A handful of providers over the past year or so have struck me as being 'different'.

........ in my life as a bouncer in a brothel, The ladies would share their thoughts with me. Sometimes, they would share their bodies too, lol.

(Not that I'd have any personal experience with that, wise guys 8o)

So, some providers think tongue on dick not as intimate as tongue on tongue   .  So freaking weird...

Well, you would think that if you've been conditioned to have to hide your dick from the world. Body shaming culture will do that . Even most of these heauxs will cock shame us.
All that tender tissue in the mouth is far more vulnerable and intimate.  

...with a stripper she said she would fuck me before she would kiss me. She said kissing is very personal as it's truly in your face. There are all kinds of ways to fuck that are not in your face.  

prefer K9 over mish, or CG.

That I understand - fucking before kissing, assuming fucking is covered (as it should be).

In my opinion, your point further validates my question. Body shaming culture and hiding dicks would imply that providing BBBJ is as intimate (if not more) than kissing.

perhaps.. yet to be with one who prefers K9 because of those reasons and hope that remains the case

If they're using the "it's too personal" bs on a stick, then believe what you will. I'm from a generation where a "kiss" is truly everything and at my rates yes, I share that...intensely,  enjoyably and willingly. Can't imagine meeting someone without that part. If you're mostly meeting millenials, well then,  not so much LOL, especially if the guy is double her age (come on really).  

...so the idea of the face to face acts being very personal can apply in both cases. Face to face is most intimate of all. It's that intimacy they save for boyfriend, etc. or simply don't want to share with clients.

I prefer not to kiss because to me it is more intimate.  I am not with a provider for the gfe..... however I do want a bbbj.... so those girls that don't want to kiss but want to suck my dick raw are perfect for me.

....... to me kissing is far more intimate because I'm sharing the same thing that she is sharing.
Intimacy =into me see.

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A good french kiss is to die for. Sure, a good blow job feels great and I can cum from a well done BBBJ, but to have a girl that close to your face, to feel her breath on you, to listen to her whimpers so close to your ears, with her soft lips on yours, I mean, oh my God, I practically fall in love.  

All the ladies i know feel the same way.  Mr door man is telling the truth about the way we feel. Honestly kissing or holding hands these are very personal and heart felt only for one.  
weird i know, we could suck your cock but tongue kissing up close is a to real. fuck that. lol that is my guys.
 I dont have a guy 'but im just saying i understand why no french kissing  

and provider better be a good and passionate kisser like I am or I won`t return. Love kissing a beautiful girls mouth, that`s  just appetizer  to enhance the affection, intimacy and then then the oral and sex entree'. It`s the complete experience, not any one without the other. The DFK stuff isn`t the same, doesn`t  really get it for moi, too gonzo over the top.
Fortunately my two ATFs are great kissers and thankful for that.
Think "pussy power" but don`t omit the "pucker power"

I'd honestly rather hire a provider that only offered DFK and nothing else, over a provider that offered everything but DFK. It is absolutely essential in order for me to enjoy the experience. Sex without DFK feels really weird, straight up unnatural in my opinion.

Hookers are people too lol, we all have lives separate from the hobby. I think it's weird that many people don't get it or understand why.  I am a freak...I love many naughty things and kissing strangers isn't one of them. For me kissing is intimate and special not to be shared with anyone but the man I married. There are very few things that we only share between each other and kissing is on that list. Also, even if that wasn't the case it would be a ymmv basis since I just really don't find kissing that fun if I don't know the person. I am not gonna pretend to enjoy something that I don't for the sake of a dollar. My sessions are 100% real and I only offer things that I truly love and enjoy. I reallllly like bbj and not kissing lol. Hey that's just me.  

It may not make sense to you but makes plenty of sense to me. There really is no point to argue what someone consents to doing. Some people like dildos up their culo, what is the point of dissecting people's boundaries or interests. You can't smell a dick while talking to someone....I've been able to smell bad breath a mile away and there is nothing enjoyable about being in someone's slimy mouth cavity. Blame my many years in the dental field and massge field (having to take in someone's horrible breath in my work space) for not wanting to jump down throats. As for a bbbj being as intimate..it's not. If you think so...clearly you have never had a kiss that literally will make you melt or knock your socks off or that you'll never forget as long as you live. It's totally ok to not understand something but what is your need to compare and reason why someone does things the way they want? If you aren't going to see a provider who doesn't kiss....why does it even matter? Everyone has preferences and thankfully we are on a forum where apl the ladies offer something...whether you like/understand it or not.

See! Guys like you love me. Lol.

Because some men are not good kissers and it's easier to deal with a dick than a wandering tongue that's trying to lick your face/ be shoved down your throat. Also good oral hygiene is sometimes overlooked.

A kiss is just a kiss,  
a sigh is just a sigh.  
The fundamental things apply

Not only does your profile disagree with your post, but so do most of your reviews which state specifically that you not only DFK, but that you do so passionately.

that said no kissing...NONE, but she would gobble that goob in about 2 seconds...lol.  I did, out of total habit, after I came in the mish position leaned down and gave her a quick peck on the lips....and she said "you got your kiss anyway".

I love both DFK and BBBJ, have no problems accepting that. I've gotten BBBJ most of time even from providers whose profile state CBJ  (but have been pleased with my hygiene). However, my love of DFK is what causes me angst when I don't get it.

I think it just strikes a lot of people as inconsistent to think that kissing is something intimate and special that should only be shared with someone you're married too but are okay with fucking a stranger. In pretty much all cases, you kiss somebody first. Therefore, you know them less than when you fuck them. At parties and nightclubs, lots of girls will kiss a guy but not have sex with them. Its very rare for it to go the other way around though.

Different  strokes for different  folks. Xoxo

Afraid that is out of question. BBFS is not something I'd like to even think about.

I'm GFE and I DO kiss.  DFK as well.
But it IS more intimate.  Sometimes it can be a bit uncomfortable, depending on the chemistry.
But I'm probably a bit odd in that I find something to like about almost everyone.
If the guy is not the most attractive, but he's sweet, and I can feel his loneliness....then "c'mere honey.  Kiss me."