Play it cool,  let her be cool. That's just how you gotta roll.  

Snap- that really... is racially charged, isn't it?  

I doubt if I will start reading his post, anytime soon.

What is charging more going to do? SMH.  

More time pm ing  the ladies and less time here posting WK crap it will do you good in the long run .guess what, its all business to her and Political correct shit is just that to her shit ..guess she knows its hard and can up sell her ass , cause that's what she did ...and if she up sold you for the reason you wanted to hear would you still see her and why ? Move on and learn from it ...you can't force people to do what you want ..

Let me state first, that each lady has the right to set her own boundries, rates, and preferences.  I too have the right to decline to see any lady who states that she will not see certin races or charge differently dependent on race.  I have made this negitive choice on several occasions.

but most of us lost respect for him a long time ago, personally I lost respect for him the first day the clueless twit puffed out his chest and demanded it, and then claimed he used to bench press four hundred pounds as if that was supposed to cow me, or that we would respect him out of fear. It just proves how immature he actually is, and for all we know it was that immaturity that prompted this provider to act as she did, and not the color of his skin. Of course without naming names, we only have his word to go on, and quite frankly his word is worthless IMO.

I don't condone for a minute what this woman supposedly did, but without naming names, exposing her, and giving her a chance to confirm, deny, or explain her actions, his OP is just so much blah, blah, blah. None of us have a clue as to whether or not it even happened, or if this is simply a plea or a ploy to gain sympathy instead of respect. Frankly until he mans up, he gets neither sympathy or respect from me.

The whole purpose of this site - the very reason that it was created- is for guys to share information on the Providers out there so that others can either enjoy the good, or avoid the bad.

and just why is it harder to imagine a black guy having so little game as a clueless, gameless tool of any other race? Would it be easier to imagine him this gameless if he were let's say Jewish or Asian.

FWIW the other person that you think as little of in the "lack of game" department is also black. You do know the Dungbeetle is black as well. Not that it matters, their cluelessness has nothing to do with their race, it's just a coincidence IMO as we had both of them pegged as both clueless and lacking in any game long before we knew what color their skin was.

She must have found those pictures of you fucking that goat, and now she is blackmailing you to be nice to her. ROFLMFAO

yes, he is old, but hardly an adult. Why do you think I would ever associate with him, much less chase chicas in a foreign country with him?

but yes Taylor's post was devoid of her usual snarky remarks, but I am certain that's only because of who she was addressing, Turdy is one of her biggest admirers, and she needs all the support she can get around here.

in any world is an ugly thing, however, I'm afraid in this world, it tends to play by a different set of rules. Many women have a right to choose who they want to see based on well, really anything they want. In our defense, if you could think about just what it is we are selling, (which are not Gucci handbags I might remind you) but something we hold a lil more precious to us, it might make a lil more sense to you to help ease the pain.

I agree with your vent.. Digital takes up no real space.. and I agree. she could adverticse no A.A. but to charge more? That's very strange.. but then there are no rules.. I would understand if a provider had a surcharge for BMI above 30 for example.. but race? I can also use my preference for a particular type as a basis for who to call.. That's a choice too... but a surcharge.. that would be like not paying as much for a brunette as a blonde.. that would not go too far..

and I am not willing to make that leap of faith just yet.

but I will concede that would make sense to simply raise the price until the guy says no. I have to confess I have been known to do that myself in my business. I rarely work by the hour, but I have done so on occasion, but I try to discourage the practice so I charge $500 hr for my time if I like the person $1,000 hr if I don't. Usually I will roll any time I spend in research or analysis into whatever deal we end up doing together and simply don't charge an hourly for my time at all, but when dealing with a serial time waster, those are my rates, and just like you ladies who have been burnt before, I expect a bank wire or check before I lift a finger.

I also agree that when ladies do what you are talking about, it doesn't "soften" a thing, nor does it make anyone happy about it either. Personally I think just getting a NBA policy out there for all to see is probably the least offensive way to do it. Waiting until you are one on one just seems rather cruel, not to mention insulting to me.

10 to 1, this gal suffers from a condition called Asperberger's Syndrome which, among other things, can cause a person to say callous things to another "just because they're true", without any regard to that person's feelings.

If you are familiar with the character Kramer from the Seinfeld TV series, you'll know what I mean.

I have known a few people with this disorder and after a while, I learned to take their thoughtless comments in stride.

Sorry you had to suffer on account of them, and I hope you find someone to spend that K on soon.

(not a psychiatrist)

and that was not the kind of game I was talking about,

A man does have to have a spine though. and both dungy and turdy are sorely lacking in that department, which is why both of them received the abuse that they do/did.

You can't come onto a board such as this, publicly demand respect and then act as spineless and clueless as both lungman and RodTidwell have done. It too is so transparent and few ladies or men fall for it either.

I hope you told her at least to FUCK OFF and do it TODAY. Do you have any self respect dude? C'mon.  

In his warped mind he probably thought that he could puff out his chest once again for being the "bigger man" and elicit some sympathy to quiet his detractors at the same time. I mean after all, who would question a man who cries that he is a victim of racism? Kind of reminds me of a reverse of the whole "Some black guy did it" accusation.

No we don't rag on Turdy because he is new, or clueless,or even for being a mangina. We rag on him for refusing to learn or to grow here, despite dozens of second chances. It's one thing to whack a poster across multiple threads, it's another to know the character of a poster and whack him across multiple threads because of his character, or lack thereof.

There are a few girls who don't want to see people of certain races and ages for various reasons. Young African-American men have been found by some girls (including AA providers) to be rough and rude.  The same goes for young men of any race, for the same reason and many girls won't see a white guy under 30.  Korean girls will often refuse to see Korean men, because that's a tight community and they might get found out.  And on and on.
Does it suck? Yes.  But this is not an ordinary business and, I, for one, will cut gals slack on this subject because they are selling the most intimate of services and are also highly vulnerable.
The irony here is that Roddy, say whatever else you will about him, would never be rough or rude to anyone.  He is perhaps the meekest mangina to ever "grace" this board.  But he really should just have STFU and moved on.
Question: I am well aware that the real Rod Tidwell character is black.  But I never assumed RoddyTardwell was, just because he picked that handle.  Did he ever come right out and say it? Because, if so, I missed it.
It's all academic because whatever the color of his skin, Tardy is still a tool.  It's hard to imagine an AA male having so little game.

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I agree with everything you said here.

Inicky did show some growth and acted like an adult towards her this time. Mind you, her post was devoid of tiny little snide comments. She was fair and was very well written.

There might be more than a few fat men that take offense at that. Look I firmly believe any lady has any right to see whomever she please considering the nature of this business.  

Game seems to know no color. And what is game? I thought being a genuine nice person with some communication skills and a sense of humor was all the game either a man or a woman needs. The other "game" or I call it BS is so transparent and few ladies or men fall for it.

Those posts seem to mysteriously disappear.

It does appear that he has quit posting bad advice to others and I believe the "bully crowd" can take credit for that small blessing as every time he would post bad advice we would call him out for it before anyone could act on his bad advice.

You've seen dozens of posters just like him over the years, they come on this board and after spending fifteen minutes here they try to tell the vets just how wrong they are and how they can "fix things" here. Most of them get the hint after a couple of days or weeks, but some of them are just thick in the head and feel like they have to defend every dumb idea they come up with until the bitter end.

I remember once upon a time you used to prevent this type of behavior by closing threads that end up on the far right hand side of the page. If you look back over the last few weeks you'll notice just how many threads like that involve turdwell. Those that aren't trimmed at least.

Honestly, yes.  A resounding yes. And don't think I'd cut Turdy any slack because of his race.  That would be racist, wouldn't it?  And, yes, I knew Dungy was black from the get-go because Mikey told me.  You didn't see me cut him any slack because of it, did you?
As you know, I am an equal-opportunity asshole.  If I like what you post I'll treat you well.  If you post pathetic, lame shit like Tardy and Dungy I will flame you no matter how tan you are.  Even if you are a Semi-Sino-Sicilian, Wu.

You name it, I appreciate their posting and participation.  I try to respond to the post and not the poster, and I try not to whack a poster across multiple threads just because of who he or she is.

But when she interacted with him she spontaneously enacted a "NTA" policy -- No Tardwells Allowed.

My hair color.  No wait,  some of it is graying...

This is a place to talk about this stuff - and we heard it personally from someone it happened to.  

If it's true,  it's messed up.

I was trying to reserve judgment until I saw it for myself, which I have now.  I should have just followed your lead.

In all fairness H+T, and not that it matters, but since you addressed the issue, may I just say....if one happens to look at 'past' comments, most snide remarks (as you put it fairly) only 'stem' from comments typically made first by others in a response. Of course, now this is on the average.  

From a provider of same race. She didn't want the possibility of running into her parents friends.  I kept telling her that I don't have that many friends who are same race as me but she still refused.  

Turdy is just like the guy who comes on a regional board bitching about NCNS, but refusing to name the lady.

If you don't want to share the info, that's your choice, but to the rest of us it's just so much blah blah blah, especially coming from the board piñata.

If he would ever man up instead of constantly whining he might just get a little respect around here, and this is a perfect opportunity for him to do so. If he will step up and name names and stand behind the courage of his convictions, I will do a 180 on the spot and support him. but he lacks the guts to do so. On that I will bet money.

She would be more than free to come on here and defend her actions, and I would suspect that even if we were to stipulate that the event happened in the first place, that it didn't go down anywhere like turdy describes it.

BTW both Curly and I are minorities and the victims of discrimination in our lives, in my case a hell of a lot worse than having a hooker refuse to see me. I've actually been in fear for my life because of not being white, but that's not the point. It's really easy to play the race card without providing a bit of proof that an event ever happened, people are so eager to jump on the bandwagon, most of them never think to ask about the motivation of the "victim" as they are terrified to be labeled racists themselves.

I am not white, I don't suffer from white guilt, and I judge people by their words and by their actions, not by the color of their skin.

If you don't name her then I see this as a lameass attempt to gain sympathy using your RACE CARD...

I caught an episode of Naked and Afraid set in the Costa Rica jungle.   The intro said that a naked woman had a lot to be afraid of in the CR jungle - I got a mental image of you chasing the resort girls into the jungle and laughed out loud, to which my wife replied: "WTF is so funny about that."  I laughed even harder and couldn't answer.

But it was not the simple fact of upselling that upset the OP, but rather the highly insensitive comments regarding his ethnicity that is at issue.

I've been upsold on several occasions, but it never affected my psyche.

On the other hand, I've had comments made about my religion in a careless and offensive manner which did upset me, though the person doing so most likely had no intentions of being offensive.

Done away with by the DSM V, which put the symptom grouping on the low end of the autism spectrum.  

but I wouldn't rule it out.

and although it does my ego good to think that "they chase me" the reality is, they actually chase my money, but I am fine with that and I am rather easy to catch as long as she's hot.

JK. But you two are hot lol.

Makes sense... I just feel that some may like to vent without making a lady look bad. That's really what I'm getting at.  

She might refuse to see him again....Oh wait, she's already refused to see him.

He has never been shy of PMing me, whether it was to ask for advice or just otherwise...

They are looking for constant attention because they are born of a certain color, and back in the day they were wronged by white people...  

But I'm sure I've called you a "tard."
Also, I'm not 60 and neither is GaG, so do try to be more careful with your "facts."
Most important it is a complete and utter lie for you to say, "I'm not a liar which has been proven everytime you guys decide to play Sherlock Holmes."
In fact, we have been right every time but once, when Admin proved you had not reported a specific post.  The rest of the time we have proven, again and again, that your "facts" are totally wrong.
Thus, you are, in fact, a liar

Now all we need is some hooker to come on here and bash the rest of us Asians to make Turdy feel a little better about himself, and could someone please say something about the Jews, after all why should Nick's people get a pass?

Come on, it's not really racism if you hate everyone equally.

Otherwise our good friend Curly might be terribly disappointed that you won't see him, but I am sure you are out of his weight category anyhow. Nothing personal of course, and I don't mean to be rude anymore than I am sure you didn't mean to offend the Indian members here.

I mean, There are so many providers out there it doesn't make one bit of a difference...  LOL

Maybe it's just another upsell angle. She might charge the next guy extra because he's a cripple, or a Jew, or old, or overweight, or underweight, or short, or tall, or wears glasses, or works as a machinist (clean hands issue). Maybe her motivation is to make as much money as she can.

Its the men straight from India that are the ones to avoid.  Horrible horrible clients and RDU seems to have an abundance of them.  Black men are no better or worse then white men.  In fact out of all the races black men seem to have been the best clients.

I would just straight up not see them and not even bother with the extra charge.  Too many bad experiences with Indians though not all of them are bad.

What is messed up about it?

They do that all by themselves by their words or actions.

Who knows, assuming for the moment that any of this ever happened in the first place,if your BF were toname this woman, she might shed an entirely different light on what actually happened. Or she could concede that Turdy was telling the truth and he would get the understanding and sympathy he is so desperately seeking. BUT, if he doesn't have the guts, I certainly understand, it's exactly what I would expect from him.

I mean this is a discussion board after all, so lets discuss, and there is no better way than to get all the parties involved out there for all to judge who is the one telling the truth. Without that, this is just another in a very long line of threads about racism. Yawn, been there, done that

I'm self diagnosed, with having this syndrome. Whether or not I actually do is another story.

Men from India are entitled to the same respect as "calorically challenged" hookers, aren't they?

I see, it's only rude when I say it, not when you do. Gotcha. I will try to do better in the future by ignoring your rudeness while trying to control my own.

stated that the 'intent' of this thread was to not 'intentionally' make someone 'look bad'. For those of you who think this game is just that, I suggest you seriously re-evaluate just why and what it is you are doing here. Unless true 'foul play' has been involved in the danger of another human being, it is no one's business nor 'job' to do such a thing no matter how many jollies one receives from it. The ladies here are running a business. The gentlemen here are looking for ladies who run that business validly. If those I speak of have nothing better to do with their time, I would be more than happy to offer a few solutions (free of charge of course) that will not only feed your soul but perhaps allow you to see there are more important things than undoubtedly and 'unjustifiably' making other human beings 'look bad' on this forum.  

there are so many reasons to hate people on an individual basis. LMAO!

This time I'm going to take it at face value instead of the normal shill for TS.  

GaGambler.... You said a mouthful.
I cannot express how much respect you have just earned in my eyes.
While that isn't a pleasant pill to swallow, you show the moxie of a man who has his own mind to see clearly through the smoke & mirrors.
I live in a very mixed area. I have a lot of black friends, of course, as the white girl, such intelligent points in conversation & debates of course usually gets NO PLAY.
I usually don't get on a soap box, but this is one thing that I feel strongly about & YES it does happen... The whole boiling pot of "race, racial tension, the twists & plot turns, humans psyches, mentalities, and good/bad thought processes" ... I wish racism were dead, however it will be alive and thriving as long as people cater to it, be they white black or any shade in between.
I have seen the other side of the coin, been a "snowbunny" (and no not a mindless opinionless one, I am by far too observant.) I have witnessed the race card used, and used in reverse, hell, I have seen the cards flying around like people were playing poker/uno/tunk.

I specifically said Indians who have just arrived here from India.  I can say that because around 80% of my bad experiences were with Indians who had just arrived in the RDU area.  Courtney has had bad experiences with this demographic too.  And yes you did mean to be rude with that whole 'porky' comment, but what can I say?  Insults are reserved for those who aren't intelligent enough to come up with a decent argument.

I will concede you have a point about men born and raised in India, and the cultural differences that most likely aren't too pleasant for an American woman to endure (or an Indian woman for that matter)

I won't take down my post as that's the coward's way out to remove all traces of a poorly thought out post. but I will retract my statement and offer my apologies publicly for all to see.

and if this post does disappear I guarantee you that I won't be the one responsible. I am not so full of myself that I can't admit when I am wrong, and I will do so publicly for all to see.

Of course it's not often that I am wrong, (I had to add that so you will know that someone didn't hijack my account. lol)

Girl, you took the words right out of my mouth.  

The genetic configurations that determine what we look like are so complicated that "race" doesn't have any meaning. It's just in the mind. I have no idea what my "race" is. I know what I have to put down on forms that demand I ask, but who knows? I've never cared enough to investigate the issue to any extent.

Plus one

Make more money.  

This had nothing to do with you messing up or you seeking a lady at the last minute.
And of course it's not personal, since she doesn't know you at all.
But it would REALLY suck to have another person actually verbalize such thoughts to you, to make you feel subhuman.
Look, I'm a nice guy by nature too, I like for people to like me and I like to try to put them at ease and make them comfortable.  But guess what?  Not everyone is going to like you, no matter how "charming" you are and how "wonderfully" you treat people.  And as often as not, as in this instance, it has nothing to do with you. You can analyze it to death and drive yourself crazy or just accept it and move on.

You are after all the number one poster.  Perhaps that has pumped up your ego so much that you think you are always right.  There is a difference between being rude and stating an opinion based off one's NUMEROUS experiences about a demographic that may be based on cultural differences.  It is pretty well known that women aren't treated equally in India and there is a lot of sex trafficking going on.  Did it ever occur to you that an Indian man who came from a country that has rampant sex trafficking and gender inequality could be disrepectful to an American hooker because hes been taught his whole life that women are inferior and his for the taking?  No I suppose not, you are a know it all right?  After all I'm not skinny because I eat too much right?  I guess the 700-800 calories I eat everyday because my meds take away my appetite are making me fat huh?  Yep you know everything.

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it is making a statement AGAINST browbeating.  

not that anybody really cares, lol. But I go genuinely agree that the 'skinny threads' - meaning, the ones that go to the right-hand side of the page and get super-skinny - are out of hand. It's not even discussion.

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Or is it?

Ten box of klenex too. Balling like a baby all night , kinda > da white girl won't fuck me , da white girl won't fuck me waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa ! Yeah that's what he does ......!  

You already do that.  You pay more for women you view as hotter, have a wider menu, longer legs, whatever you use to choose a provider.  There's a relatively well known provider who I would love to see, but one of her screening gates is age, and I can't make the cut there.  Makes me sad, but there are a lot of fish in the sea and I'll make it by without making it with her.

Good summary.  He should have said STFU (or perhaps "sorry me lady, if I understood you correctly then methinks the heavens must not willith that we shalt lie down together and enjoy the pleasures of the flesh in rapturous union.  Oh, and the rung that you occupyith on the ladder of us terrestrial mortals is in the last decile, or perhaps at best the last quartile").  Then moved on.

I pm'd him. Asked who it was. He's gone dark. All here are such suckers.  

I actually picked a random race to prove a point about up charging because of race... I actually used to date an East Indian, and I was very very attracted to him... Only problem was, yes, in that case I was required to dress and look amazing while he sat around in his PJ's and hair all over the place. But that's one experience with one guy. I can't remember much w Indians in this profession...

Plenty do...often as well  LOL

I'm probably the least cliquey person on earth. It's so immature, insecure, and ridiculous to let other people tell you who is 'cool' to hang with. If someone respects me and is a good friend, I'm all in. Could care less what a client or peers think.  

If I had a dollar for all the white girls who wouldn't fuck me, I'd have plenty of dollars, to spend on the girls who don't turn me down.

Better luck when open registration commences again in the fall  

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What was the point of you glamming around, whilst he was au naturel?

But if you're game...and other parties are willing to step forward (some have already done so publicly)...I'll take your bet.

Just that suggesting all (or most) would read it the same way is not correct.

See how that doesn't make sense?  

I mean, I always get these random texts from caucasian providers tell me that they miss me, want to see me, and want to play around with me. They can't possibly be making all that stuff up just to have a session with me?  

Like eurkel .....! Playing the race card is lame ..yawn .has to be the .most played out topic ...boo fucking who cares !  

I wonder if the black members here are as embarrassed as much about Turdwell as you must be about AF? Some dumb white people might just assume all Indians are as dumb as AF or that all black guys are as clueless as Turdwell. No, nobody could be that dumb, could they?

Fun crazy is great.  The more fcked in the head with nuttyness, less likely to play.  
   
Had a girlfriend who was a great fuck, lots of fun, then one day taped foil over the AC vents and electrical sockets because she was being spied upon by religious freaks.  Went from "great fuck" to "this is fucked".

NOT that kind of "snowball"!

However RodT is being considered....simply as a distraction mind you.  We know he would just start crying at every fucking meeting.

Cuz they're smart

I was going to spank her in a cook-off before she retired.   Still love her, though.

Of course I do make up for my chronological age by being very, very immature, if that counts for anything. lol

and yes you are an exception with your age "maximum" very few other providers have maximums although I am pretty sure that if I were a young woman in this line of work, there would have to be a certain age beyond which I just couldn't do. Come to think of it I do have my limits to how old a woman I will see as well, so I guess I would be a huge hypocrite if I were to call you an "ageist"

+1 Nice backbone, BB And.... Ga...

There is a difference between profiling racially to be racist & giving statistics as observed.
You can not change numbers or facts.
Certain people fall into categories of their own behavior. Fact. Otherwise stereotypes wouldn't exist. Nor would Freud's work.

I like to call 'enabling'. Voluntarily enabling repetitious slander on this public board directed toward an individual continuously is no different that subliminal brainwashing really. It's where the mind sees and reads what it wants to, not what's really there. Especially when it's over months at a time. That's my take on it. Hey, no skin off my back, as I said whatever gets your goat, and floats your boat. I just think you could use it for other purposes instead of knocking people over and over.  

For the record, my personal experience has shown NONE of these to be true:

I don't make myself 'look bad' here either. I am a woman who has a mind and voice and can think and speak for herself. I don't need the 'backup' to feel validated. Do me a favor and ask yourself just who I am laughing at and telling to fuck off? One/two gentlemen here who find every single chance to mock me 'first'...perhaps you'll find your answer there. If you think I'm remotely like this with a gentleman on a date, I'll call you f'n crazy, hahahaha...ok I have to laugh. Sorry. That's just silly.  

Guys can call hookers every name in the book on here but if a hooker so much as mentions a group she won't see all hell breaks loose. If a hooker has seen 10 indian (add any other race, religion, age group and body size here) and all her experiences were bad for numerous reasons, why is it so difficult to understand why she no longer wishes to deal with that group if the majority of her other clients are okay with a few exceptions that she also avoids?  

Why are you even on this board? You are the biggest most NEGATIVE ASS. All your responses are negative, you bash providers and hobbyist like you're some super hobbyist w/no reviews, meaning either a low-life who's a creeper w/o a life or a cheap ass who is bitter that other hobbyist are able and afford to see the providers.   Get a life & stop being a worthless BOARD TROLL!  This man posted something that happens a lot in this biz, which is unfair but hey everyone has their preferences. You're comments are of a 5th GRADER. Learn some manners, while getting some class!

..ageist because you are... and make no bones about it.. the beauty of the system is that for every SYT that doesn't like Phat Olde Pharts, there are dozens that do...

It's not like he hasn't taken nasty pot shots at fat chicks, old chicks etc. Where were you when that happened?

.. and an hour later I was horny again

If some dude deems me unfuckable because I like Taylor, he's the one with the problem. That's just silly.  

Equal Opportunity Provider?
Wait....
I thought I thought I saw this in the Ho-handbook when I signed up....

In case you missed it, Roger was an "alter ego" she created after the first time she ran out of here claiming never to come back. To make a long story short, she came back pretending to be a hobbyist with nothing but great things to say about herself.  After a couple of days I busted her out as being her own shill which she eventually admitted to.

This is just one of the many things she has done since showing up on the boards. So when she says she got booked by a perfect gentleman, I would take it with a grain of salt. she has a history about lying about such things. I dare her to deny it as there are many posters here who remember the entire episode.

People talk about all these threads that end up on the "right side" of the page, have you ever noticed that Turdy and BSCTaylor are involved in almost every one of them?

but if I started "sucking up" to you, you would most likely lose whatever respect you have for me.

Now "sucking you" is a whole nother story, but we can talk about that some other time, preferably before I am too old for you. lol

BTW do you have an "age extension" for asians? You know we age better than people of other races))

I could have taken the cowards way out by simply deleting the post and pretending it never happened, like so many others here do after saying something stupid, but I am above that.

I apologized both in public and in private, and if BB is willing, I would like to put it behind us. when you make thousands of posts, you are going to get a few of them wrong, this was one of those cases.

In my defense I though she was going after Curly as he was/is one of Turdy's biggest detractors along with me of course. I was wrong and misread her post and I apologized, especially for making the personal attack about her weight which is something I almost never do. You will see me making comments about "fat broads" in general, but it's a rare day that I stoop to calling one specific woman "fat" that's mean IMO opinion and usually only something I will do when someone has "thrown the first punch" That was not the case today and why I am making a profuse apology for my words. i don't tolerate stupid, and I don't mince my words, but I try to stay on the other side of "mean" something I failed to do today.

None of this is meant as an excuse, simply an explanation, you can choose to believe my words, and accept my apology or not, as can BB. all I can say is my apology is sincere, and not prompted by any backlash or pressure from anyone else here on the board. You can see that we are the only ones even talking about, it's not like I am only caving to board pressure as there is none. I recognized my error and apologized for it, it's as simple as that.

and it's my belief that no providers should see Martians.

I mean who can sound dumb, stupid, ignorant, angry, clueless in one single sentence...

I can dish it out, but I can take it as well. You do know the "mean kids" might quit picking on you if you would develop a sense of humor.

but I will agree, Southern Country Clubs are about the most racist places on earth, and like you, I really don't like those people. I would love to bring a flaming black transexual to play, just to see their racist homophobic jaws drop. About the only thing that has changed is that they no longer call us Niggers or Chinks, we are simply "those people" today. oh but hispanics, yeah they are still "messicans" and it doesn't matter if you are from TJ or Santiago, Chile, you are still a dirty messican to those people.

At your request I just checked out your P411 ad, and it states that you are 44. I suppose my initial guess that you are around fifty was a pretty good one, wasn't it?

If it makes you feel any better though, even if you are fifty, you're still younger than me, but not by much.

but my point still stands if you can jump from 42 to 44 in just a few months It would appear that yes you are getting old, and at twice the pace of the rest of us.

but believe me the stupidity still exists in the south. I was talking to a golfer at my work, who happens to be black and I said "hey we should play golf sometime" you'd have thought I had just hit him in the forehead with a four pound sledge hammer, he couldn't believe it and cautiously agreed as if I was trying to screw him over or something. He's a golfer and I'm a golfer, our race has nothing to do with anything. The golf ball surely doesn't care. But knowing what I know about the members, they might disown me if they were to see me golf with some black members. And to be honest, this makes me even more eager to golf with he and his friends to get these people to not think I'm one of them just because of the color of my skin. They call me a Yankee down here, and it's not a term of endearment I assure you. I kindly inform them that my family emigrated here from Holland in 1949, we didn't have anything to do with that damn war, which by the way was 150 years ago and we've fought quite a few wars together on the same team since. I then ask them if you hear a person with a German accent, do you automatically assume they are a Nazi? And yet that was 70 years ago.  

not that they're all bad, but I assure you this, I haven't met one yet that I like.

'justsayin' lol...another argument devoid of sense huh and of course, under an alias. Gee that's a shock. If you need directions to the button, let me know, I'd be more than happy to help. Or here's an idea, if you care to come out of hiding and say all your mean juicy stuff so I can see who you are, feel free. Until then don't waste my time. I thank you in advance.

Oh, but then again we're only going to see each other for short periods of time. Somehow though, I don't think it's difficult for you to meet that requirement. Just sayin. And yes I'm sucking up, the operative word being sucking.

Who says I don't have a sense of humor. You.  
Who says I'm BSC. You.  
Who says I'm getting old. You.  

Busted.  

nah........justplayin justsayin. Did you find that button yet? If you respond, I'll know you didn't take my advice.  

Everyone makes mistakes, being accountable for ones mistakes is not always a common trait of people today, whether in here or in regular life. I commend you for your honesty

Then I'll be shunned by the gold diggers and I won't see a need to be polite to them anymore.

I haven't, met one of them yet that I like.

I just killed a bottle of Makers Mark from my bar and it wasn't a full shot, so does that mean I get a full shot from the next bottle?

Tobi? because I'm in, shit I can cross off a bucket list item and I only have 20 years to work, and you know what happens when a work o holic retires, right?

and if so come to town to catch a few games if your game we can catch a few games. I know there are some great ladies I'd love to see while in town and besides I want to see Nationals park. Oh well the ambien is kicking in with the Bourbon so I should probably retire for the evening

Oh well, I thought I might get advise from a pro, evidently not. So I wen out on a limb  and broke protocol and added a double.

I don't usually make much sense an anyway and it tends to be significantly less after 4 glasses or Bourbon

with LAD - ARI playing back to back 2 games in "Land Down Under" - Sydney Cricket Ground to be more specific...

thanks fore the heads up. The Tribe starts on 3/30. the boys of summer are back... wooohooo

But the real season starts 3.31.2014..

even those that take themselves to seriously. I was somewhat disappointed that my Cleveland Indians suffer prejudice as well, but hey I get it, it is after all your bodies. Just having fun tobi nothing meant towards you even though I posted under you post, I've been drinking.

All young black men are going to rip her up inside because of size and prowess. Or at least that was the game she was playing. I just don't get why Rod is protecting her.

It's why white men used to drill it in in white women's minds that all black men would "ruin" them. And it's why black men were killed for being caught for even LOOKING at white women.

She's a con artist and a trickin ass HO. See my post WAY below!

Steph

No idea what you're trying to say. Obviously you're trying to make a racist joke but I haven't the foggiest idea what you're implying lol  

And always have. And BTW I luv Bre to pieces...

First it's our bodies we choose. that being said whenever I see a white woman going down the path of I saw 5 or 10 or whatever the numbers is so I'm not seeing "them" anymore....

I always have to ask this: If you had some not so pleasant experiences with that number (whatever that number is) of white clients, would you stop seeing white clients?

Cuts thru ALOT of "stuff".

And most of the Indians coming here to RDU are younger and there are coming here to work in RTP. So they are educated and don't really do the whole sect thing anymore. There are some cultural differences for sure and the cuisine usually has a lot of curry and garlic.

And NEWS FLASH not all Indians are Hindu, many are Sikhs. And most Americans couldn't tell you if someone is from Pakistan or India anyway, lol.

Ok I'm done now!

Steph

and black. That's a whole different thing to me.

REALLY. An UPCHARGE for being young and black??? She's a con artist and a racist. Shit she should just say no AA men please and have it out there...NO WAIT, then she could try and get over on a brother!

and then he hibernates for a few days.  Rinse repeat. It must consume a lot of energy to do that consistently for years on end. lo

Hey it takes some guts to admit when you are wrong and apologize, especially on a public board.  I had no idea Curly was Indian until you mentioned it, and I really don't have anything against him other than a slight dislike over how he writes his reviews.  Now that I know he is Indian it all makes sense though lol.  At least I'm guessing he is in some kind of science/tech/engineering/computers job and those guys tend to write reviews like some kind of scientific report.

and decided to age backwards.  Soon she'll be wearing diapers.

But, yeah.  Ever watch "Honey Boo-Boo?"

I don't really make an ass of myself EVERYDAY do I? Really? (in all caps of course lol) Ok, in your mind maybe and the 'others' LOL. But for every one of you, there is one who is laughing at you, not with you. Don't fool yourself. There are how many people on TER?...........EXACTLY (see I can do all caps too).  

Or even better, just down the whole bottle, after this is the Tribe we are talking about. I am sure it's driven better men than you to drink. lol

I always thought I was a little too thick for your taste. Interesting.  

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but if I started "sucking up" to you, you would most likely lose whatever respect you have for me.  

Now "sucking you" is a whole nother story, but we can talk about that some other time, preferably before I am too old for you. lol

BTW do you have an "age extension" for asians? You know we age better than people of other races))

Ok I will explain it like this, and these are estimated numbers so bear with me.

evidently I'm not very articulate with the written word, and especially so when drinking Bourbon. It's an urban legend that when you purchase the last shot out of a bottle at a bar, you get the first shot of the bottle that replaces it with it. I was just trying to be silly while posting under the influence. You claim to be a drunk as well, so I thought you might get that, but again I take blame for not expressing myself well.

the Cleveland Indians, so I was being silly, you know racist of Indians. Oh well, I've admitted many times that I'm not so articulate with the written word so I understand completely why people are puzzled or confused about what I say. So, you'd think I'd just not post, but I won't get any better if I don't make mistakes. The scientist in me makes me wish to learn from my failures.

but you have a "hotness factor" that makes up for it.

So does that mean that you will still see me until I am seventy?

and that's why I said "they have driven better men than you to drink" I know it can't be much easier to be a Cleveland fan "ever" than a Marlins fan right now

He is a wreck of a man.  Not even 60 yet but looks 80.  Seriously.

I am actually 90, but I only look like 80.

That will show you what good living will do for you. lol

So what's next what hagglers Jewish people are?

And one thing I know is there is ALWAYS a sliver of truth in most stereotypes. What's why people laff at all the jokes about white man and being able to dance or jump some other ones.

Are you ok?