I am posting a review of a provider who I had seen before and advanced money for our next meeting only to have her no show and make excuses. I had previously gave provider a good review and told her I planned to update with a bad ripoff review, only to be told “ go ahead, I will complain to TER that I never saw you and have review removed”

You can not write a review of a session that never happened.

If I've read your post correctly, you already wrote a positive review and planned to update it after a second session.  That session seems not to have happened.  TER rules say you can't write a review for a session that never happened, so the girl is right in this case.  If you submit it she can now use your own post to prove no second session took place.  IOW, you've screwed yourself because you do not understand TER rules.
And just FYI, while you can write a second review for a session that DID happen, you will get no additional VIP days for it.

That's what you should be posting on your regional board.

Never advance money to a provider. With her hourly rates, she shouldn't have cash flow problems. And since the only thing that a provider really wants from meeting with a customer is the money, your advance has just removed the primary incentive for her to show up. Sure, a smart provider might value repeat business with a generous and kind customer, but the ones with cash flow problems generally aren't smart.

I beg to differ.  TER doesn't always take the guy's side.  And shouldn't but it's difficult to sort He Said / She Said situations.  Seriously, outlier reviews stand out as questionable & give us Hobbiests a little credit for knowing that.  Yes, a bogus review might hurt your business in the short term (and I'm sorry about that) but it will also damage HIS CREDIBILITY in the long run.   Just as your Good Provider Reputation is Valuable SO IS his Good Client Reputation.  

Don't worry so much about outlier reviews.  I think everyone realizes there are going to be bad reviews.  Ever look at Amazon product reviews?  There is ALWAYS a negative review.  Now if there is a string of bad reviews ... that's different.

Thanks for input. In giving provider the benefit of doubt, I have reached out to amicably discuss what happened and wait for reply.  I know there could be circumstances that I may be unaware of. In heat of moment we both may have overreacted. Just as I would out for being a ripoff, I would admit if I wrongly accused. In this case I hope I am wrong.

... you can still write a "rip-off" review if you wish.

Glad to see, as a provider, you are against advance deposits. Too many women around that do not require them. It’s a opportunity to get ripped off .

Provider spent every penny on a drug binge for weeks. What a dissapointment. Hope she gets the help she needs.

I was ripped off back in 2002 by giving money to an outcall provider who then claimed she wasn't an escort but a dancer. She took the money outside where her driver was and then came back in and got nude and started dancing and asked why I wasn't masturbating. I got really mad and she ran out of the house and left. Live and learn I would never do outcall again.

You are a walking ATM. Are YOU JRDOWNUNDER69-ADVANCEPLUS? Are YOU a lender? You got exactly what you asked for. Ladies I see would never asask for an advance unless I was rebooking for a touring lady. And if she had to cancel she would refund the money. Who are you hanging out with?