I contacted a provider via email, had a chat on yahoo, and sent my pic (she requested). Right after I sent the pic, she quit communicating with me.
Normally, I would just take this as a sign and let the matter drop. However, her email is traceable to an actual person and can be used to get her real name, address, picture and other information.
Should I email her and let her know this? I do not wish to be a pest or appear to be a stalker.
Any guidance, especially from the ladies would be appreciated.
Firstly, if she'd decided not to see you she should have been polite enough to let you know and not just start ignoring.
If her personal details are traceable through her email address then that is a potential danger to her safety and she really should know about it. It's hard to inform her given the situation.
My first thought would be to leave a couple of weeks then write her a polite email saying you realise she doesn't want to see you, you have no hard feelings towards her as that is her right but that she might like to know her personal info is traceable. You will have to take care in writing the email so she doesn't perceive it as any kind of threat because she's cut contact with you. But I do believe you'd be doing her a favour by letting her know.
Telling her ANYTHING, for her safety or not, has a massive potential for getting you in hot water in some fashion.
Believe me, I speak from experience on this one. DO NOT, under any circumstances tell her she is traceable! She will assume you traced her, claim you were stalking her, the authorities will get involved, and your life will be considerably F**Ked up.
I was involved in a circumstance where I found out that a BUSINESS associate (a woman of course) had a traceable email address. Met this lady maybe half a dozen times for business, nothing intimate or personal, and when I casually informed her of the fact that she was traceable, I got hit with a sexual harassement suit! A year and $9,500 in lawyer's fees later, I fended off the suit and now have my life back. And this was from a BUSINESS association!
Take care! Some women are just F**King crazy (as are some men of course). Never can tell when you have met the loon that will try to screw you up for the fun of it.
While I'd like to agree with Carrie, because this girl needs to know she's traceable, you're not the one to tell her. Loarthan is right, being a Good Samaritan here will probably be misunderstood, and who knows how she will react? Cut your losses and bail.
Once upon and time in a local mall some paranoid chic ID's me as a guy who had been skulking around her place. It took 3 months of bullshit to get the authorities off my back. In the end they admitted this woman had a history of paranoia and had pointed the finger several times at several guys. You'd have thought I was a suspect in a major crime during all this.
It's sad but if any attempt by you to protect this woman is taken out of context and she were to contact the authorities you will be for all intents and purposes guilty until such time as you prove otherwise. Ditch the protective instinct and move on IMO.
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