So I'm traveling to a large, West Coast city this week (hint: it might be named Seattle) and have had a terrible time securing a date.  

When I send email I am polite, maybe a little funny, show I've read the lady's website, include screening info (I have enough OKs and references to make the most cautious fell OK,) and suggest a definite day/date/time to meet. Usually it works pretty well. Not these last few days.  

Friday of last week: Look at reviews on TER, find someone who looks just perfect for me, fill in the booking form on her site. Crickets. Write her directly, no answer. Realized she hasn't posted an add for six months and last review was four months ago, decide she's moved on/taking a break.

Sunday Night: Used TER again, found another person that looked like a great match and had reviews in the last four or five months. Email bounces back as address not in use.  

Monday (today):  
- Found someone else who looked really interesting, her P4-you-know-what  page said see website for rates. Problem is, her website is down. PM'd her a few rates question. That was 12 hours ago (OK, I'm getting impatient), no reply
- Sent another young lady a few questions - again polite, respectful and showing I'd read her site. At least 12 hours in, no reply. In fairness, this time I didn't set a time/date since I just had a question (though depending on answer I probably would have booked)

I don't think I'm doing anything wrong. I wrote three great ladies I've seen asking if I could use them as a reference and all of them got back to me in less than an hour with an enthusiastic yes.  

I get it - people are busy, the nature of the business is that people move in-and-out (no, I won't make a joke, though I want to), and it's easier to get info up on the web then take it down. And, know... 12 hours isn't that long to wait, especially when the clock started early in the day.  

Still...  It just starting to feel way to much like work.

Thanks, I feel better now!

/rant of

You mention P411, so I assume you are a member. When checking out P 411 profiles it shows when the last time the woman logged onto her account. I would advise ONLY contacting providers who have logged in recently, or even better, reach out to women who are actually online when you send your PM/Appointment request. I am lousy at following rules, so I usually reach out to the ladies via PM rather than an appointment request, but the rules do say that the women are required to respond to appointment requests, whereas they are not required to respond to PMs. You might keep that in mind when contacting P 411 providers, but also keep in mind that while I am not following the rules to the letter, I am not the one having problems getting responses.

It is kind of funny, some people, both hookers and johns alike, seem to have nothing but problems, while others never seem to have any of the same kind of issues. I am a believer that when things only seem to happen to you, most likely you need to look inward for the problem and the solution and not outward.

I didn't realize that P411 girls were required to respond to appt requests, but good to know.

I also one hundred percent believe that luck is what happens when opportunity meets preparation, which since you control at least one of these, you can pretty well make your own luck. Still, any one or two rolls  of the dice can land in any way and bad things do sometimes happen to good people. It's just a question of how often

Why not contact the ladies that are advertising with a recent ad on the ad board there? If lady has an ad on the TER Seattle board within the last week-10 days there is a greater chance you'll get a response. And as GaG said try ladies on P411 who have logged on recently or are online when you are.

I hope you have better luck now...

Steph xoxo

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I have learned after many years in the hobby to NO LONGER tolerate crappy customer service. One good way to weed out the bad ones is to send out multiple inquiries to multiple providers.  

The ones that respond in a timely manner are more likely to offer better customer service. They are also more deserving your business because obviously they are more needy than the ones who only respond or work whenever they feel like it because they are already loaded.

It's only logical that the ones you found most "hyped" with reviews are the ones many other guys feel the same about. That's why they would be popular like hot cakes.

active providers and you may get a better response.

Just saying

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Afraid I was so focused on finding something that exactly fit what I was looking for I overlooked the obvious. Thanks

contact was over a weekend and the possible difference in time zones.

Don't think you really did anything wrong. Good luck!

The other nice thing with using P411 messages  is that you can see if they have read it.
If they read it and do not get back  to you start looking sooner then later.

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Unfortunately, even though Peefourfourone ladies are supposed to respond, some don't.   I don't have a huge sample size, but at least three pee ladies simply never responded -- though I can tell in two cases they looked at my info (as revealed in the tracking area.)    

three referrals if they know anyone in that area. If THEY don't  
maybe they can reach out to their friends to see if they know someone.  

This can be an 'as small as it is large' community.

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google and I are in a conspiracy to take over the world.

Other than that, I was just playing with words.