Just a few  weeks ago I gave a gal a thousand bucks for our date, AND bought her a sundress as well, but she did spend two full days and nights with me. and she did pick me up at the aeropuerto as well

but yes, no good deed goes unpunished, she now thinks I am her "novio" and wants me all to herself, Yeah, like that is going to happen. rofl

Oh yeah, she asked me to buy her a new car as well. NEXT!!!

and I think it would cost considerably more to ship this car to CR than the car itself is worth. RayBans are a lot easier to bring IMO.

I do have a jewelry company in Medellin and I also import hair extensions from Asia, so maybe I could get into the bartering business as well. but when the going rate is only $100 hr, it hardly seems worth it. It's a lot easier to stick five grand in my pocket before I leave home, knowing I most likely won't have to hit an ATM machine for two weeks, than bother bringing shit to trade for pussy.

I see all sorts of extravagant things on providers wish lists, and I am increasingly hearing girls talk about what they have been given.  My question for the girls is: would you prefer a guy to spend money buying you gifts, or for him to spend the same money for more time with you?  E.g, would you like me to buy you a $500 Agent Provocateur bustier at our $1000 date, or would you prefer I came back next week for another hour with you?

all it does is raise expectations and create even more BSC delusional hookers that somehow get it into their heads that their pussy is made of platinum and rimmed with diamonds. Like we don't already have enough BSC hookers around here. lol

So surgeon is babbling about paying a gal $ 1k for a session (and a gift on top of that perhaps?) and you corroborate his insanity by suggesting that you'd give a gal more than her published (or negotiated...yeah, happens..A LOT) rate.

Guys like Rod, end up becoming "foreroticreview" when then turn about 50... Remember him?

Feel free to take all the credit for bestowing this lovely machine to your love.  I'm guessing that she may have no clue...and that should buy you some OTC.  Or she will ask around and then tell Ms.RayBan and...oh my, it may be the beginning of the end.

you probably do it out of goodness of heart, and are fully aware you don't need to do it to impress her. On the other hand, Rod's actions seemed to be based in a fallacy that he needs to do this to impress her or be on her good side, and this is how the game is played.

Hey Mr. Big Spender (or if you prefer..Mr. SHOW ME THE MONEY)....buy two hours and she'll be thrilled.  And she'll be ecstatic if you did a 4 hour dinner date.

Saw one of my favorites before Christmas. Booked 1.5 hours rather than my usual 1. So the service was not as good (no DFK) and we did the same as we would do in a 1 hour meeting only talked more. She said that's what you are paying for (more time, not more sex) then she went on that I had better buy her something off of her "wish list". ???  I thought the extra $200 might make Christmas better. As always it comes down to the $$$.

Guess my standards are a heluva lot different than yours.

You mean the guy who only paid for a whole hour?  Yeah...that's a memorable time for nearly every hooker here  LOL

You are getting your dick sucked after all..

But she definitely decided to stop treating you well.

The last I checked you can pay a lot of bills with a five carat diamond.

and with a girl as low maintenance as you, I bet you could make it a couple of months on what a decent one carat stone will fetch.

Just set this up on the beach...maybe we can merge?  What kind of jewelry?  

I always get a chuckle when I read "I prefer longer appointments..." on provider sites.
So they want to spend 4 hours with you and talk for 3.5 hrs? No thanks.

That's our number in her spreadsheet.

Never happened to me except for 1hr turning to 2hrs.
I certainly don't look for it .so, no big deal to me.

"I love morning trysts..."

seems to work for you. I like to think that this isn't a zero sum game. Some guys and gals can't help but try to "play" one another. You'll not convince them otherwise. Nor do you need to try.

Or she can get money but has to spend time with you.

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Rod has posted this before...so I doubt anything anyone posts here is going to convince him of anything.  Anymore than he is going to sway another to go his route.

of donating for an extra half.  Keep the gifts small.  If I want to help out a lady...  I book another appointment.   Cash on the dresser each time.

I was a bit down on the tone of the boards yesterday and today. I think you just lifted me a bit. Thanks.

Gonna make HTG her...

Ok, I think I almost pee'd my pants on that one. Who's HooktardBronze then hahahahahahahahaha

go with more time. If you want to bring a gift, it shouldn't be tied to more/less compensation. It should just be a gift. Something you give her just to bring a smile to her face...not as pay, or to compete with her other clients.

I like Rod too, but he is terribly delusional that like guy on Pot who thinks he just got off phone w/ Jesus...

If you want to give her a little something to remember you by, then do it. But don't count it as part of her pay...it's something extra. And if you are 'either' giving her more money or a gift...do money; it will be more useful to her.  

f you are bringing cash when you show up again, the cash is still my answer vs. a gift and no return of cash. Oh, you're going to be with the envelope? Hate it when that happens

.....She was actually one of my ATF's at the time and told me she hoped he wasn't getting any bright  ideas about hitching up UNLESS he bought her a House. Opened my eyes to the gift giving business in our hobby.

Enemy?

Gifts are great, and always appreciated, but a repeat customer is the greatest gift of all. An extra hour can make sure I get the lingerie I like, or pay rent an extra month ahead

I'd never be a jerk about something like that.  

What's the big deal about this discussion? Why is it constantly brought up and why do people think their answer is right?

RodTidswell writes a "yes I fell for her thread"?

"Just Do It"

Wow! That's a relief, Alyssa!

You're very sweet and thoughtful, just thought I'd say that.

Exactly!  why sweat it?

Though only the book value was 50k, and we paid nowhere near that. Saw the guy once, and never again. He gave gifts like that to all the girls he saw though, so nothing special about me for sure. He was a guy who liked to brag and would not ever go back on something he said he would do... that's how I got mine.

I am agreeing.  What makes a gift a gift?  More money is not a gift in this situation.  A real gift might boil down to the old adage "Its the thought that counts".  Like saying "I gave YOU some thought."  

did you keep it? I'd personally sell that POS and buy a used Toyota Prius. My apologies to all the car fans out there.

Jk jk.. I know that was a type-o.

ML 350, so not the best Mercedes, but hey... it only cost the same as a Toyota 4 runner lol. I never paid a car note in my LIFE, and never will. If I can't afford to pay cash, I do without. Had my friend had a Toyota to sell, that's what I would have got... drug repo ha ha.  

Buy it and they will remember.   I've been told more than once I don't have to, but extra treats the next time we schedule something.   If I'm dropping $400+ cash, another $50 not going to kill me and if it does, I shouldn't be doing this.

Then next week make time for another client with gifts and donation. Rather than see same guy trying to stretch his money out and get the most time and energy he can out of me possible with what money he has.
I like the guys that are generous.
I rarely see the same guy twice any way unles he was really good to me.
I have one that gives three to 900
Every time. Its nice he is a fun appt , fun for both and easy. As in not over an hour ever. Usually alot less. I always get gifts up tp 100 from him. He also is young, all italian, nice clothes, nice car and really funny. He gets to see me every sat.
I ask for seltzer water as gifts. I do appreciate small gifts. Maybe water, chocolate. Order me food for that day and next day so I dont have to cook. One guy gave me this hand blown glass ball that is a tradition folklore the sailors wiuld have them on ship to ward iff evil spirits. Then one gave me a pashmini scarf from his trip to India. The guy thats not thoughtful. I may try some one new as opposed to answering his email for second session at all. Cuz with new customer granted they arent all gonna be bug spenders with gifts. You may land one though trying new clients. I had anither obe a week agi. 700 and bag of san pelligrinos in the glass. Thats always huge cuz I take cabs to grocery stores and its a pain. I think be generous for the one time and make some ones day. Instead of trying to stretch the money out and get every last pennys worth   Usually the guys that dont have alot money act like this. You can telk they are the ones that wont cum til a few min after hour. They like to be sure they get the full hour. The guys with tons of mibey are easier dates. They dont act so sex starved , like they can only afford one appt a month so they are super annoying to service. You can tell thry have sex like never they seem so sex starved

I guess it depends on the girl. Different girls like different things.

I think it's delightful if a client brings me a nice bottle of wine or some choccys, I get really excited if I get any kind of tip/overpayment but honestly I'm just happy to get bookings and be paid for my time at the rate I've set. I try to treat everyone as nicely as I can