I don't know if I quite understand. Would that be like if you hosted a provider get together at your place you could proclaim, "I got all my hookahs in da house!". Is that kinda what you mean?

Absolutely!!! It just shows the overall attitude that sadly is the norm today. All women deserve respect no matter what their chosen profession. I'm new to this game but I have noticed a lot of degrading things said here, you're right it is just wrong. These lady's put their selves in a potentially dangerous position, when that hotel room door opens no matter how much she's screened it still could be some low life she's letting in to her room. I've only seen one lady but it was a great experience I treated her with the utmost respect and of course she took good care of me. Really guys most if not all of us wouldn't have a chance with women this hot in the real world, so be thankfull they are here for us. Show a little respect I know society looks down on these lady's but when you get down to it that hottie you're fucking is somebody's daughter, mother etc.. So treat her like the precious gift she is!!!!

While the intent is really only known by the user, there is the connotation that the rest of us see.

If the words hooker and whore can be used and we all should formulate what it means to us as an individual,, then why not use -- and -- and --? Shouldn't African Americans and Jews and homosexuals just read into it what they feel?  Because if everyone gave no power to words that some deem offensive, then we would be able to say what we want.

it's just that society seems to protect those that scream the loudest about the names they are called.

If those words are offensive then we should be using the  "h" and "w" words instead. Only those that are  of a particular persuasion have the luxury of calling each the word that not everyone is allowed to say..

Same thing I said, and very true. It is not another person's fault if we are offended. We can just as quickly get the fk over it lol.

Hi Mr. F,

... on this issue!! The N-word, h**ker, wh*** and many other derogatory words describing certain people are hurtful & need not be in our lexicon!!

Spend some time reading it...you'll be shocked at how some of the men talk about the women who work in this profession.

Some people take exception to being called a "whatever".  You can read in print, listen to media, watch TV or movies and there will always be those who find anything an affront.

Oh well...that's life.

Hookers...aren't they providers too?  

Hi Curly,

If mangina means respectful to all women & treats them all w/ respect I'll wear that badge w/ pride!! That's just me!! BTW, I never went hunting & I'm against guns, but that's a subject not meant for  GD board discussion!

You have some great points, and I agree with most of it, though I disagree about the words "escort" and "prostitute" having the potential to be as offensive as "hooker" or "whore". The first two are descriptions used by the general public to name an occupation. There is a difference in definitions - an escort is more of a companion, a prostitute is more focused on sex acts - but usually the public uses those words synonymously, or uses escort as a euphemism for prostitute. If someone writes an article or a thesis about the subject, the words escort and prostitute are used, and they are not seen as offensive by the reader. The words "hooker" and "whore" have a very different connotation. Those words are not used in academia, and when they are used by the general public, they are meant to be offensive. (Yes, some may find it "funny" or "cute" to call each other names, say "hey, hooker, what's up", but I don't think that a teenager's vocabulary really makes a difference in this argument...) I would think that if anyone should be careful with those derogatory words, it should be the men using the services of escorts.

If I called someone a certain name and he or she told me that they found the word offensive, I would never use that word in relation to them again, unless I wanted to pick a fight, be nasty, or just annoy the person for my own amusement. It would be more of a testament to my “issues” than anything else. It is the same case on this board: the word hooker has been the source of an ongoing argument between a few people. Half a dozen people use the word freely, half a dozen keep asking them to stop, but it does not change, because the ones who use it seem to get off on offending the ones who are asking them not to use it.

Unfortunately what the very same men do not realize is that when words like “hooker” and “whore” are used on this board, it makes many of the women reading it (even the ones who don’t necessarily participate by posting) feel that these men are trying to be intentionally hurtful, and consciously or subconsciously, the women give them the same treatment in person. Few ladies are good enough actresses to pretend to like someone who is known to trash-talk "their kind"...

Then when these very same men have a horrible time in their appointments, it fuels their hatred further, because now they have spent their money on these "hookers" and they didn't have the same "once in a lifetime" experience that some other guy did (you know, the one who called her by her name instead of calling her hooker...) So they continue the name calling, trying to elevate it by inventing new ways to explain why the women are wrong for objecting to the use of the word... But the truth is that blaming someone for getting offended by your namecalling is not logical at all. If someone wanted to be reasonable and really cared not to hurt anyone’s feelings, the words "escort" and "client" would be pretty safe bets, or even "lady" and "gentleman" would work, since 99% of females posting here are escorts / prostitutes and 99.9% of men posting here are clients, so genders are pretty much a giveaway, we don't need to point out the obvious daily. Then again, the men who are so clearly resentful of having to pay escorts for their services seem to always use the word that has the most impact. If women on this board complained about being called “ladies”, I'm sure those certain few would use the word “lady” at all times. You just can't win with some people...

P.s. excuse the typos, spellcheck is broken..

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Most guys don't find Cubster's post sweet....

Hi London,

..derogatory words!! That's just me!!  I sense that you're sweet as well BCD!!

Nah, you can use the word trick, and many have lol. If a guy calls you a hooker and you don't like it, by all means call him a trick. Wanna know something funny? Some guys are offended when you call them "Professional Hobbyists" lol, so use that one.

Being redundant in speech usually stems from two issues: laziness and disregard. Both go hand in hand. The curious part of offending a woman you want to pay for sexual relations is this- if you're a bit nicer, more thoughtful in your actions, want to bet who gets rewarded with a better effort, more emphasis on the fun, time over, etc?
In simple terms, money can get you laid by a provider, but honey gets her A game, every time.

Can you come up with something original?

And get up off your knees as well...trust me mac...bring them Uncle Ben and they all will perform.

Honestly  

Then they wouldn't be hookers?

Yep...makes sense to me  LOL