I have had a guy reach out to me more than once for an appt when I tour his area.
He has explained he has some kind of tracking app on his phone(I am assuming his wife/significant other put it on there.
He is still trying to see providers. He proposed to me the following screen him and once appt is set.
He leaves his phone at the office.
Which means that he would need room# and hotel info upfront hours prior to appt to allow for drive time.
I told him I was not comfortable seeing him and why not just get a hobby phone instead of the whole leaving the "tracked phone" in the office drawer. No response from him on that question.
He had a reference that i guess is okay with this type of appt set-up

I don’t hide things from my wife. We just play together  I would never stay in any relationship where my s/o wanted to have me use a tracking app lol.

Why put up with this? Unless you're desperate, which I doubt you are, given your experience.
Just tell him you'd love to see him when he gets a burner phone.

Tell the cheap bastard to buy a burner phone for the day lol

Sounds flaky.  Avoid.  It is pretty easy to buy another phone.  He sounds cheap or creepy or both.

Trusting your gut & intuition is everything in this game, which I'm sure you already know. There's a fine balance between the lure of making this money to survive, and then again surviving. If you're questioning it, you already found your answer. Stay safe beautiful

For whatever offenses,  an untrustworthy individual is the only person who would accept a tracking device AND not have the common sense to get a burner for seeing escorts.

problem just looking for a place to happen.  Why can't this guy go to a 7-11 and anonymously buy a burner phone?  This smells so fishy to me, I would not even consider it if I were you.  Just my opinion.  

note that it’s just cheaper to buy a burner phone?  

I thank God every day that I never got married!

I would never consider seeing a client that I described.  
It was just strange and sounded very suspicious to me.
I was very surprised he had someone who would see him under those conditions.

Not on you, but on him. This sounds more like a way to extract your hotel/room number well in advance of his appointment time than anything.

He is weirdly manipulative. Playing games. I would ignore. This crap need to be shut down.

What's the logical threat of an early room#?  Or I should say, does a last minute room number buy any actual protection?
 Evil isn't ruled by the clock.
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So if I wanted to stalk a provider and getting the room number was part of my evil plan ... what difference does it make what the time on the walk clock it is when I get the info?
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Case 1:  Guy goes through screening, date and time is set, but guy asks for early room number.
Case 2:  Guy goes through screening, data and time is set, guy waits for last minute room number.
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In either case the guy gets her room number at some point.  At that point he can do what he intends to do.  He doesn't actually have to show up after getting the room number at the last minute.  Nothing compels him to thwart his evil plan.
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So I don't see the logic of withholding the room number until the last minute.  My understanding of the two call system is for scheduling efficiency ... the lady can get the first customer out before letting the next in.  There appears to be no other real protective benefit.

I would never put myself at such risk nor would I recommend you! This guy sounds delusional!  
Keep safe ladies!!
Xo Deja

....was his last name Manson???

I have a protcol or SOP if you will which sounds very similar to yours.  It may be "old school" but it has kept me trouble free, virtually worry free and both myself and  my Clients safe as well for many years along with some serious screening requirements.  Me personally being a non-conformist at heart and a free spirit I find it absolutely necessary to have a concrete process and force myself to stick with it for the better of all involved even when I feel, i should be more lenient ....just this one time.  A few years back I let one  slide a little and gave up my location in advance because he was going to do a drive by on the way to catch a flight.   He called and stayed in touch allegedly because his meeting was running late I gave in, i had nothing else going on so I was patient.  A couple of more calls which I thought was nice of him, but by the 3rd I realized,something changed in his manner and upon questioning found that for the last 2 hours he had been slamming them down at the bar across the street  and now that he had a pending case of "whiskey dick" he was ready to drop in......NOT.  I tried to placate him  and kept him on the phone while getting into street clothes and passed,his drunk ass in the hall headed to my room....where after waiting on the elevator  for at least 5 minutes he was still beating on my door drunkenly.  Never again and being pragmatic about your situation,  if it looks like a duck, sounds like a duck, walks like a duck....i dont have to step in any green slimy smelly droppings to believe it is a duck.   As for those who seem as usual to have better thoughts, idea or plans on how we handle things....I am always happy to hear new ideas but when you start sucking dick.....I will probably find it more relevant

I just mentioned a recent thread where many providers, the OP included stated their reasons and their preference for not giving out the room number until the last minute, or the hotel until the last hour or so and that the would be client she was talking about sounded like a guy trying to circumvent her policy.

Technically, youre right. If the provider has the guys personal info and is comfortable with seeing him, it doesn't matter that much when she gives info to him.

I don’t know. Now he has to dispose of the burner phone after the date.??  How do you explain a 2nd phone to your wife. Is there a Staples or A place he could check his email close to the incall?

Jaydalee wasn't sure who is tracking the guy's phone but assumed it was his wife. Maybe he's got a company phone with required tracking and logging. Maybe "the company" he works for is LE and it's the SOP in that city. Some employees are required to have a company phone and to be available / on call 24/7 (or at least for specific chunks of time when a live person must be available for emergencies).  
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I think lester's point about efficiency is also about courtesy. Who wants to cross paths with some other guy, coming OR going? Not me. And, the courtesy of having my hostess be at ease and most comfortable is important to me, too.

you are too stupid to play this game at all.

How many years ago did you give your balls to your wife?  Sounds like you can't be on the internet unless your wife is standing next to you, but then that raises the question of how you get on to post here.  Are you at a staples when you post?  There is no woman in this world that I would love enough to put up with these kinds of restrictions and concerns.      

I agree that allowing someone, ANYONE to put a tracking app on your phone is akin to simply cutting off your own nuts and handing them to her, or him, whichever the case might be.

1-Your wifey walked out on you years ago because she had evidence from your cellphone that you were eating alot of Korean food.

You go ahead and say something I can't even argue with. lol

which most of us do, then its often a 4-call system if you prebook a day in advance with certain bookers.  First text is making the appt for the next day, then at 8:30 in the morning on the day of your appointment you get a text asking you to confirm that you're still coming at the time you booked only one day before.  Then you text when you arrive at the location, then wait while she checks with the girl and gets back to you.  Altogether its four exchanges in 24 hours.  The OC guys are more laid back, and skip the morning confirmation text unless you booked more than two days in advance.  Its an efficient way for a booker to manage 8 girls, but a nuisance sometimes to be part of the assembly line of trying to get 4-8 guys into their respective locations, often at the same exact starting time.    LOL

Is having a Psycho wife! Fuck that! If any woman put a tracking app on me, she'd be taking the train.
That being said...I didnt do this while married, and wasn't a cheater. Nutshelled...I used to be normal.
Just knowing how it works, I would never ask for location and room number from the jump.
But I live in BFE, so when I partake, I do need the address with up to 2 hours advance notice, due to commute. Room number....only upon arrival, and go ahead.

The only way to be able to even bring charges, much less get a conviction is if one or both of them ADMITTED that money was involved. Two people fucking, even if one of them is a known hooker is still NOT against the law. Unless one of the two of them are stupid enough to "confess" there is nothing for LE to charge either party with.  

Yeah, thats why I said catching them fucking wouldn't really be a case. Without the undercover to actually prove the exchange of money....well, you just interrupted two ppl getting busy.

and yes, there are some really creepy motherfuckers out there who like to scope out a providers incall location, check out who is coming and going before their own appointment, or who like to simply show up early and expect the lady to see them 30 minutes before their scheduled appointment time, even if she is entertaining another client at the time. Can you say "awkward" lol

stay married who is even capable of busting in on him while he's with another woman?  Or who puts a tracking app on him.  Her mindset must produce a completely miserable existence for him.  No wonder he cheats, but why not have balls and just jettison the bitch?

Yeah it was very weird a client would confess to having a tracking app on his phone.
 I have been around too long I can smell bs a mile away. lol

That sounds like you a dodged a real problem! Whoa  drunk and yelling in the hallway? Yikes!

BINGO, This is the practical answer.

Excellent advice.

So I have no interest in whatever your lies de jour are, but a PM from another member just informed me that you have finally revealed what your stalking is all about.  You're White Knighting for some hooker you're in love with that I must have said something negative to.  I'm an asshole, but like GaG, I'm an equal opportunity asshole.  If a hooker says something really stupid here then I'm just as likely to comment on it as I am if a monger said it.  The problem with losers like you, is you can't separate fantasy and from reality, so you're willing to look like a compete imbecile to try to impress a woman who does not give two cents about you.  

If you can't see my posts, how do you reply to them?  (LOL)   Its good to have you out of the closet.

That's crazy.  He needs to get a burner or give it up.  That's what you call asking for it, too much risk either way.

I think it's weird he would divulge that information. If OP needs the business, I understand the ask. But once you start letting things slide, that's when "mistakes" are made. Part of this is control and seeing if he respects you and your rules. If he doesn't now what says he will when he is with you alone in person, "c'mon baby I don't want to use a condom" or "I want to do Greek c'mon I'm just going to put in just the tip". Maybe he's feeling you out to see how weak you are or how badly you need the date.

So how come you let Mrs. CDL walk all over you?  Its not that she made out well from the divorce as the supermarket job doesn't pay very much, however she says your embarrassment was worth every penny.

Dude....wtf did CDL do to you that has you going on and on and on with these rants? I get it....you dont like him, but ive never seen anyone on here chase comments like this.

I don't want to call out any particular expressions of animosity, but there seem to be quite a few people here who can't seem to let go of long running feuds -- some apparently going back years.   Exercises in futility.  

for me.  Apparently, one of his hookers posted something here that I responded to negatively and he has been white-knighting for her ever since, following me around with attack posts.  I've got him on ignore, so I could care less what mental masturbation he puts up.  Some guys just don't realize when you give up your balls to a women, this is how you end up, a very visible pathetic excuse for a man.  

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I have no hookers here.  You are a bully and needed to be put in your place.  Mr. All World TER kept protecting his penchant for cheap dates by putting down any providers that were in higher brackets because they were all the same.  

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/politics-and-religion-39/libs-in-government-----364580?frmSearch=1#364580

I have been able to stack my two stalkers on top of each other.  I got a double "Users post on ignore".  Looks kind of cool to have that kind of power over losers.   Bwahahahahahahaha

The good news for us is that when the COVID 19 conditions subside (I can be an optimist since surviving 4 years of a crook in Washington) we will have some kind of a GT and Mr. DoucheBag (CDL) won't be able to go and identify himself.  Maybe we will have two on consecutive nights (LA and OC).

two guys are pretty much conceding that I own them outright, would you be interested in buying a second-hand  stalker?  I'll make you a good price.  I've trained them to follow me around like dogs, so I'm sure they could adapt to a new owner.  You don't have to worry about letting them around your females.  Neither one can get an erection.  The big one has in incontinence problem to boot, so you're going to need to buy Depends by the case, and the little one's not too bright, but that makes him a source of amusement for you and all  of your friends as it has for me and mine.  That's why I will sell either one cheap.  PM me if you want to pick up your own USED stalker at a bargain  price. (Much cheaper than trying to get a new one.)  They say you're nobody on the internet until you have a stalker.  Think it over, my friend.   You just need to make them think they are making a difference.  Of course, its a crock, but they don't know it.  Bwahahahaha

I am truly trying to figure out what in the hell is going on? lol
This thread went left somewhere.

two stalkers that have shown a level of commitment, dedication, loyalty and admiration for me that is usually only found in dogs.  If there are others here that need one, since I have two, I'm willing to sell one.    You can leave them on ignore, like I do, and they will have no effect on you personally.  Just engage them a little in the beginning until they are hooked on you.  They have little will of their own, so they are easy to manipulate.  Are you interested?

"This thread went left somewhere. "

All of that work strategizing when literally all he has to do is get a damn flip phone lol. The longer the story, the weirder I feel imo

Seriously, it costs like 15 bucks. With all he's paying to see escorts, what're another 15 bucks for that day? lol

That's what your 30 minute special girls tell you.  Its a little more work to take your pants down because it is so small that its the only way that you are showing off.

...supposedly can't see anything I said.  I didn't say anything negative about you.  I merely followed up another poster with your own words to show you are also a racist against Blacks:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/politics-and-religion-39/libs-in-government-----364580?frmSearch=1#364580

Drinking on the boat again?  LOL

What could go wrong? Guy wants maximum time and waits by elevator in the hallway on the same floor. I've had it happen to me, a bit awkward. Its also time management with 'new' client. As noted, you don't want guys passing each other. One needs to be gone, time to freshen up, then you call-in the next guy.  

BigPapasan,

get together like this, you are the bottom.  I'm not surprised.  Bwahahahaha

you have people on "ignore", too?  BTW, I have never had you on ignore, but I don't read all of your posts.   It depends on the headline and the first sentence.

She saw him several times.  He was a very successful professional and easily passed screening.  What he did was to go to his health club and leave his phone in his locker and go see the provider.  Afterwards, he would retrieve his phone and go back to his office.  That way his wife could tell he was at the health club if she checked.  The only limitation is that the provider had to be relatively close to his health club and office.  This is in Los Angeles so he was unfortunately limited to only about 1000 providers.

JaydaLee here's my reply. I've wanted to see you for years! I can give two shits what anyone else thinks about you or their marital situation! I'm not married, never have been, probably cuz I never met you!

When he gets to the hotel have him go to the front desk and say Im sorry my cell phone died and I dont know what room my friends in. Can i borrow a phone to call her cell phone real quick to get the room number. Her cousin booked it for her and I forgot the cousins name.
Now when he calls you simply say I'll be right down.
If your not feeling it go back upstairs and he has no idea what ur room # is

She could just let him fix his own "fake problem"  

"Cancel culture," but if putting them on ignore is part of it, I guess I'm officially in.  Lol

You have to admit it feels good and is empowering to put trolls on ignore.

In the US from April 2018 was a kind of cancellation on a lot of the trolls, too.  It was a peaceful, slower-paced time for those of us that remained on the boards, but we still managed to create some spirited back and forths on P & R.  Even though that lower-volume period enhanced many of the friendships I have here with other mongers, I think its better to have more participants, even if it means tolerating the mere existence of the trolls.

...a witty riposte to someone else's post.  They stick their heads in the ground to avoid reading posts to which they have no reply.  Laffy, coeur-de-lion and Black-Panther are prime examples of losers who use "Ignore" because they can't compete intellectually.  I've kicked all their asses - that's why they have me on "Ignore."  Look no further than this very thread - coeur-de-lion is so butt hurt from having his ass kicked by me that he still has to use ad hominem attacks even though he supposedly can't read my posts.  He said this: " Neither one can get an erection.  The big one has in incontinence problem to boot, so you're going to need to buy Depends by the case, and the little one's not too bright, but that makes him a source of amusement..."
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/lester-since-these------975992?page=1

That says one of my stalkers is butt-hurt over being "cancelled."   Since nobody else engages with him except my other stalker, he is now completely irrelevant.   I will have to get used to having this much power over them.  Bwahahahaha

Well CDL--I've just checked in and found that you couldn't leave well enough alone.
I'm not cancelled.  Others to follow with their confirmation.
Oh, there were only two, RIGHT!

Providers are smart to avoid any potential conflicts and stay drama-free.

On any other day I would 100% agree with you , I myself have turned people away who have said this but I have also allowed this before but only because he was reffered to me by another provider.

It's a long thread and I doubt you read every reply, but Jaydalee already mentioned that she had ZERO desire to see this guy. I can definitely understand you missing that in a thread with so many replies to it.

This thread has taken  couple of turns some for the worse and has continued for a surprisingly lengthy period however  it should be the opener in a new Forum. "JUST STUPID"  

You have posters on "Ignore" but you claim someone sent you a PM telling you what the "ignored" post says.  Do you really expect anyone to believe that you didn't read the "ignored" post yourself?

"bottom" this time.  Its a plus that  you guys are "versatile."  Bwahahahahaha

"I take it your resort to . . . a personal attack means I got it right.  Thanks."

You're not completely off track see keeps me grounded and financially stable. Otherwise, you girls would take it all

believe he has an issue.Or if he does it does not need to be now my issue.
He said he had a Life360 app or something on the phone.
I have no idea what that is nor was I interested in entertaining anymore correspondence with this individual.
It is not that hard to get a burner phone and hide it wherever.I know guys as I am sure you do as well including yourself that have been seeing providers for years with no issues like this.