Had an appointment for 11 AM today but didn't hear back until 11:40AM . She said she was in a car accident and "still talking to the officer".  Seems totally bogus for several reasons I don't want to get into as it involves some lengthy explaining... Anyways I don't think I want to see this provider again. Even though I've seen her before and had good sessions. Something about this NCNS and this lame excuse has rubbed me the wrong way..

My ATF missed an appointment one time and said it was because she was at the dentist and completely forgot about our appointment.  Lame excuse or not, it was a bad feeling to have set aside the time and not know what happened.  Since I know what it is like to be on the receiving end, I totally get it when providers complain about no shows, and they have the financial loss to be unhappy about as well.

involved pretty good excuses. They might have been bogus, but if so at least they were imaginative.  

They’re common from both sides of our P4P spectrum apparently. Several years back, a couple of providers local to me with decent averages across many reviews were both seemingly accident prone, had family members who were accident prone, or would sometimes totally MIA until well into our scheduled time. I was still trying to find my way in the hobby, so didn’t move on as soon as I should’ve even though I knew they were full of shite.

I did have to use my mother-in-law died excuse -- because my mother-in-law died.   But I was able to reschedule later in the same day.

Especially after you say you have seen her before and really enjoyed your dates. Let her make it up to you and see how it goes. You may be missing out on a fantastic session. Just sayin'.

Because some of us have heard these kind of excuses way too many times..  If you haven't you will, and if you aren't willing to admit to yourself that these are lame ass excuses, I don't know.. I got a bridge to sell you...  

Which implies other make up sessions have been great, or at least good, for you. All I am suggesting is an alternate route for someone the OP claims has been a good date in the past.

I haven’t had any ncns in a very long time, but if I did I would give her the benefit of a doubt because of the high prices these providers charge today, I would think it’s must be true, unless she has a better p4p which I guess could happen, if I’m only booking for 1 hr someone else might want to book for multiple hours.

....but she wasn't even classy enough to come up with a lousy excuse. She just ghosted me with no explanation. Because of her I never do outcalls anymore. Nowadays if a provider can't offer me an incall then I don't book.

This was with a hugely hyped, very expensive, and far away provider..  

a NCNS is ghosting the individual on the day of the date and beyond. No communication whatsoever.  

You are reading wayyyy too much into it.. I am just making off the cuff comment here. Not practicing law.  

of anything they had planned on. That's a given.

One was the classic "I had my ringer off so didn't know you were trying to call me."   Another variant of the cell phone excuse is that their battery died.

My "cell phone" excuse story. It was my first NCNS, early in my experience. All was confirmed the day before and earlier on the day of the meeting. I'm stuck in traffic but make one more voice-to-voice contact about 15 minutes before arrival to say that I will still be on time. I park in the nearby mall garage and call again at ~T minus 5 minutes. No answer; no reply.  
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The hotel was right next to the mall with several cell phone company stores. The excuse I got a few days later was that she got a NEW cell phone and NEW cell phone number (not switched her service from the old carrier to the new carrier, possibly resulting in a delay or gap in service or other screw up) and that she forgot to give me her NEW number (even though her OLD number, working 15 minutes earlier, was STILL working).  
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Oh ... I've told about this one -- and some other lame excuses -- before:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/gramps-the-dog-the-phone-guy-and-sal-monella-785786 (The one where her dog faked an injury to get her to take him to the vet.)  
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http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/the-normal-abnormal-705827

I was set to meet a local lady who has very good reviews and a rate structure that strongly encourages longer appointments, so I booked two hours which I never do, but it was a bargain so I did it.

My date was probably an hour late.  I called her up. She could not put 3 words together in the proper order.  She was so fucked up I was truly glad she hadn't come over.  Don't need anyone puking in my lap or passing out in my room.

Involved in a bad session... asks that someone names names? Oh I get it you don't make threads like this. Well if it's because you don't make thread like this you wouldn't know what the op is feeling, would you?

Tell her that you have a $50 cancellation fee.  

The worst excuse I was given when I was about 5 minutes away from the appointed and she (a top-rated, highly reviewed lady that I saw before), called and told me she had to cancel because her roommate was sick and she had to take care of her. She kept the deposit and said we can apply it later, but as a traveling girl, it was a year before she was back in town and she claimed ignorance of the NCNS.

Unless this has happened 3 or more times then I would take her at what she says.

Tbh I don't se what's so funny. In a perfect world, buyer would also have the power of a cancelation fee if the seller can apply one.

We also live in a world where photoshop and false information runs rampant. That pic of an alleged broken down car the provider sent me might be just some random ass hooptie.

Well if I was with an officer I would not want to text a client I was going to see either. " Hey I won't be to come have sex with you for money" ! Not that that is what she would say but she was probably protecting her work phone from the cops because it has incriminating evidence on it. Who knows how she does dressed as well. Some ladies are a dead give away that they are escorts. Maybe give some time and ask if all is ok and feel her out. Usually the truth comes out. So if she was another client longer or whatever she will eventually let it slip. Sorry that happened to you though. I get people in accidents, blown tires, kids came home, pulled over for speeding etc all the time.

Had a regular of mine completely NCNS me after giving me the address. To this day I have no idea why. I had seen her 3 times prior and she texted me the address just an hour before. I felt like an a-hole sitting in the parking lot and sending text and text only to received no reply. That's the only complete ghosting I've received.  

Probable explanation... she's female.   Every female I've ever met processes everything you say through some "offense filter."  It doesn't matter what you meant, it just has to have some words that can be construed to offend her in some way.  Then they seek revenge.

About you, that is.

That I'm a keen observer of the human condition?

is constantly looking over your shoulder, watching out for every woman you’ve ever met coming after you seeking revenge for saying something offensive to them.  You must have a nasty crick in your neck.

I have had two classic ncns excuses, both when I was traveling.

Too late to try this, but, "You're in luck! I'm a professional exterminator and I'm right here in your parking lot! I can be up there with my gear in 2 minutes!  And, don't worry, I only use non-toxic organic approved sprays and powders."