Not sure how to deal with that.  I have only had two bad experiences, one where the provider was acting so abnormally, that I did not stay a second hour and after 30 minutes left, leaving an hours worth of donation.  The other was a provider in Canada who came to me and did not live up to her hype.  When I saw her, I politely told her things were not going to work and paid half the donation, and asked her to leave.  Would that be enough to blacklist me when I have two whitelistings and many other good experiences and references? I have wondered lately why when reaching out to ladies, my emails are not returned and or I am getting last minute cancellations.  What should I do?

But if they're out of them, get the foot fungal cream.

...find out?  What database / website?  Is it the nationalblacklist.com ?

They really helped with my anal fissures.  I think they are out of toasters.

Anybody else finds this "blacklist"/"white list" racist?  How non - Politically Correct!  

This sounds serious!

sorry for ya loss or gain, but it can happen to anybody.

I'm not exactly sure of what the circumstances are, but if what you are saying is true that you were unsatisfied with your experience and took half the money with you when you left, that is enough to upset a provider, regardless of who was in the right/wrong.  

The blacklist exist for us providers to look out for each other, but ultimately it is an individual woman's choice to see you or not.  By changing your information when you have rightfully earned your blacklisting, you are denying women the choice in favor of your own inconsiderate actions (see my reply to the original post).  Changing your information will not keep you off of the blacklist for long if you don't change your behavior.  And ladies... why are we telling men they are blacklisted?! This man may have just been a time-waster, but imagine if he was somebody dangerous? This puts us all in danger.

She will be kicked outta the club ans banned for life

You should be blacklisted for enabling bad men to continue on.  

That a dishonest person should do the right thing and be honest?

If I go to a restaurant and the service is lousy, I can't get so much as a glass of water and the when the food shows up it's the wrong fucking order do you think for a moment I am going to pay full price?

Why not wake up on the other side of it for once.

And also misusing the BLs the way many do, simply for NCNS.  BLs should only be used for the truly dangerous; men who assault, rob, threaten, etc.  There are other ways to deal with guys who are just jerks. The good news is the best known BL site has recently been exposed as a fraud.  Anyone can post there without even being a member and it's used to settle vendettas.  Management there is pulling posts left and right, so their statement that once a post goes up it will never be taken down is a complete lie.
The original poster should not take this so seriously and just move on.

Look on the bright side!  

TASW automatically asserts that the OP owes for the full two hour session without having a clue as to what actually happened BCD and her little lapdog agreed completely without having a single fact at his disposal too.

This is why TER is biased, and completely unresponsive to the the Providers.  We do our research, and we provide screening to keep everyone safe, and we pay to have a great time.  If it does not work out, that's life - DO NOT short anyone for the agreed upon time.  

1) If a provider does not do her part of a session, do you feel it is right for a monger to always get stuck paying the full bill?  
She always has the opportunity to say no thank you, here is your money back.  I have had experience with a highly reviewed provider that actually just laid there, and I decided to leave early without refund for the rest of the time agreed upon, yet if I asked for some of the money back I am considered the bad guy.  Granted that seems to be the rule, but it doesn't make it right.

Those so-called private sites aren't very private.  And the info on them is piggy-backed off of NBL anyhow.

Sorry, but I respectfully disagree. When you make the statement that "No matter how bad things unfolded once you arrived at your appointment you had already made a financial commitment to her and that needs to be honored" you are wrong. Should I show up to find a women so drunk or high she is unable to perform adequately I'm obligated to pay her anyway? Should I show up to find her having laid out some blow for us "to enjoy" I'm obligated to pay her? Should I show up to find a b & s situation, or up-selling, I'm obligated to pay her? I don't think so!!
  And I agree with Gambler that none of us really know what happened and so I didm't reply to the OP. But your statement that I've quoted above, or your first paragraph alluding that no matter who was right or wrong the man is still on the hook for paying is bullshit.
                                                                          Regards.....RR

I too have been burned by girls who only have 2-3 hour sessions to start with. It's like football tickets. Most games are out of hand by the fourth quarter. You can't go to the ticket office and ask for your money back because it was a lousy game after the 3rd quarter. Hell, there are times when I've left by half time but I never got my ticket money back.

I don't and won't pay for something that isn't acceptable.  I have a certain expectation that when I am "committed" to paying for something...that something has to deliver what I expect!

who the fuck made you queen? Listen bim you're no 26-30 with a p411 # that low. I completely understand why you hide behind a mask. I wouldn't fuck you with Caitlin's dick.

Actually happened twice in 5 years. Do I give her a review with a 1 for performance or let it slide ( I did ) because she had issues and is a fucking human like MOST of us.

Gotta agree.... lord help me. I don't think the OP should have been blacklisted, but I do think when you book x amount of time, you pay the full freight or take a hike before she sucks your d*ck. I mean, cmon. If you cum in 2 minutes and she's a one and done provider, you don't get a refund.

Is her incall located inside the monger's car by chance?

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We do not know why he left. I left one without paying. Showed up, she was stoned and I will not pay for anyone not fully present. Told her so she slapped me I left with every cent. I wasn't there but five minutes but I still left as she was not fit to preform in my mind. I feel paying her a cent would set a bad precedent and I was not going to do it.

Look if it was because she sucked at sucking or he finished early of course he should have paid in full. But what if he has hard boundaries he warned her of like everything covered and she failed to comply? That is on her. Or what if she was on her special time of the month and didn't warn him and do to legit safety reasons could not do what he paid for? That too is on her. There is situations when he would be in the right to leave. Normally when you buy a movie ticket once the movie starts no refund, but if the sound cuts out mid way you better believe there will be a refund and justly so. But if the reason you bolt early is the movie blows your stuck paying full rate. Hooking is no different.

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hort and to the point. Regardless of the reason if you agree to pay for the time, it's on YOU. Perhaps a little more research would have saved him from the mess.

And I suppose you pay contractors for shoddy work that you have to have redone too. It is only on me if she holds up her end.

but I could not possibly agree with you more. Paying for a ROB, a B&S, or simply a drugged out hooker unable to conduct her business only encourages more of the same.

Sorry, but the donation is paid UPFRONT, not after service has started so none of this matters. Now, if her period started in the middle of it, a concession should be made of course... that is just common courtesy. My thing is this... I don't charge for my time... I charge for the act of being alone in a room with a total stranger, naked. I have a minimum rate whether he stays for 20 minutes or the full two hours... the rate is to get in the door, period.  

I don't pay upfront.  I know others who also subscribe to that mantra.

I'm still hoping my toaster comes Monday.

AND if the hooker in question had demanded payment up front, as sketchy as he makes her seem, I would have turned around and walked on the spot, and for the record, I have done just that on more than one occasion.

They don't stay up long.  And no place to notify me when those unbelievable offers hit the boards.

You mean like this? Scroll thru the complaints to read everything ...

Actually except for the fact that Ripoffreport extends well past the hobby, there is very little difference between the two. The biggest similarity being Ripoffreport does no more fact checking than NBL.

No one is disputing that. Just like fast food. Now with fast food I have gotten food that was uneatable even by a guy who literally got his meal out of a dumpster before. I complained and got my money back when that happened. Just saying.

They all serm to have their moment/s in the sun.

He said the one girl was "acting so abnormally" he walked 30 minutes into the session and the other one was not "up to his expectations" which most of us would interpret to be some kind of B&S and that he did not go through with the session, yet still gave her half her fee. He's a lot more generous than me. If the woman answering the door is not the woman in the pics, or if its her 30 lbs and ten years later, she isn't getting a penny out of me. Tell me I'm wrong.

With out that we have not bases to ether condemn him or defend him. He could have been 100% right to walk with some of his money or 100% wrong to leave with a dime of it. We wasn't there no one gave us any detail. We don't even have a full one side of the story let alone both. And ever case I brought up I can point to a real life case of. Not that extreme, especially for those that troll low end ladies without reviews. Stuff I brought up is mild compared to some of the tails I have heard. You are assuming a whole lot. As is Gambler. We know nothing about what happened. Nothing.

OTM was putting words into the OP mouth, I was simply removing them and offering a different possible meaning to the OP's words. I am hardly assuming anything, except for the FACT that we simply don't know.

I completely agree that "acting abnormally" is such a broad statement as to be almost meaningless.

If a guy won't pay me up-front, he will get booted out the door & blacklisted so fast he won't even have time to blink first.  I am not a crap restaurant, a crap mechanic, a movie theater (shout-out to everyone who totally missed the entire point of that analogy, by the way).  Hell, I'm not even close to being a crap-provider, but you sure do sound like the client from hell.

The lady who told me could not believe that this was the case with me.  I have only been an excellent person to deal with, and a likeable person as well (decent looking, fit, never cheap, and never never shortchanged or cancelled on anyone), so she was most surprised.  So what behavior must I change?  What do you do when a mistake is made or when you have not "rightfully earned" your blacklisting?

Boy, you are quite hard on me, but I understand where you are coming from.  The one experience where I left was that where she was high on something.  She was 30 minutes late already with me and then said, "you're going to leave at 9:00, right?", which was only 90 minutes from then.  So she had already blown off 30 minutes of my scheduled time, and she left the room after 30 minutes, like we were done, to go to where?  I do not know.  So, what would you have done?

Please read my response above.  I know your reputation for being an honest and good person and would like to perhaps visit with you one day, but my impression of you is one who would also understand that what transpired was bad, and that a compromise was reached in both instances, where both parties shared loss, even though many would say that I rightfully shouldn't have suffered a loss at all.

It's an illegal underground business. Unfortunately, the majority of the guys who see hookers are lapdogs. If you are telling the truth you did the "right" thing from a moral standpoint. However this is not a moral business.