spend their time/money in that fashion, who are you to judge?

I totally agree.  

Do I think that's too much money? Yes  
Do I think you should you get a discount? Yes you should, but it's not up to me, it's up to the escort.

to a sporting event, broadway show or concert and dinner? Nope...not interested. But if you paid me, I'd smile and enjoy it!

I personally take those $2,000 and divide then into $300(per hour) and the result is 6 sessions at $300 and still have 200 left t. eat a dozen of oysters before each session,

Finally I agree with you 100%,you see  very soon we will be friends! lol

Do I find that weird?  Fuck yeah, but it's their choice.  Why do you care?

Looking forward to hearing your thoughts on this.  

I do know one provider out of Pittsburgh with a rate for behind closed doors and a lower rate for not behind closed doors. I have absolutely no interest in the latter.

What's her regular rate? If she has a 1k/hr rate, 500/hr is a discounted rate. A sexless date at that price sounds dumb, but who cares if others have that and spend it?

Make that 800 ... got a JDU pirate cd. ... lol.  
Where are we going?

I always thought you were my friend.

and report back lol. I can almost guarantee on average your take and his are from two totally different sides of the planet.  

Agree 100%

Tell you what you make it to NY I'll bring you as my VIP guest.  

I have been told i am president of the TER Under 35 Board. Does that count for something?

Making discussion tonight when I saw things written on a different thread which I didn't agree with.  

Whether "it's reasonable" to think something about what the right rate is depends on each client and each provider.  

I get it and meant no disrespect. I just wanted to hear what people had to say on this matter. I know your right I'm 70 and a widower I want someone to spend time with. I don't have that mindset today. Enjoy your night.

Personally, I wouldn't pay that kind of money for a social date (but then I would never pay that kind of money for a sex date either). If a provider can get that, good for her, and more power to her, and if a guy wants to pay that, it is his money and his time, so I try not to judge. All we can do is decide what's important to us, and how much we can afford to spend on those things that are important to us. What someone else chooses to do with his money is irrelevant. (Unless he chooses to give that money to me! )  

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Save your money!  The Oval Office is not worth paying to see.  (Though a night with you at the Hay Adams might be worth the trip!)  

You still don't get it love and that's ok. When you're twice your age...64...you will.  

And they are less than a BCD date.  I personally love to have extended dates with some social time included and then back for romance. Some guys like a package date that includes  both.  If a date is longer than 2 hrs there has to be some out and about time for me. BTW my four hour date is less than that by $850 and I don't have a stop watch going so who knows!

You have replied to almost every response in your thread!  I bet this has never happened before! Keep it up!

My answer from the thread below:

..name your price...it will be worth the trip for sure, a night to remember!!
Passionately,
Frederica

... We would probably just wind up having sex  

.....a sexual romp. But I would never begrudge anyone who does.

Perhaps you should take the time to book her for a regualr incall or even a series and get to know her.  Some ladies do go down on the donation for time out on longer dates.  Otherwise what she posts is what she intends to collect for her time together.

I do frequent consulting. I charge per hour and per day (no discount 1 day is 10 hours.)
If my client sends me junk to review for a meeting I review it, if there are a series of  meetings that are cumulatively a waste of time because they have arranged meaningless presentations despite my advice on what would be most productive, I still charge the same amount for my time.  If they fly me to a conference in a great resort to speak to their top executives and I have a lovely room, get to use the beautiful pool, and am invited to wonderful meals, I still charge the same for my time as if I spent the whole time locked in a room in Northern Minnesota in the middle of the winter.    
If I were an attractive provider and people were paying for my time, I would do the same thing. I would charge for time no matter how much I enjoyed the Super Bowl

Some ladies charge separate rates for social time. I don't now, although I have done so in the past. It just wouldn't work for me. Here's why.  

While I have never considered spending money on a purely social (ie. no behind closed doors time) date, your post here is enough to make me think you might be worth it.  Well written, well thought out, and to the point. If you are as articulate and engaging in person, you would be an impressive companion for a night on the town.

We are friends,I was referring to the other guy.

....whats dinner without a little naughty...even before desert?....

But the tricky part is making it known since LEgally my compensation is for my time and it's hard to make that  distinction very clear - but yeah, I think it's understood for many of us that it would be a SIGNIF. discount

and spot-on.  

between those who sell sex and those who sell time.

never thought you providers were mostly introverted, that's an interesting concept.  i would have thought the opposite.

i would never expect you to accompany me for free. but i would never take you anywhere without establishing the parameters and payment before hand.

i have had a web presence for over 15 years, including a political blog that has been nationally recognized on television and in print media, and with the exception of personal professional emails, i do not ever capitalize anywhere, seeing it as the natural evolution of writing.

to each their own, but i gotta reserve my right to laugh at someone who pays for non-sexual dates.

if the op chooses mindfully to use "two" instead of "too" and has an explanation for it, as i do for non-capitalization, i'll be happy to retract my scold.

It would take more of my energy to be on in public than it does to simply fuck a guy. I would need some serious alone downtime after that. I would want to be paid too.

To deter johns from asking for this type of thing. Some hookers do not want to do dinner or anything else with their johns.  

definitely need downtime after each engagement. I absolutely love what I do- both being in public with someone and entertaining in private, but I still need plenty of recuperation time. It's exhausting on every level you can think of, even to a total extrovert like me.  

I personally would not pay a woman to hang out with me outside of play time.  Everyone has the right to spend their money as they wish, but I'd rather spend an hour each with four women, then four hours with one woman.  It can start crossing boundaries where you might think she is really your girlfriend, where you pay for dinner expecting to get something.  It seems absurd to pay for dinner then pay for "dessert" too, but if a woman can get that, great deal for her.

I have around a 2 to 3 hour window with people I really like, let alone someone I do not care for. Then I have to break away and get some alone time.

The operative term of course being "in their right mind" lovesick johns are rarely in their right mind. But honestly, if you hate it so much, why even bother?

...It really slows me down.

...this works for me. Probably the reason.

i said eofm!!!

Yeah but, "Eee, eee, cumming!!!" is the noise he makes just before finishing.

eom

If someone doesn't want sex then they can get a sugar baby for far less than an escort's social time, even when that time is reduced price. Like not 300 dollars per hour but 300 dollars for a 3-4 hour date with a sugar baby that is just as hot. Many of the men here just want pure action and can't imagine why anyone would pay alot of money for a woman to be with them without sex. I guess you could chalk it up to differening levels of oxytocin. Some men get really intense feelings of tenderness for women. Now some men will roll their eyes at this, but then some other men will roll their eyes at the generally frat boy style of the reviews on this site that go into raunchy detail about sex positions etc.  

"you knew the job was dangerous when you took it" was a reference to superchicken, a cartoon by jay ward, the guy who created rocky and bullwinkle.  it was kind of a joke, sorry not to make that clear.

I will contact you to join me.  I BET with you at my side I would look a lot better in a tuxedo.