Ever type your friends number into search engine here and have it come up with something? I have tried a couple friends i suspect but to no avail. Wouldnt that be interesting if reviews came up? I would never say anything but if they were hot enough and reviews came up, i would maybe try and partake. what do you guys think?

Puff puff give, muthafucka!

who would stick your dick in an electrical outlet to see what would happen. I'd advise against both.

A slightly similar situation I had a chance to see was with a dancer I was seeing. I went to her first day at work at a new club to give her moral support, shill her onstage a bit, and collect my reward when she got off work.

At one point, she came over and sat with me and said. "Oh my god, I've got to give a lap dance to this guy I went to high school with!" I told her if she was not comfortable, I could buy her out for an hour or two so she wouldn't get in trouble for saying no, but we should talk about how she felt first.

After a shot of patron, and a chance to express her concerns (she was 23) with someone she trusted, she decided to go back, give him the dances of his life and make sure he left happy, broke and wanting more.

She had been dancing for almost 5 years, startin at 18 in a fully nude no alcohol club, and yet when faced with a scenario that mentally linked together two incompatable portions of her life, she was initially worried, confused, and uncomfortable.

I would imagine such a scenario with a provider could be potentially very disconcerting to the lady.

If, as clients, we are selfish and greedy about our own wants and unconcerned about our impact on the worker(s) we hire, then we risk causing damage to them as well as lessening what we receive in return. That's no way to be.



"Karma can be a real bitch. Unless you are really nice to her right from the start, then she can be pretty sweet." - HalfHour

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I can understand your curiousity.  But if she wanted you to know she was a provider, she'd have told you.  Or at least hinted at it.  If you find out she is, she'll be offended and also be scared of being outed.  End of friendship.  Is it possible things won't play out that way?  Sure.  But it ain't likely.  My advice is don't do it.

This is a bad idea why would you be looking up your friends phone# here for the hell of it?
Her personal life and provider life is two different things the two should not intersect in the way you are suggesting.Even if you suspected a friend or two of being a provider I really don't think she would be using her personal(friends,family phone#)here on TER.
If for some strange reason you did find a friend who was doing this more than likely she would not be pleased to be getting an appointment request from a friend.
How is she to know that you will not use this info against her?She doesn't and you might just end a great friendship by being nosy.

Providers generally use a separate "work phone", just as clients use "hobby phones".  "Work e-addresses", not personal e-addresses.  So you likely will not find an aquaintance's information on any data base.   Really, it is rude to try to dig into a lady's private life.  Is it done?  Probably.  The problem is YOU.  If you found this information, you could never use it.  If you book her, you'll probably not pass screening.  If she opens her door to find you standing there...  she'll probably freak & slam the door in your face.  
Don't go there.  It's a Lose - Lose situation.
H

Your post made me think of another, perhaps more pertinent question.

It sounds like a story that Louis CK would tell, but imagine accidentally booking your own niece, or your boss.

I would imagine that more than one college professor has accidentally booked one of their own students.


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This happened to me years ago when I worked for an agency me and a few ladies arrived at the hotel for a bachelor party.Imagine my surprise when walking in and meeting the guys that one of the guys in the group was my cousin's best friend.Talking about a very awkward moment for both of us he pulled me to the side and said he would not mention this to my cousin.
I immediately called the agency and told them what the deal was and I was leaving and to send a replacement.I could not get out of there quick enough.
My cousin never mentioned or hinted that he knew anything but I was completely taken off guard by the whole situation.

Did not mean to offend anyone. Was just a curious thought I had. This is y I posted to get other points of view. After review I agree it is invasion of privacy and bad idea. Thabks everyone

What makes you suspect they are providers?

I've heard of everything from Family members, to old scool friends, to neighbors.

So yes, maybe not all ladies but I'm sure someone has seen it all!!!!!

a friend / co-worker of mine discovered that her husband had been having an affair.  Just by chance, she looked up, and found, the other woman's profile in our claims system.  Turns out the OW had been recently treated for an STD.  My friend flipped out and told her husband what she knew.  My friend was fired the next day....

They'd have to be dumb as shit to use their personal phone number for this, which means their probably too dumb to do a few other things that will leave you regretting it later if you "partake"

Just because someone isn't actively involved in sex work doesn't mean they are automatically unavailable. Fewer than 10% of my sex partners have been sex workers.

but if they are hot freinds, why not try to fuck 'em for free?

here's a scenario: all "hypothetical" of course.

you book someone. during pillow talk you discover the provider knows someone else that you know and have met. in fact you know this 3rd party from having stayed at their folks residence on more than one occasion. further pillow talk reveals that not only do you have that connection in common, but more. you have shared interests. what is surprising is that you haven't met in the civy world before. as long as everybody is "friends" it's OK. but it can get much worse...

she also know folks who hate your guts and happen to be business competitors. see where this is going? it isn't pretty.

i suggest that unless you have absolutely nothing to lose and no one to disappoint, avoid seeing a civy connection as a provider. some providers are so discreet that it wouldn't matter. others are not so careful about compartmentalizing your information. keep your mouth shut and only open it with folks who have an established track record of trust.

"hot enough" isn't good enough by itself. i'm fortunate that some of the hottest i've seen are also the most discreet. you might not be so lucky.