Not sure when it will happen in the US but in Switzerland someone was charged with rape. I wonder how often this happens in the hobby ?

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/inside-the-online-community-of-men-who-preach-removing-condoms-without-consent_us_58f75eb2e4b05b9d613eb997

but girls know better.

Just read the reports on a BL site.

when she stands up and his load runs down her leg?

Any bastard that does this is a POS who is no different from Ahole that physically assaults a girl.

It happened to me 4 times in my first 3 months providing.  I caught them each time.  

What was most interesting to me, is that all gentleman were experienced hobbiests. Active in the boards and well liked by myself and others.  All happened when my rate was lower. Have not had issues since I increased my rate and book more dates of longer duration.  All 1 hour appointments. All men were over 60 years of age.  

If i do not trust a person I am with, they cannot get behind me unless I know the condom is secure. They sell a product for this....rings. They hold the condoms on and prevent slipping. If your nervous, just slide it on with the condom. Or use a cock ring. Makes it more difficult to remove.  

The constant haggling about using protection is enough stress. Guys are always trying, but the premeditated deception is plain unacceptable.  

So your 4 "attempts" were 1 hour dates with men over 60??

Thirsty

A lot of guys who preach against BBFS would in fact go BBFS without telling the provider. I ask a provider if it's good with her to go BBFS. I would never deceive her. Taking off the condom with out her consent is totally Wrong.

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it has happened to me a couple of times before this was a "trend' . thankfully i caught them and the the one time i didn't I dodged a bullet (Thank GOD) . It really is sad that clients find it okay to violate us like that , especially when there are soooo many providers for everybody's different tastes .

I prefer BBFS, but intentionally taking off the condom without telling her is a great way to get sued or stabbed. Even thinking about doing it doesn't turn me on because I like the idea of the provider knowing that we are going bare and either wanting it too or being so turned on that she doesn't care anymore.  

I suppose taking it off and then telling her and hoping she would say, "good, I like it that way too" would be sort of hot, but...nah, that would be far more likely to cause the entire session to come to an end and end up stabbed.  

Not for me. No thanks.  I prefer the seduction approach.