I was in a music venue in my home town Chiraq, listening to some good music, having some good booze. (The tender was giving me double shots too I think. Oops. I'm not a drinker, so I don't look for that shit lol. Next time I'll ask. Oops!)

Actually it's called "Hooker....or not"

Sounds like the guy that left just in front of him put him up to it. But he may be that good. Most of the time when I am out and about I am looking, not speaking though. Thought I saw one in particular on Sat. but when she turned around she was just a baby.

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for being indiscrete.  I've run accross providers, at most we exchange nods like strangers who pass, to show they mean no harm.  It's sloppy & careless of him and sloppy gets you (or him) caught.

He didn't cross any lines, Only a person who already knew could  have possibly inferred the truth from what he said. I mean she isn't even 100% positive as to his meaning.

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... and no follow-up? Super-weird, bordering on creepy...

Reminds me of an email I once got from a total stranger. Something to the effect of "my buddy cheated on his wife as a client of yours, then he confessed to his wife. The other day, my wife and his wife went to Outback and she recognized you as the hostess. Later my wife relayed this story to me, and since I've met the hostess and compared her to your pictures, I'm pretty sure you two are one and the same."  

It's full of creepazoids of both sexes.  Nature of the beast.

If he recognized you he should have done one of 2 things.  Walked away and mentioned it next time he booked you.  Or #2 - came up and said Hi Courtney! Or whatever name he knew you by.  What he actually did was creep you out with a pseudo pick up line that helped neither of you.  

The ones who look like hookers, aren't.

Why some guys actually think it's a good idea to tell her these things in such a creepy way. So what if he saw her or recognize her,  better to stfu about it in front of her friends.  

Why not follow up with a question to find out where he’s coming from instead of assuming?  

Several years ago...okay, many years ago...like 8 or 9 maybe, I had booked myself a room at a hotel a couple of cities away from where I live.   As I walked through the lobby (wearing Levi jeans, a tank top and baseball cap) at about midnight, the young man at the front desk nodded his head at me and said "hello".  I nodded back and said "good night".  As I entered my room, the phone was ringing.  I answered it, and it was the young man at the front desk.  

Sometimes it's tough to know the players without a scorecard.

when seeing an escort in public!

Know where to go and what game we're going to play

He was. Just smile and nod lol

Insane. Same thing happened to me in North Carolina. Only he didn't say who I was, just the wink and explanation of an upgrade in a secret hallway. Umm ok, lol. I'm still here I guess.

If you see me in public and say "Hi Tobi!" I am going to be extremely pissed off. That's the same as one of us ladies coming up to a client when we see him out with his wife and we go "Oh hi, John!" Then he has to try to explain that shit to his wife. You even bought that chick's boyfriend a beer? Christ, man. Approaching her when she was out with him was bad enough (it's obvious she had to make up the waitress story on the fly). Seriously, don't do that.  

I like to think that most people are reasonably rational human beings, so it's amazing to me that anyone who operates at a functional level would think that that would do anything other than creep someone out.

Sex is the most primal thing we do.  As a result, there are more neuroses relating to sex than any other activity.  So since this little world revolves around sex it inevitably attracts Wack-Os of all varieties and both sexes. If it didn't, you wouldn't have to screen nearly as thoroughly.
Yours Truly,
A Reasonably Rational Human Being

Have you ever talked to someone, and they are gossiping about someone you don't know personally. The person you are conversing with says "hey you know so&so?" You answer with "the guy with the hot GF?"  

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Sex is the most primal thing we do.  As a result, there are more neuroses relating to sex than any other activity.  So since this little world revolves around sex it inevitably attracts Wack-Os of all varieties and both sexes. If it didn't, you wouldn't have to screen nearly as thoroughly.  
 Yours Truly,  
 A Reasonably Rational Human Being

Don't you know any lunatics... or ever heard such a story?

Sadly, there is no cure

Ok maybe just "Hi" with no name.  Fact was I didn't approach them, we walked through a crowded street and kind of came upon each other.  I didn't even realize she was with anyone and she gave me a smile as we came up to each other.  As for buying the guy a drink.  I was in the bar and he came over to me.  I never set out to find her, or him, it just kind of happened.