Hi Hobbyists & Ladies,

As most of you know I refuse to use the words that demean women! Isee a lot of terms such as h**ker being tossed around!!Yes,this is a P4P proposition & most women would not have fun w/ you outside the profession! I get that, but still, these are remarkable women who see us under these circumstances & should be treated w/ the respect they deserve!! I think if society would not see these women as h**kers & such, this profession would be more widely accepted & maybe legalized outside of Nevada!! After- all when you get down to it. it's just a job!!! As the great George Carlin one stated " selling is legal, fking is legal, so why is selling fking illegal?" So, back to my point are there others out there, such as me, who think women are the greatest creation of Mother Nature & regardless of  those who work in this profession, should be afforded the same respect, afforded all women outside of this business??

CF2

You're gonna have a huge fanclub of your own.....if you don't already! Lovely and sweet.
                                           Lil Dez

I happen to be up helping someone with a project and I have to agree . Its sometimes used in fun but
I think it should be joked about between two women not men who have abrasive conduct on here.
Thank you for posting that I am sure others will be glad to read this too.

Angela

I may not be as experienced as you, Cubbie, but I agree with you 100%.  Yes, it's P4P but it's also an intimate service that carries a lot of nuance and exposes both parties, literally but in other, more subtle ways.  I do believe there's a karma here, you get back what you put in.  I've adored every one of the ladies I've seen.

On it's own, the word hooker has no power.  Same for whore which used to be a civil term for providers.

I agree that we need to be cognizant of people's feelings, and not be boorish in the use of words, but remember, it is not the word that is the problem.

Any student of George Carlin will know that.

I don't know if I quite understand. Would that be like if you hosted a provider get together at your place you could proclaim, "I got all my hookahs in da house!". Is that kinda what you mean?

Absolutely!!! It just shows the overall attitude that sadly is the norm today. All women deserve respect no matter what their chosen profession. I'm new to this game but I have noticed a lot of degrading things said here, you're right it is just wrong. These lady's put their selves in a potentially dangerous position, when that hotel room door opens no matter how much she's screened it still could be some low life she's letting in to her room. I've only seen one lady but it was a great experience I treated her with the utmost respect and of course she took good care of me. Really guys most if not all of us wouldn't have a chance with women this hot in the real world, so be thankfull they are here for us. Show a little respect I know society looks down on these lady's but when you get down to it that hottie you're fucking is somebody's daughter, mother etc.. So treat her like the precious gift she is!!!!

Lol. Yes. Or like "Ho-Brunch this Friday. Y'all in?" via email.

Like:  Guy from this board organizes a Halloween meet n' greet called "Tricks & Treats" -- okay. Lady on this board writing "You all are just a bunch of pathetic tricks that can't get laid" -- not okay...

Correct me if I'm wrong

I kind of mean that in a joking way though like NO fuggin' SHIT the women in this hobby (SD sites too!) want your money rofl (you mean this ISN'T match.com/fling.com/adultfriendfinder where they only want your cock for free?!).  *gives side eye w/ a twist of the mouth*.  The sex and company is a GREAT plus but um nothing appealing about the thought of going home with newly fucked wet pussy with a dry purse.  No.

A lady that caters to one of the most present needs we have on a daily basis. I cannot think of a more respectable position to have. Who wants to see the doctor? Who wants to see the dentist? Who in the hell ever wants to hear from your congress representative? I don't want the school superintendent to call. The waitress can't make me feel nearly as good! Though I am thankful for all the people who work together to make life smooth, when my girl sets up a meeting with me, she is all I can think of and there is nothing I wouldn't do for her if I could.

While the intent is really only known by the user, there is the connotation that the rest of us see.

If the words hooker and whore can be used and we all should formulate what it means to us as an individual,, then why not use -- and -- and --? Shouldn't African Americans and Jews and homosexuals just read into it what they feel?  Because if everyone gave no power to words that some deem offensive, then we would be able to say what we want.

it's just that society seems to protect those that scream the loudest about the names they are called.

If those words are offensive then we should be using the  "h" and "w" words instead. Only those that are  of a particular persuasion have the luxury of calling each the word that not everyone is allowed to say..

Spend some time reading it...you'll be shocked at how some of the men talk about the women who work in this profession.

And I will never call theme anything other than there name.As far  as not having fun out side the hobby my ATF has took me out to the club we had great time.

I agree that words only have the power you give them. Some people use the words you mention when joking but never use them in a  situation where it would be offensive. I here women calling each other hooker all the time "hey hooker, what you do this weekend?"

As far as preferences I don't like the term whore, I find it derogatory in any way it's used, but that is my preference and may not be the same to others. I have said many times that I'm always respectful of any woman I'm with.

We have African American and Jews on this board, why is it that we all have spare their feelings and yet let the ladies deal with the intent (obviously NOT meant as a term of endearment) by being called a whore or a hooker?  Some might say thats what they are..well others might say say there are some niggers or kikes on the board too, however those terms are not allowed.

Why is it that some factions have to suck it up and others get the kid glove treatment? If political correctness is selective, then it's a joke.

Complete with august as well as proven successful insights.

Each word is subjective as well. What I find offensive you may not, and political correctness is a joke.

There are certain sacred cows among the victim classes, yet other people, issues, etc, are fair game. It's wildly uneven and complete bullshit. Case in point: You can advertise tobacco to women, but if you target the black community, you're suddenly pilloried as a racially motivated killer. Want to insult  Christians, fat people, Caucasians or males in general? You're probably okay. Self hating Jews tend to get a free pass, but if you brand Islam a barbaric depressor of women, you're toast. It's a complex dance that only results in more anger, less self determination of our own identity, and greater loss of free speech.
This entire farce actually harms gender and racial relations, because it creates an air of vengeance rather than discussion.

What happened to days when guys talked Sports, fucked broads, drank whiskey, and went hunting !!!

Now we can't say the word HOOKER anymore !!!

Some people take exception to being called a "whatever".  You can read in print, listen to media, watch TV or movies and there will always be those who find anything an affront.

Oh well...that's life.

Hookers...aren't they providers too?  

So I guess the victim classes get a pass so their feelings don't get hurt...pathetic. And those are the ones that tend to scream and cry the loudest if, universe forbid, someone calls them on their shit. And I have noticed that some of these tend to be the biggest bullies and a**holes on the board. Yep, now I get it, they're professional victims.




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to how people are treated behind closed doors rather than the label.

You know the word I find offensive...in a weird way... is "ATF".  Geez.. Whats happening to guys today. Get a new hooker already

I'm in your half, Cubbie. I believe that women who do this WELL should be treated like queens, instead of like criminals. I find them to be wonderful, open, giving, nurturing, and of course sexy as hell. I have a very low budget for hobbying, but I will never give it up and honestly don't know what I would do without it. Thank you, ladies; even if we don't agree or get along here on the discussion board, I love what you do and hold you in very high esteem.

There are men who hate the fact that they have to pay for it, or really just don't like women very much but have a need for sex, and so that fuels their hate. There are men who just get off on a power trip by demeaning the women that they sleep with, they probably do it the same in their civvie life as in this hobby.
Those men will never treat these women with respect, and in fact will get great pleasure by throwing in those so-called offensive words and then pretending to be shocked when people get offended.

Then there are women who hate being in this profession. They go one of two ways - either they are super sensitive about perceived insulting words, or they throw the words around themselves in a self-deprecating way to deal with their unhappiness. You will never change these ladies' minds, and they will continue on course until they get out of the profession.

It is absolutely true that it is the intention that matters, not the word. If it was the word, then "offensive" words would remain constant, and not change over the years as people's attitudes change. Negro, --, Colored, Black, African-American, et al; prostitute, hooker, escort, provider, streetwalker, whore... and so on. If they all mean exactly the same thing, then how can some be offensive while others aren't? Intent, and public acceptance. Which words offend you, and which are OK? I'll bet you a nickel that you won't get exactly the same answers from any two people.

of society.

Given that, we also know (at least ought to know) under what conditions and circumstances some words can and cannot be used.

That said, I am certainly not trying to license anyone to use words indiscriminately and certainly not to inflict pain on those undeserving of same.

My only point was to show that without intent, no word on it's own has the power to hurt.  This is why I hate the idea of enforced censorship, because censors never know the whole story.

If some being were to come down to our planet, and said being never saw a horse or a cart before, and then saw a horse pulling a cart, that being could be excused for thinking that the cart is pushing the horse along.  

In this analogy, the cart is the word, and the horse is the intent.  

The rest of us know better.

Sure seems that YOU scream the loudest on these boards.  As well as many others that you partake on.

Maybe you should have more meetings of the "I hate life and people" club...you're very good at it.  A leader..not so much  LOL

But you certainly make a good soldier  

It depends how the word is used. When certain members here refer to me as a hooker, it is more of a term of endearment like slapping me on the ass in a joking way to say "Good job girl," or "Now, go get em" like done in freaking professional sports. It is one thing if some outsider comes in and says, "Gee, look at you bunch of whores and johns here spreading disease." The intent behind a word always means more than the word itself, and quite frankly words only have power if you let them.

When I was in HS, the group I hung around with were all white...skip to 22 years old and they were all Asian and Black. I noticed how they all joked around calling each other the N word, and found it offensive at first. Then, I suddenly realized that THEY were not offended because it was amongst friends. If someone off the street would use that word towards them, they would get their ass kicked lol.

I don't know....I guess I just don't get offended over stuff like that. I have been called worse than a hooker.

This week the girly men and hateful faux hookers get to scream for a bit.

It's the way boards work  LOL

Posted By: CurlyW - Nats Fan

to how people are treated behind closed doors rather than the label.

You know the word I find offensive...in a weird way... is "ATF".  Geez.. Whats happening to guys today. Get a new hooker already

Most guys don't find Cubster's post sweet....

I meant because he is so sensitive lol. Was not a dig at anyone else you fker!! You know it turns me on when you boys call me a hooker bwahahahah.

Same thing I said, and very true. It is not another person's fault if we are offended. We can just as quickly get the fk over it lol.

I bet you go hunting too...

Because a person's race is not a choice...their occupation is. You can't polk fun at people who are born a certain way. That's just elementary. You can't go around calling people dykes and homos either, but calling a hooker OMG a freaking HOOKER, is not always offensive. At least to me, it's not because I am in fact working as a hooker at this point in time.

Your doc called and said that he's doubling your Xanax and Zoloft immediately.

Sure glad that you've turned a new leaf...I was starting to wonder  LOL

And you didn't call AA's --.  Or Jew's --.  You're slipping there hate monger  

Shouldn't you add that lesbo's and homo's should all be put to death as well?  Seems to go with your theme today!

Again, racial slurs and vocational context are not the same thing. We were not BORN hookers. It would be different if someone called a Doctor a hooker when that's not what she is, but last time I checked I get paid to fk. That makes me a hooker, whore, prostitute, escort...whatever. It is the intent behind the word.

Born white but act a certain way and that label stands. So why not for others who are born into their culture or skin but act in an unsavory fashion? Again, those who cry the loudest get a pass. How come they don't have to just get over it like the rest of us?

Sometimes it's not the occupation/skin color or culture but the attitude of someone no matter what their occupation is.

Yea, you saw how well that went over last time lol. Bottom line, you can't make another person not be offended. I choose to not overly obsess on the small shit, because I know when a guy like you refers to me as a hooker, it is not in a derogatory manner. As long as you don't attach the word "dumb" or "ugly" in front of hooker, I am all good bwahahaha.

Hell, girl I don't know lol. I am just telling you it seems more cruel to try and insult someone because of how they were born, vs. how they act and what they do. I can wake up one day, and no longer work as a hooker, but I can't exactly become Asian.

They also said you should have it with whiskey  

Which is used often so Noo one gets a free pass for crying tge lost. Wtf is that.
All races get called names and its not ok.
And I don't know anyone who opening calls whites white trash like a small group of prople call tge ladies hookers om this board. It's not the same, nor is -- to white trash...more like -- to cracks would be equivalent.

Hi Curly,

If mangina means respectful to all women & treats them all w/ respect I'll wear that badge w/ pride!! That's just me!! BTW, I never went hunting & I'm against guns, but that's a subject not meant for  GD board discussion!

However that does not stop the lesbian bullshit comments from a certain few. Would one person in particular go to his gay son's SO's house and start flinging around the word --? That same individual has no problem smearing lesbians on here.

Seriously though, if one does not like what others say regardless of orientation, skin color, ethnicity or religion...why is okay to dish it out to a few factions? That's right it's not. You might not mind being called a whore or a hooker, and there are some Jews that don't care if someone calls them a --, gays that don't mind -- or --...but to suggest some words are fine and others not is again, pathetic. Be one or none.

That's what I said lol. You cannot change the color of your skin or your sexual orientation...it is not really a choice, like CHOOSING to work as a hooker.

It has to do with the mindset or attitude of someone who just happens to be (fill in the blank). How is it that people get it when white trash is the topic..there are white people and then there is white trash. People nod and get it. Try that with something less PC and see what happens.

And so there are racial slurs, religious slurs sexual orientation slurs but when it comes to sexist slurs, well people just don't get it. These are alive and well. WHy not ban vocational slurs while we're at it.

Hi London,

..derogatory words!! That's just me!!  I sense that you're sweet as well BCD!!

it just gets on my goat when some slurs are okay but others are not. A slur is a slur and the very word slur is not used to compliment someone...so hiding behind "it's what you make it" is simply silly. As I have already said, why don't those so offended that it's not PC not to call them a slur, just suck it up like the rest of have to.

Or your thread might get pulled.also see people here are really passionate about using the word hooker, they may attack you for this post. Heaven forbid they couldn't use it.
To me it's redundant. IF you are talking about prostitutes and the only ladies on the board are prostitutes, why address them as prositutes everytime you talk about them? It's like if the only color people in the room are purple, it's a given and everytime you talk about them you'd just address them as people b/c making a point to call them purple everytime would just be dumb like duh they're purple. Duh, we're hookers, whores, sluts, prostitutes, any other name you want to call us, but duh also that we're the only ladies on the board, so to make a point to address us w/ a label each time is silly. But to each their own...i just tuini its redundant and a given.
That should be i think in the last sentence but my phone is acting up.
Thx for the post.
By the way, i yhink you all are fabulous men and would neverdisrespect you by using the word trivk, im glad you're like minded w/ the respect.

Hi Mr. F,

... on this issue!! The N-word, h**ker, wh*** and many other derogatory words describing certain people are hurtful & need not be in our lexicon!!

I love ya girl, but I think you're missing the point. How can the word "whore" or "prostitute" be a slur, when it's the TRUTH? A person who gets paid for sex is in fact a prostitute! A black person is NOT however the N word! They are black or African American. You are mixing slurs with the actual truthful words that define what we do. Maybe the word "hooker" might be considered a slur, but prostitute and whore are certainly NOT a slur. They are the words that define a person who gets paid to fk. That's in Websters as a DEFINITION, not a slur.

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and you get a pass, I say the same thing naming names and get called angry...hang on...professional hobbyist graduate stock answer. Never mind....

I do agree everyone should get over it and deal with the intent no matter what color of their skin, the religion or cult they belong to or their sexual orientation....but to single out a special few factions just because they cry loudest I think is pathetic IMHO. And I am female, gay and an escort.

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Nah, you can use the word trick, and many have lol. If a guy calls you a hooker and you don't like it, by all means call him a trick. Wanna know something funny? Some guys are offended when you call them "Professional Hobbyists" lol, so use that one.

Geez Louise...the insults and derogatory slurs that we slung during the games..and practices.

This goofy broad would be crying to the coach all fucking day  LOL

And wonder why HE doesn't ever put HER in the game!

Posted By: CurlyW - Nats Fan

They also said you should have it with whiskey  

Hi Curly,

You sway why (we use this term) I say why not? If a woman floats your boat & you make an appt; w/ her every time she's in town I'm going to call her an ATF!! I've had four in this hobby!! Just sayin' ! I have no need to make appts; w/ other women @ this time, because If it ain't broke don't fix it!!

Posted By: CurlyW - Nats Fan

to how people are treated behind closed doors rather than the label.

You know the word I find offensive...in a weird way... is "ATF".  Geez.. Whats happening to guys today. Get a new hooker already

The connotation it is used in defines the intent more often than not.

There would not be many ladies willing to book a guy who in his intro email says"I haven't been with a whore in a while so my whore references are a little slim, but you look fabulous, here's my screening info , the time I'd like to meet with you etc. etc.

Just because it's in Websters doesn't mean it's palatable to everyone.

Because they are the ones calling escorts the "h" word. I think guys would be more offended if we started calling them walking wallets or portable ATM's.

Who view you as just nice gentleman wanting some intimate time with a lady....thank you. You shall be afforded the same amount of respect you give.

I won't be able to keep on sneaking you in  

Next week is at Ridgetucky's...He's going to discuss the upcoming tour.

Should be a blast  LOL

to grow a pair....and I always let them know when KMart is running specials on balls and backbones.

But for you...just pick up another 9" dong and have at it!

You forgot to mention that many aren't so portable ATM's...too fucking fat to be portable  LOL

Hi Hobbyist & Ladies,

... way of thinking!!

What's so bad about trick?
To be honest. I could care less what word someone uses to describe me.
Client, and hobbyist suck though. I feel like I am going to have my taxes done, while building model airplanes.
It's just not sexy at all. Trick, and John just sound better to me.
Professional Hobbyist? That term is an oxymoron. All of you wonderful, incredibly beautiful, sweet, caring, intelligent, magnificent, god like creatures of the stars can call me whatever they want though.

Hi SS,

That's what I strive for on these boards & BCD!!

Now we come dressed casually.

I still like the gavel thing...but it's usually too loud in there what with all the swearing and name calling  LOL

You won't be late for this weeks Cubbie...right?  It's at Ridgetucky's joint...LR is bringing the refreshments since serpius is in alias mode.

You are still allowed one guest...entertain us and bring saturnsky.  That'll be a blast  

Maybe after that meeting she'll only hate on men...and not the entire world!

I think it's in the cave on the right complete with hunting bow and arrows, an unconscious women, some moonshine and a drum. Oh just kidding....and I am borrowing Bwaaaaaaahhhhhh.

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is the necrophilia club.

It's just too dead over there for me  

And I do have a TENS unit available.

...I see what you're saying Mr. Fisher, however having censorship for some and not all is unbalanced.  Rarely are words uttered without some sort of intent, the true meaning of that intent is only really known to the person who uttered said word/s. The general meaning or the perception is for the listeners to decide upon. Some will like what they hear, others will be offended.

Either we can use our internal filters or not. Some will and some won't. But to single out a few words and make those verboten is just asking for trouble. It diminishes the effect of other negative words   and allows people to use them as verbal weapons.

Clarence said it all too well, there are many names for women who get paid to have sex with men...there are some kinder and others just plain offensive. Why choose the more offensive when there are other options? The main reason is to harm.



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You have some great points, and I agree with most of it, though I disagree about the words "escort" and "prostitute" having the potential to be as offensive as "hooker" or "whore". The first two are descriptions used by the general public to name an occupation. There is a difference in definitions - an escort is more of a companion, a prostitute is more focused on sex acts - but usually the public uses those words synonymously, or uses escort as a euphemism for prostitute. If someone writes an article or a thesis about the subject, the words escort and prostitute are used, and they are not seen as offensive by the reader. The words "hooker" and "whore" have a very different connotation. Those words are not used in academia, and when they are used by the general public, they are meant to be offensive. (Yes, some may find it "funny" or "cute" to call each other names, say "hey, hooker, what's up", but I don't think that a teenager's vocabulary really makes a difference in this argument...) I would think that if anyone should be careful with those derogatory words, it should be the men using the services of escorts.

If I called someone a certain name and he or she told me that they found the word offensive, I would never use that word in relation to them again, unless I wanted to pick a fight, be nasty, or just annoy the person for my own amusement. It would be more of a testament to my “issues” than anything else. It is the same case on this board: the word hooker has been the source of an ongoing argument between a few people. Half a dozen people use the word freely, half a dozen keep asking them to stop, but it does not change, because the ones who use it seem to get off on offending the ones who are asking them not to use it.

Unfortunately what the very same men do not realize is that when words like “hooker” and “whore” are used on this board, it makes many of the women reading it (even the ones who don’t necessarily participate by posting) feel that these men are trying to be intentionally hurtful, and consciously or subconsciously, the women give them the same treatment in person. Few ladies are good enough actresses to pretend to like someone who is known to trash-talk "their kind"...

Then when these very same men have a horrible time in their appointments, it fuels their hatred further, because now they have spent their money on these "hookers" and they didn't have the same "once in a lifetime" experience that some other guy did (you know, the one who called her by her name instead of calling her hooker...) So they continue the name calling, trying to elevate it by inventing new ways to explain why the women are wrong for objecting to the use of the word... But the truth is that blaming someone for getting offended by your namecalling is not logical at all. If someone wanted to be reasonable and really cared not to hurt anyone’s feelings, the words "escort" and "client" would be pretty safe bets, or even "lady" and "gentleman" would work, since 99% of females posting here are escorts / prostitutes and 99.9% of men posting here are clients, so genders are pretty much a giveaway, we don't need to point out the obvious daily. Then again, the men who are so clearly resentful of having to pay escorts for their services seem to always use the word that has the most impact. If women on this board complained about being called “ladies”, I'm sure those certain few would use the word “lady” at all times. You just can't win with some people...

P.s. excuse the typos, spellcheck is broken..

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So in that context I guess you are also a hooker.  If you weren't doing that I would probably think that you're an escort, or companion as you prefer to illustrate for me...and simply, for example, escort a guy to a place.  Doesn't seem that's what YOU do.

And the other oxymoron you posted is that the gal wouldn't give the guy the good time he's looking for if you see him posting words YOU don't like.  Why in the hell would you see that guy?  Makes no fucking sense to me...but then I'm only a casual observer on these boards  LOL

Other than that...I agree with your observations 110%  

ALWAYS treat every lady you meet in your life with dignity and respect she deserves..anything less makes you less of a man..

White trash typically describes a white person that is poor or uneducated. You can still be considered white trash if you make $150,000 a year or more working overtime in a factory. Some of the factory union guys at Ford or GM qualify for this. They spend their money buying NASCAR crap, buying speed boats, hunting equipment and fishing gear while drive a "duelly pickup truck."

White trash is by far lower in society than Black trash ever can be viewed. The black trash usually has some sense of class and dignity and at least know how to dress other than a mullet.

Let the white trash keep working overtime hours in the factory. Lot's of working hours does not provide class!

and I do know what happens when we assume:

We make an ASS out of U and ME

Censorship is only meaningful when it is self censorship.

that they hate paying or they wouldn't use the term.
i never thought about it that way, but since you've brought it up, I can totally see it...just from rereading some of their posts. there's even an element of insecurity. how sad

I'm okay with being called a walking wallet (at least in her mind), I think, because until I prove myself as something different in a situation with a provider, then- it's apt.
If she decides we're going to be friendly, not friends but more than completely antiseptic participants in a business transaction, well, then that's cool too. I don't expect anything else, but one the other hand, my own hangups dictate that I hope for an accommodation between two adults that is mutually beneficial with a minimum of degradation. It's not my thing, and I don't want any part of it.
In that sense, my own nomenclature for a provider is based on our "relationship", and only that which we agree upon as being acceptable. I'm willing to bet it pays off in the long run, if I see a provider twice or more.

Being redundant in speech usually stems from two issues: laziness and disregard. Both go hand in hand. The curious part of offending a woman you want to pay for sexual relations is this- if you're a bit nicer, more thoughtful in your actions, want to bet who gets rewarded with a better effort, more emphasis on the fun, time over, etc?
In simple terms, money can get you laid by a provider, but honey gets her A game, every time.

it takes away any human element and puts you down as just a job to do. turn a trick. I like to think my clients are more than just a job or trick to turn.

Thanks for confirming what many of us thought

A hooker trying to pretend she isn't one.

Gottal love it  

Seems like so much of the back channel was right.  I was a tad skeptical...but you proved them right!

Most who complain only do so with the ugly hookers like you.  Might want to update those pics as well...too many guys are finally onto your nonsense.

And you bet there's a bunch of insecure johnnies here...you've met most of them already  

Hows that Minny winter going?

They see you for the hooker that you advertise yourself as.

But if you need to think it's more...go for it!

honey  LOL

Nice try  

Can you come up with something original?

And get up off your knees as well...trust me mac...bring them Uncle Ben and they all will perform.

Honestly  

I think if the profession was legalized it would be better for all parties. Safer too.

Yep...makes sense to me  LOL

Nope, honey is the part where she pretends to understand the depth of my caring, and I in turn fully grasp her need to pay her mortgage- I just do it nicely.

Na na nanana

Dear Cocksucker ,

Your client emailed me today he said he met your ho ass and that you treated him just fine.
Now can you do me a favor when your  tramp ass out of bed can you give your sister ho
a holler so I know what I am about to mess around with is safe?

There might even be a guest appearance on 30 Rock for you.

Sometimes Liz needs that type of wry humor to counteract that nasty misogynist Jack  LOL

BTW...it's not a mortgage...it's rent  

Posted By: ring1975

Nope, honey is the part where she pretends to understand the depth of my caring, and I in turn fully grasp her need to pay her mortgage- I just do it nicely.

I was talking about two women teasing each other in private .

That type gives me the heebie jeebies...

Some guys just like to have ATF. If everyone was the same it be dull World.

I hate those guys...so weird  

Posted By: saturnsky

That type gives me the heebie jeebies...

If I were anything else..
I run the risk of falling in Love.
Women on this forum are too interesting.
I would rather keep away.

just wanting a sensual experience in an unconventional way, no I'll address you as just another "job", that is of course if you insist, Mr. Trick.

Otherwise if you change your mind, you'll always be a human or man first and foremost to me, one who deserves some respect, so I'll call you a client. I respect my clients b/c they aren't "jobs", just men seeking some erotic fun, something I like to share with them.

Have a good night, Mr. Trick...if you insist...

I agree with you...I think fuck all of that could have been said with half the words.

My point is the same as yours, I don't treat women as a hole to fuck, or use and degrade. That does not mean I can't be aggressive when she wants me to "take that pussy". I have said many times on these borads I treat women with respect and that is all I will ever do. From what I read in your post, you treat them the same way. I also agree I think it will pay off in the long run.

This place is about finding someone you can have fun with. It's just a hobbyman.

Cake= LOVE. :-P *high five*

You're right, I got too wordy, but I agree with you- if she says "Get it, dude", I'll go like Grant taking Richmond. You hit it on the head- I want to have fun, or rather, all the best fun parts of a crazy ex-girlfriend without the problems, and I sense that if we're both on the same page, even better.. If she makes her car payment on my dime, more power to her.

I noticed Saturnsky said that sometimes providers find a part of their job "gross". My GOAL is to never be a part of a transaction that can be defined as "gross". That's why I'm being so choosy, thus far, it's working.

That maybe I want zero emotional attachment for my own protection?
It's reassuring to me given your mean attitude that I may be smart to do such a thing.
Having sex is fun. That is where I leave it.
You can try to figure me to be an asshole all you want.
Truth is. I'm just protecting myself from heartbreak.
Your negativeness combined with hatred toward most men, probably veiled in beauty are a very dangerous combination.
Actually proves my point.
What am I the first guy in the world to say he has a soft spot for women? That I can be easily manipulated because I like to please? People like me have to be careful. Especially around women like those here. I will do anything for someone I like. Usually at my own expense.
So yea. I guess I am Mr. Trick.
Thanks though.
It's good to know that you will always assume anything one of these "Clients" says here is always mean, and negative toward women. Very telling.
So now you can call me a pussy. Okay?

We seem to have the same fan club...

I'm the farthest from that.
I'm sweet and caring and think all men should be treated with respect, which doesnt mean an emotional attachment.
I can offer zero emotional attachment and respect to my clients. I do so all the time. It's good you want to protect yourself, I just don't think it's better to disrespect clients with name calling vs. no name calling but creating boundaries to protect us both.
Sorry agsin that my post can off wtong...wrong...I was just pokibg fun at your request to be called a trick. I'd rather respect you.

I have no need to be given respect. So keep it for yourself.
I earn respect. The old fashioned way.
So you and your Clients can go....... For a swim.
Nice try back-paddling though. I see through you.

or backpedaling when that's not even my style. lol...but ok.

I'm just glad I like enjoy the positive life has to offer and wear positive rose colored glasses that don't see negative when it's not there.........................guess we're all different though.

namaste and feel better soon.

i'm not sure of the good old fashioned way, I'm not old, but I always learned to give others respect until they show they're not worthy.
You no longer have mine, so no worries, I'll keep it.
namaste

Again I find myself apologizing for being insulted.
Sorry we don't see this the same way.
Saying you respect someone you never, or just met is stupid.
If you respect me for what I type here? Forget that.

What is odd.
This whole thing started because I said I like the word Trick.
Not the meaning, but the sound.
It turned into something I did not expect.
I hate fighting. So I say you win... My respect.

You're also getting blacklisted before I leave the parking lot.