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hound_dog69 41 Reviews 219 reads
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I am sorry that this happened, but IMO zisk asked a fair question. It was for clarification of a point not in the OP's message. I think it is a fair assumption the OP would have asked him to ease up, but I could also think of situations where she might not - such as for concerns about safety.

In the case of AfNYC, he clearly needed some teeth dragging to get his attention. Any clear request to stop an activity by either party should be accommodated. If the OP asked, she is well within her rights to be a bitch, but that comes with dangers, IMO. Especially with the response that AfNYC got to her request.

I can give little to no good advice because my perspective (male of my stature) sees the world differently than a 100-something pound woman. Also, each situation is different.

IMO, it is generally a bad idea to reciprocate with similar behavior. It just escalates things and reinforces their already warped ideas about women in general. Of course, I also believe that you can't teach children not to hit, by hitting them (spanking). You only teach them not to hit around you.

Yeah, I am equating men like this with children.

Unfortunately, the woman is left having to decide on the fly about her best course of action. This brings up the point that she always has to have a plan worked out for situations like this. Room exits, heavy objects, etc. Also, alternative plans such as asking him to leave - with his donation if necessary.

Again, unfortunately, any guy who is going to ignore your request to not chew on your nipples poses a risk to escalating violence to nearly any solution chosen. These are sad truths, but also realities of this little fantasy world we have created.

ANGRY_WENCH1378 reads

I had every mind to do the ultimate no no and use my teeth on his dick, but I didn't let the ANGRY WENCH win.

Feel free to share your battles with your inner angry wench.

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zisk375 reads

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Anon_from_NYC306 reads

Yes I am posting alias because few days I had an asshole who despite numerous requests to take it easy kept biting and manhandling so bad that i still have bruises.

when confronted he said "that's why i pay so I can do as I want"

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literbike215 reads

Hope you black listed this gentlemen along with an explanation why. I never want to meet anyone like that.

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hound_dog69220 reads

I am sorry that this happened, but IMO zisk asked a fair question. It was for clarification of a point not in the OP's message. I think it is a fair assumption the OP would have asked him to ease up, but I could also think of situations where she might not - such as for concerns about safety.

In the case of AfNYC, he clearly needed some teeth dragging to get his attention. Any clear request to stop an activity by either party should be accommodated. If the OP asked, she is well within her rights to be a bitch, but that comes with dangers, IMO. Especially with the response that AfNYC got to her request.

I can give little to no good advice because my perspective (male of my stature) sees the world differently than a 100-something pound woman. Also, each situation is different.

IMO, it is generally a bad idea to reciprocate with similar behavior. It just escalates things and reinforces their already warped ideas about women in general. Of course, I also believe that you can't teach children not to hit, by hitting them (spanking). You only teach them not to hit around you.

Yeah, I am equating men like this with children.

Unfortunately, the woman is left having to decide on the fly about her best course of action. This brings up the point that she always has to have a plan worked out for situations like this. Room exits, heavy objects, etc. Also, alternative plans such as asking him to leave - with his donation if necessary.

Again, unfortunately, any guy who is going to ignore your request to not chew on your nipples poses a risk to escalating violence to nearly any solution chosen. These are sad truths, but also realities of this little fantasy world we have created.

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ANGRY_WENCH197 reads

You hit the hammer on the nail. Other things factored into making me feel this would get out of hand if I spoke up. so I opted for a clever way out.

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ANGRY_WENCH174 reads

My inner angry wench is ready to attack him FOR you. Run up behind him, put a garbage bag over his head and drag him into the alley. He'd be the perfect punching bag for every provider's inner angry wench. I'm kicking his ass in my imagination as we speak.

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Richard-Rahl128 reads

The Seeker of Truth is a Law Unto Himself, and fully understands that mercy to the guilty is treason to the innocent.

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SinsOfTheFlesh175 reads

I don't need to be told not to use my teeth on your d*ck. Why do men have to be told not to bite nipples? Or worse, why do they have to be told not to bite our clits??? This shouldn't take telepathy to figure out.

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Giamarie Lynn179 reads

From my experience, I've found some gents simply don't know that they are inflicting pain on the nipples. And I feel it is my job as a companion to communicate and guide them. I usually say something along the lines of "ouch, are those your teeth?" (not scripted, of course). This is a great time to laugh when he realizes he had no clue what he was doing (laugh together and not at him). Then, I find it helpful to give instruction on what I do like. Now just because this has worked in my case doesn't mean there aren't all sorts out there just recklessly munching away.;)

It’s way too late. Good night.

Xoxo.

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MarkusKetterman179 reads

anything that annoys me.

Simple.

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HalfHour167 reads

4 angry faces on a half page thread!! This is obviously a sore subject with the ladies.

;)

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alias99142 reads

I never use my teeth-the pleasure is in the tongue

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niceenuf131 reads

1) Can a man "evolve" past his 20's and not know that biting nipples is a very bad thing for all but a small handful of SM types?
2) Telling a guy to stop biting nipples is akin to him having him say "don't gnaw on my balls" and "please don't put that bowling pin in my ass"...things that simply shouldn't have to be said to anyone whose ever been in a sexual situation
3) Paying for an escort isn't about buying a body for a period of time to do with as you please, I venture to guess buying a living body as a play thing for an hour would cost substantially more than $300...
4) In an intimate situation I can understand the fear/trepidation about saying don't do this or don't do that...OP did the right thing, spin around and place your nipples out of reach, but then the obvious question is raised...what did he bite next?

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anonymousfun136 reads

Nothing to do, yeh?

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