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oldguy666 65 Reviews 2430 reads
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1 / 39

I recently had a first-time session with a young woman for an erotic massage, and two things were a bit disconcerting.  The session went well enough, in the end, but I wonder if she should have told me about these two things in advance, and also whether I should mention either of them in my review.  Here they are:

(1) She was six months pregnant (and didn't tell me beforehand).  We had agreed in advance on an exchange massage, so her being pregnant changed the dynamics of my massaging her.

(2) Upon my arrival, she was waiting in a car outside, with her boyfriend/husband in the car, too.  I was a bit nervous, but he drove away when she got out of the car, and so everything was fine.

So, my questions:

(1) Should she have mentioned either of these things beforehand?

(2) Should I mention either (or both) in my review?

Any wisdom would be appreciated.  Even though I've been hobbying for a while now, this is a new situation for me on both counts.

Thanks in advance.

og

captain7 857 reads
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2 / 39

Both would make me uncomfortable. I don't see pregnant providers, even if is is for a massage (mutual) and running into her boyfriend, husband or pimp is good info to know upfront.

1820590 37 Reviews 904 reads
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3 / 39

For crying out loud, she absolutely should have told you she was 6mos prego.  Even if just for sensual massage.  If that had happened to me, I would have said thanks, but no thanks, and sent her right back out to her driver, boyfriend, so.  That bit, I am not so sure about.

oldguy666 65 Reviews 575 reads
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4 / 39

Yes, I read her recent reviews (she has more than 40) and no, no one mentioned these things.

MSON123 44 Reviews 663 reads
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5 / 39

Posted By: oldguy666
I recently had a first-time session with a young woman for an erotic massage, and two things were a bit disconcerting.  The session went well enough, in the end, but I wonder if she should have told me about these two things in advance, and also whether I should mention either of them in my review.  Here they are:  
   
 (1) She was six months pregnant (and didn't tell me beforehand).  We had agreed in advance on an exchange massage, so her being pregnant changed the dynamics of my massaging her.  
   
 (2) Upon my arrival, she was waiting in a car outside, with her boyfriend/husband in the car, too.  I was a bit nervous, but he drove away when she got out of the car, and so everything was fine.  
   
 So, my questions:  
   
 (1) Should she have mentioned either of these things beforehand?  
   
 (2) Should I mention either (or both) in my review?  
   
 Any wisdom would be appreciated.  Even though I've been hobbying for a while now, this is a new situation for me on both counts.  
   
 Thanks in advance.  
   
 og

Dave76015 38 Reviews 695 reads
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6 / 39

Both of these items are material issues and should be raised.

6 month preggers?  Maybe it's just me, but "sensual massages" end up with a specific goal and expectations for mutual satisfaction and that does not involve a woman in the advanced stages of pregnancy.  

Husband/boyfriend/pimp outside?  Yes that deserves a mention.  Given the depth of reviews you say, she's not a rip-off artist, but for a First Time, that's always in the back of my head.  Nothing says that H/B/P can't come in mid-deed, accuse you of trying to rape his 6 month pregnant SO and threaten to call the cops or blackmail you, or beat you unconscious and rob you.  

Reviews are here for a reason, and facts are facts that should be reported.

russbbj 89 Reviews 563 reads
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7 / 39

And yes you should make it a focal point in your review. I understand this was just an erotic massage, but you are there spending your money for a misrepresented service. I personally do not wish to see a pregnant provider, O just don't feel a child should be brought into the life (at any stage). But there is a fetish group that looks specifically for  pregnant providers. I know of a really hot woman that cleaned houses naked while she was pregnant for guys with that fetish, and she was very busy, there's a niche for pretty much everything I suppose. I suspect that the driver was there just in case you did what I would have done (immediately cancelled and walked away).

cuppajoe 474 reads
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9 / 39

For a long time now, I have not looked to reviews for any great degree of accuracy, and have tried to develop the skill of reading between the lines.  Part of this is triggered by my reluctance to get too detailed in my reviews (not on TER) for a variety of reasons, one of them is a reluctance to being flamed or branded an elitist.  

For example, I saw a very attractive woman several years ago, but it was pretty obvious she was quite working class, politically incorrect, I know.  Not that I was trying to be a pointy headed intellectual, but she did not understand the most basic references that I was making in my fairly general chit chat. Be that as it may, she also had a pretty functional, almost barnyard attitude to sexuality.  "Did you nut for me, hon?" was a pretty typical representation of conversation.  I did not mention any of this in my review, which would have mede me only the latest reviewer who left out information of a "impressionistic" nature that might have been pertinent to a lot of people.

Don't get me started about physical attributes, a lot of rose colored glasses in reviews around that topic, too. Old pictures, heavier weight, acne, tats and piercings, saggy breasts, arms or leg in a cast.  I mean, really!  To be fair, though, my impression of reviews has been that they attempt physical descriptions more often than atmosphere or tone of the encounter.  

On the plus side, I do this to meet women and have sex, so its been an endlessly fascinating parade of the human condition i which I've taken the surprises as part of the deal.  
Posted By: oldguy666
Yes, I read her recent reviews (she has more than 40) and no, no one mentioned these things.

Dave76015 38 Reviews 566 reads
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10 / 39
anonymousfun 6 Reviews 655 reads
posted
12 / 39

Waiting in the parking lot and husband/boyfriend crap.  

There is no way to know what they are up to since it is your first visit.  

Never comfortable wit out of the ordinary in the hobby

AnotherDonJohn 694 reads
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13 / 39

Aww, Did you feel the baby? FTW!

Its uncool unless she's known as that kind of provider - for preggie lovers that is.  
Why? You didn't ask for it.  

Not quite the same thing but in the vein of if a provider didnt reveal she/he is a TS or on a period.
It's a societally recognized alternate state of womanness - is that a real word.  

The pimp/husband is an issue for a first time meeting. I'd always be wary of a shakedown or Le

mrfisher 115 Reviews 675 reads
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14 / 39

I will confess to twice meeting up with gals who were pregnant and had not bothered to tell me before hand.

Fortunately, I like gals like that, so I was pretty much delighted.  One even squirted me with her breast milk the moment I walked in the door.  She was a bit wacky, but lots of fun.

The SO in the car business however would be a real turn off.  Strikes me as a newbie mistake, reviews or not.

AnotherDonJohn 508 reads
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15 / 39
ceotraveling 30 Reviews 586 reads
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16 / 39
Dr Who revived 494 reads
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17 / 39

'Treat her right fellas'

I'm sure that there will be a 'we fell into each others arms like long lost lovers' and maybe the 'I couldn't touch her after her 14th orgasm...she was just too sensitive'

I'm sure that El Capitan will throw a few more out as well.  Too bad the new photo board doesn't allow shilling  LOL

HooktardGold 584 reads
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18 / 39

that all you fucks can talk about is poor hobby guy, when a cry for help is right in front of you. What man sends his pregnant girlfriend to turn tricks, and what POS hobbyist if more worried about not getting his rocks off than this poor woman and her unborn child. Sure, report her to TER so the world can know, and call CPS while you're at it. No wonder some of you can't do anything else wth your lives.  

Posted By: RobbinYoung
Hi oldguy666!  
   
 I read several of your reviews, after I posted my comment to you, and assumed because of your history of numerous TER reviews that you had indeed done your research before booking this provider.    
   
 This is terrible news, if her reviews were within the past month, then guys had to have known she was pregnant...unless, she was heavy set and hid her pregnancy well.  I suppose there's no sense in blaming any of the hobbyists who reviewed her, but to lay the blame where it belongs...on the provider who did not disclose her pregnancy to you.  
   
 With this said, yes, IMHO...state the facts in your review of her.  Also, check her profile to make sure it's accurate.  If it's not, file a profile report and mention any issues regarding the provider's appearance.  
   
 Again, I'm sorry this happened and I hope your next erotic massage/rendezvous will be a much better experience for you!    
   
Posted By: oldguy666
Yes, I read her recent reviews (she has more than 40) and no, no one mentioned these things.

AnotherDonJohn 445 reads
posted
19 / 39

A guy who can find his ATF purely from board marketing.
I need to at least meet the woman first.  
And maybe have relations with her.
Captain, You better treat Robbin right or 007, or CPA, is gonna get ya.
Btw, hope you're not rock hard anymore. It's called priapism.  

CPA, you forgot he'll say: I never come from blowjobs...( but she sucked me dry x times nevertheless  ;)
Lol

captain7 465 reads
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20 / 39

with  my cock in one hand & my mouse in the other...click, click, click!!! Thanks Robbin, you're the best!

AnotherDonJohn 427 reads
posted
21 / 39

So, let me get this straight.
You now want us to assume a provider has no free will.  
And  that she's being turned out every time she's accompanied by a driver.
And can pregnant women not work.  
Or only not pregnant providers.
An alternate theory is that her BF/pimp was dropping her off with the good intention of protecting her but really a newbie mistake.
Feminists everywhere are turning in their graves or twin beds.  
I for one am fine with either stance just please tell me what the trendy one is.

OP didn't me mention any signs of coercion but maybe we should debate calling a helpline for every provider who comes with a pimp.
Maybe only the agency girls?
Or should we include Indys?  

In that case, Would you pls volunteer to run that helpline?

 Because your handle suggests to me you could be a hooker with a heart of gold!
Posted By: HooktardGold
that all you fucks can talk about is poor hobby guy, when a cry for help is right in front of you. What man sends his pregnant girlfriend to turn tricks, and what POS hobbyist if more worried about not getting his rocks off than this poor woman and her unborn child. Sure, report her to TER so the world can know, and call CPS while you're at it. No wonder some of you can't do anything else wth your lives.  
   
Posted By: RobbinYoung
Hi oldguy666!  
     
  I read several of your reviews, after I posted my comment to you, and assumed because of your history of numerous TER reviews that you had indeed done your research before booking this provider.    
     
  This is terrible news, if her reviews were within the past month, then guys had to have known she was pregnant...unless, she was heavy set and hid her pregnancy well.  I suppose there's no sense in blaming any of the hobbyists who reviewed her, but to lay the blame where it belongs...on the provider who did not disclose her pregnancy to you.  
     
  With this said, yes, IMHO...state the facts in your review of her.  Also, check her profile to make sure it's accurate.  If it's not, file a profile report and mention any issues regarding the provider's appearance.  
     
  Again, I'm sorry this happened and I hope your next erotic massage/rendezvous will be a much better experience for you!    
     
Posted By: oldguy666
Yes, I read her recent reviews (she has more than 40) and no, no one mentioned these things.

AnotherDonJohn 493 reads
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22 / 39

Posted By: captain7
Thanks Robbin, you're the best!

Dr Who revived 562 reads
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23 / 39

Robbin needs YOU to see her IRL...tough to pay the rent(s) with only cheap shilling here along with a whack off to some pics (or video in RY's case  LOL).

Give it a shot...she said she won't bite...unless you want her to.

And I'm expecting to see that review...complete with the "I didn't want to write the review as I want to keep her all to myself".

Feel free to use the lines we've already tossed out there...and know that there's a ton more that can be inserted.  Or just be creative and leave out all the cliches  ;)
Posted By: captain7
with  my cock in one hand & my mouse in the other...click, click, click!!! Thanks Robbin, you're the best!

captain7 538 reads
posted
24 / 39

A provider that is doing mutual massages with over 40 reviews (probably means 800-1,000 massages) is not a newbie nor a sex slave and most likely understands what she's doing and chooses to do it. If she used to offer full service & now offers massages, well, good for her. However, she should disclose that she is pregnant so we can choose to help support her or not. We are not in the business to judge her OR save her. We are just in the business to GET OUR ROCKS OFF!

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Dr Who revived 545 reads
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25 / 39

Frankly many of the folks here (on both sides) would not contribute to trafficking or coercion.  So when a pregnant woman is doing this line of work that does raise some questions as to her independence.

Perhaps you have no interest in being aware of your surroundings, but I do!!!
Posted By: captain7
A provider that is doing mutual massages with over 40 reviews (probably means 800-1,000 massages) is not a newbie nor a sex slave and most likely understands what she's doing and chooses to do it. If she used to offer full service & now offers massages, well, good for her. however, she should disclose so we can choose to help support her or not. We are not in the business to judge her OR save her. We are just in the business to GET OUR ROCKS OFF!

HooktardGold 548 reads
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26 / 39

How silly of me to point out the obvious. To answer your question no, pregnant women should not be turning tricks!  Notice I did not sugarcoat that one. What a woman does with her body is her right, but to have random fucktards breathing, sweating, and grunting over an unborn child for cash, makes me want to scratch. She should have an abortion or just shoot herself.  

My point was not really about whether she was coerced, but that very few of you TERmites can focus on the real issue here, vs. wondering if the fucktard should put this in a review.  

As for those of you sick enough to fuck her, please do the latter...

HooktardGold 585 reads
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27 / 39

Yes, thank you. Her only cost of doing business is making an ass of herself for guys who have 1. Never paid even half what she charges, 2. Will never be in her area, and 3. Will no way in HELL ever up the funds to fly her ass to them, because there are dozens of hot 20 year olds for 300 who do the very same thing. Poor thing.

no_email 3 Reviews 560 reads
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28 / 39

What if you had a phobia of pregnant women?  

 
Pregos, should always disclose they are pregnant, even when not showing. Remember we can smell your pheromones.

The nose, knows.  lol

GhostWriteroftheDamned 681 reads
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29 / 39

Obviously being six months pregnant is a fact that she is morally/ethically obligated too disclose prior of your agreed booking, and letting you witness the departure of her SO is further indicative of poor business practice, planning and etiquette.  

   As this economy continues too disappoint for far too many, and the welfare rolls increase beyond the already frighteningly record numbers even more and varied personalities will be advertising.  
Why did you stay for the service? For if you hadn't you could have avoided this moral conundrum caused by buyer’s remorse.  

 
     
 
Posted By: oldguy666
I recently had a first-time session with a young woman for an erotic massage, and two things were a bit disconcerting.  The session went well enough, in the end, but I wonder if she should have told me about these two things in advance, and also whether I should mention either of them in my review.  Here they are:  
   
 (1) She was six months pregnant (and didn't tell me beforehand).  We had agreed in advance on an exchange massage, so her being pregnant changed the dynamics of my massaging her.  
   
 (2) Upon my arrival, she was waiting in a car outside, with her boyfriend/husband in the car, too.  I was a bit nervous, but he drove away when she got out of the car, and so everything was fine.  
   
 So, my questions:  
   
 (1) Should she have mentioned either of these things beforehand?  
   
 (2) Should I mention either (or both) in my review?  
   
 Any wisdom would be appreciated.  Even though I've been hobbying for a while now, this is a new situation for me on both counts.  
   
 Thanks in advance.  
   
 og
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captain7 781 reads
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30 / 39
AnotherDonJohn 502 reads
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31 / 39

You've abandoned the coercion argument.

You're going with the physical exertion risk to an unborn child.

Assuming she's not being turned out but rather she needs the money to live,  

is an HJ massage provider, ok?  

Or how about porn shoots with only masturbation?  

Or how about modeling for nude magazines ?

Those are all ok, right

oldguy666 65 Reviews 770 reads
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32 / 39

......post a review and mention these things.

I don't think she's a slave of this guy, since she has more than 40 reviews, most of them basically positive (6's and 7's, which, for a massage provider, is mainly good).  

Someone mentioned having sex with a pregnant woman.  This woman is a sensual masseuse, not an escort.  I'd never have had sex with her if she were a pregnant escort.  But, since we'd agreed beforehand on an exchange massage, her being pregnant definitely affected the session.  I must say that I did enjoy gently massaging the "baby," though.

We had had a good e-mail exchange for a week or more beforehand, and that, plus the fact that she is well reviewed, made me go ahead with the session even after seeing guy in the car.  If he hadn't driven away, I probably would have said something

AnotherDonJohn 404 reads
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33 / 39
AnotherDonJohn 678 reads
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34 / 39

I missed before that she had agreed to let her unborn child be massaged by a stranger for money.

That doesn't sound right.  

This woman needs to be protected from herself.  

 
Posted By: oldguy666
......post a review and mention these things.  
   
 But, since we'd agreed beforehand on an exchange massage, her being pregnant definitely affected the session.  I must say that I did enjoy gently massaging the "baby,"  
 

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 646 reads
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35 / 39

Posted By: oldguy666
But, since we'd agreed beforehand on an exchange massage, her being pregnant definitely affected the session.  I must say that I did enjoy gently massaging the "baby," though.
Dafuq??

AnotherDonJohn 660 reads
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AnotherDonJohn 584 reads
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38 / 39

I was expecting a lol to let us know he wasnt really that creepy.  

Guess it goes along with the handle...

It was my running side joke for all preggie posts today.

oldguy666 65 Reviews 873 reads
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39 / 39

Those who know me would have picked up on the quotes around "baby."  It was TOTALLY a tongue-in-cheek comment.  Yes, I should have included a "LOL" or smiley face...and avoided the drama at the end of this thread.  Lesson learned.

And, btw, my spelling of "misteak" is another little ironic twist..... :)

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