I couldn't find a thread on this but I'm sure it's been asked.

It's been like forever.  I have offered up my body to women since puberty.  I'm still working on my website and really struggling with the "hooker math" portion of how to charge the gals to work me over.

enhanced? Not sure about that but on my death bed I sure will have a smile on my face. LOL

Yes it has "enhanced" my life.

Just recycled ones. At least this one hasn't come up in a long time, unlike dick size and "why no A.A."

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Most guys will probably tell you that they do this for entertainment and variety.  I'm a bit different, have been "hobbying" for two years.
I was trapped in a sexless marriage (familiar story), and turned to the hobby to satisfy my LONG unmet needs.  After seeing different girls occasionally and with varying levels of performance on my part, I started seeing one girl as my regular after discovering some real chemistry.  I was a disaster sexually, with performance anxiety, ED and worried that my sexual career was over.  After a few months of "therapy" with an amazing and understanding woman, as she says I "have my balls back."  Now, no shots to get an erection, no pills and I can wear her out some days.  I'm trying to figure out if I can take her as a medical deduction - gonna talk to my urologist about getting a prescription.

I'm not sure if the P4P aspect (exchange of set $#) is what defines the lifestyle for me, or this aspect of my lifestyle. I've only been a TER member for a couple of years.

First massage parlor was about 31 years ago, and my first strip club long before any of those. (I went to strip clubs regularly for two years before I was legally old enough to go to strip clubs and the legal age was 18, not 21)

Must be a busy day at the beach.

Posted By: perfectstorm

First massage parlor was about 31 years ago, and my first strip club long before any of those. (I went to strip clubs regularly for two years before I was legally old enough to go to strip clubs and the legal age was 18, not 21)  
   
 How has it enhanced my life? It put a lot of smiles on my face.  
 It has allowed me to be with some amazing women that probably wouldn't have given me the time of day in real life. On the other hand I have also made some genuine friendships with some providers. Some have lasted long after retirement and have nothing to do with money or sex, even though we never would have met in the first place if it hadn't started that way.  
   
 As for this question being asked before, it has, but it's been a long time (unlike some topics which seem to come back weekly), so you definitely get a pass for this one.

It beats the shit out of golf, which I sucked at anyway.  And unlike golf, the more strokes the better.

Do my two marriages count? That's by far the most expensive sex I've ever had.

Been doing this a long time. Between street girls and BP providers.
Have experienced alot of different things. Everything from different BBBJ techniques to girls that are so vocal i had to make her quiet down!
I even had 1 provider Demand that i pound her ass hard and this was recently.

But if you want to send them to the beach to spank me, I'll accept my punishment for neglect of dities.

Dear Inicky:
The follow up question you should ask is would it be legal or illegal hooking. Although both involved monetary transactions, one is purely monetary while the other is emotional,psychological and recognized by the court of law as legal. That would clarify any obfuscation between the two.

I guess you got married or something during that time.

Yeah I'm old, but still hobbying, but not as much.  I've gone from whore houses, to street walkers, to jack shacks and finally the internet.

2 & 1/2 years!!!  

We all know the difference.  But, especially on this board, many have compared marriage and prostitution. Generally, prostitution is considered the more honest situation.  It's only the law that's confused.
Now, please, stop being obtuse or we'll get you confused with JohnyPimpSympathizer.

...so I'm definitely still a noob. But so far I have had only good experiences so I'm hoping for a long fun ride here.

and I wonder what the future has in store next.

Robot providers?  holographic providers?

The mind boggles.

The hobby has kept me mentally and physically fit, and made for a very interesting life, and even given me some good friends.

I lost my virginity when a freshman in College then during the Korean War I spent 4 years (1951-55 pursuing ladies of the evening in several ports in Japan, Hong kong, Manila, Bangkok, Mexico. Then back to college where I met my wife and never strayed for 52 years--great marriage, great woman but then she died and after 4 years I felt like I needed feminine companionship and found it with several escorts in Tucson and recently from Phoenix. At 82 I'm living it up and loving it. TER has been an invaluable resource.

I think it's fantastic    Hobby has no age limits...  I love to hear stories like this!!!   TY for sharing!!! 😘😘😘😘!!!

Thanks to everybody for sharing.  Hopefully i will have more positive than negative experiences throughout the hobby.  So far the providers I have met have been more than accommodating and good companions to be with.  Not to mention just pleasurable to be with

In 45 minutes one of my ATFs  and one of Tucson's finest will be visiting me for a couple of hours.

And as far as my views on men, well it has not changed that, I have always had the same views, this just proves them and made them factual than just views.  

Just sayin'.

in Vietnam  - 1968 through 1972

Is this another one of your: Remember, pic existed before it existed, type of existence?  rofl

Hope you have a blast.  I have a new hero.

And for the record, no, I didn't take that photo.

a child of 2008. Will be 6 years in December...

But it sure won't be two restraining orders though because, according to him, having redundancy leads to chaos.  

Your math means you have been with at least 2000 men. eom

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Over the last year I've had the best sex of my life.  I would say the hobby has definitely enriched my life! Not just in terms of sex, but also in terms of the amazing ladies I've met. It's been a very very good year

It's an interesting perspective.  I would agree that those that are offering empty promises are probably doing the same in their respective career/jobs.  I would even go so far as to say that we are all guilty of the same thing.  Why do we do something for someone else... Hopefully it's just to hep out your fellow man/woman.  But often times it's because we are hoping for some reward in return either consciously or subconsciously.

since I came back.  I'm still a virgin though cuz I am afraid of asking the provider for CG and I spend all my time picking her up instead of banging her.

I didn't realize is still be in touch with women I met this way for any amount of time.
Forget years!!
When you start this.. You think it's some kind of dark ally shit..
It's such the opposite it is the definition of irony.
Everyone I've met has been aces..

is that a bad thing?

And I haven't looked back. I actually thought about asking a civie out about a month ago (she's cute and she's been flirting with me rather aggressively). And then, I thought better of it. The hobby is so much easier, no work, no games and you know you're going to get your world rocked by a woman who is not only fine, but very good at world rocking.

Don't hold back Tobi, tell us how you really feel about that jackass. It's not good to hold your emotions in, they get all bottled up. Lol! Cheers darlin.

it's been! I've been in the business of entertaining gentlemen in one way or another for over 20 years. I have loved every minute of it! Well, that's not strictly true- there were a few less-than-stellar minutes but mostly having to do with stalker ladies and a random arsehole or two. But overwhelmingly I adore what I do. It's really a calling for me and I truly believe it's what I was made for. I'll be here as long as someone wants me, in some capacity. Maybe not always as Sarah, but I'll be around.

And for now, I am only dabbling in some "extended" FBSM.  I do wonder if my appetite will increase.

I haven't looked back, either. I wish I had've become a provider sooner.

She arrived, we played and I survived. What more can I ask? lol

I'm familiar with Minnesota winters. After the holidays the dark passenger will want some indoor activity.

And dense as usual.

30 years or so.  Long before I became a Politician.  Last 5 years have been the best from a quality standpoint. TER Rocks for the most part!
 

... but I get to return the favor, equal rights and all.

...or quit.

Joe is 80 years old and about to marry a 25-year-old Vegas showgirl.  His friends take him aside before the wedding to express their concern.
"A man like you.  A young girl like her," one says. "What if something terrible should happen on the wedding night?"
Joe shrugs and says, "If she dies, she dies."

You know you want to.

would be advocating the murder of showgirls?

to everyone but you.

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And I feel the same about you. Interesting people interest me!
Just saying :-

Back then, and back across another decade, I was a regular strip clubs, where it was hit or miss....mostly miss, of course.  Since then...let's just say the batting average has lept upward considerably.  

And Thank you for caring

maybe her math was correct after all.

I don't know my exact "number" but I am sure it's getting up around 4,000 at least, but 4,000 over forty years also is not as big a number as it sounds, now if I live long enough to double that number, I'll go out a happy man, and probably a tired one to boot. lol

Since 2012 on TER, old school before that.

Over that same 40+ year period, I figure I'd spent about $250,000 on cigarettes. Imagine how many providers I could have had for that money.  

I worked with some very busy agencies. After I went independent, my volume went way down. Now I see maybe 30-50 individual guys in a year. I have no idea what my number is.

Since going to Simpson Street  by the Hunts Point Market in The Bronx with the guys on a Friday night. Then the Westside of Manhattan for $10 drive by CBJ's, When traveling Yellow pages, in some city's there were 50 pages of ads. Took a break for the 10 years I was married and didn't hobby. 1n 2000 the internet opened the hobby to new heights that we enjoy today.

Re: Your math means you have been with at least 2000 men. eom

In South Florida she'd be a newbie.

Welcome to the hobby Unloved, play safe, smart, and enjoy.  
       
Was in a sexless marriage, which I eventually put behind me, but I had to have my ashes hauled or I was gonna go crazy, so started being a monger at some Nevada brothels while traveling.  Still make a brothel visit every now and then, but got my feet wet with an escort a long time ago who clued me in on the in and outs.  Have met some terrific gals, most of whom became regulars for extended periods of time.  Have some wonderful memories:  Got a referral many years ago from a provider I saw once to her friend who turned out to be a retired porn star.  Spent my Sunday afternoons with this young hottie for a long time.  Met this more mature, incredibly sexy, mostly UTR provider and again, we shared Sundays together for a long time.  We became good friends and eventually just hung out as friends.  We live in different cities now but still talk on the phone regularly.  Some of the lows and laughs:  Saw this stripper/escort regularly for a while who was a manic depressive.  Never knew which personality I was going to see when we got together, so the session was hit or miss.  She was incredibly beautiful with a 10 body, and when she remembered to take her medication the time between the sheets was mind blowing.  Eventually got burned but can't forget her.  Most hilarious was the provider who fell asleep and started snoring while I was giving it to her in the ass.  

but my appreciation of the female body sure has.

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Rip off your head and shit down your neck for starters.

He's a weird, trollish buffoon, nothing more.  And probably not a very happy one.  His true punishment is to have to live his own fucked-up life.

Thanks for sharing

I'd say that it enhanced my life by providing me with a lot of sexual variety and fun over the years and I've meet some very nice people in the business as well.

I have been in the scene about six years.  I am less stressed out and able to deal with the ups and downs of marriage much better.   I think without it I would have divorced or made the mistake of getting a mistress who would have caused me problems.