First of all, I'm NOT tooting my own horn and I'm not being insecure.
I've never been told I was bad at anything.
I always hear:
"you're a good kisser"
"you're good at daty"

So here are my questions:

Providers: Have you ever lied to a client about them being good when they actually aren't? Or have you ever told a client flat out that they suck?

Guys: Have you ever been complimented for your work? Have you ever been told that you are no good?

I usually get compliments on both accounts, or rarely, they say nothing at all. I seriously doubt any provider ever tells there client they suck unless they have no intention of ever seeing him again.

I'm a guy and have been told by a number of providers I'm good at DATY. Never been told I am no good at anything.  I'd think that would be a bad business practice on her part if she ever wanted the client to return.  Part of what you are paying for is a fantasy and if she can make you feel good about your performance, it's a win-win.

That's why I like instruction.

money to give.............never been told i sucked at anything. Been told i could make a fortune giving DATY lessons to the younger guys though. But really, me Tarzan you Jane, there just boosting our egos.

Some guys give detailed reviews of what they do and how they do it. And it's not always good. I've even got a good laugh from some who obviously don't know what the hell they are doing. I keep thinking, boy that provider is a good actress. But they always mention how turned on they made her. So no, I don't think the provider normally tells a guy he sucks.

In ways that are pretty believeable...  kissing not so much.

Bad kissers are the worst! I will not let anyone jam their entire tongue in my mouth, so I just back away or tell them flat out "I don't kiss like that." They get the hint.

I would only ever tell the truth if the person asking was not a paying customer. I don't think it's part of my job description to critique. Now if what they were doing was painful or irritating I would simply get them to stop. Or if they were that bad, just not see them anymore.

Never been told I was no good ...

But I was once told by a provider that she only allowed DATY from her boyfriend, and by another that she only allowed DATY after we got to know each other better, and by another "that's going to be an extra hundred."

I must admit, I felt like Rodney Dangerfield.

I thought he was a terrible kisser.  Different styles, I guess.  Luckily lots of other reviewers think I am a great kisser.  

So if a guy really sucks at something, I'll compliment something else. Yes, I may lie and tell him he's great if he puts in a lot of effort and obviously aims to please (sorry)! Because in that case, he usually expects some acknowledgement, and to not give it would make him feel badly.

If he asks me ? Depends. Some guys, when they ask for feedback, are really fishing for a compliment. In that case, I won't deflate their egos. Other guys genuinely want to improve, so I'll give them a few pointers...but I'll never outright tell them they suck. I'll just say, "I really like it when this..."

So your answers: 1- Yes, don't ever take compliments too seriously (sorry!). 2 - Never

they might be  face liquors .

 One thing I've never had a provider do , stick her tongue in my ear drum , or lick my face  .
 Thanks to  every provider that follow the don't memos  .

Thanks for being honest and letting us guys know that sometimes a provider may be lying when complimenting our skills.
That was the point I was trying to get across.

Hi,

I know I'm bad at kissing, but the ladies forge ahead, anyway, to provide a wonderful, for myself, kissing experience! Now I need Dr. Who's TARDIS to go back in time, DFK Linda & have her sing me the song!! :P

Whether it's true or not is up for debate, but I know of three providers that will definitely vouch for me there.  

LOL, yes LR there are bad kissers, and i agree you just back off cause it just isn't worth the trouble or effort. no need to insult them just move on...
However, I've had the fortunate experience to have fabulous kissers, LFK, DFK and the nibbles and licks all over, etc..... I'll compliment them all day/night long. and when I do I'll get the same compliment back.....
One should never ask, just measure by the response back.

I've been complimented in many areas, I'll keep that between myself and the ladies.
But the best compliment I had was being asked to spend the rest of the night.... I thought she was being extremely complimentary "God I'd love you to stay all night!"  doah!!!
Now, had I not had obligations the 1st thing in the am, and a little more $$$$ i would have said "Sure Baby!"
Only to discover a month later while chatting..... she was genuine in her asking .....she hadn't had  a BF in a few years and wanted a warm body, and a F*** to wake up to in the am....  DAMN!!!!  lmao!!
as for DATY and all the other stuff some ladies come harder than others, and the times for the few times I won't...... just allows the ladies the warm stiff "legend"for a long long long time.  
Me thinks they don't mind that.

Whether civvie or not, most women won't tell you you are bad. Kills a guy real quick. I have had some good guys and bad guys (we all have had). Best thing to do is aim them in right direction. Never had a guy not try to please. Just got to learn how to say it so as not to hurt them. What works for one does not work for others. It is all about how you talk to them/respond. Never once told anyone they were bad... just instruct/work around it. I'm not perfect and noone else is either. (and btw not a faker here... otherwise I would be an actress) My back does it alot more than the other stuff...

love to eat pussy. I love the reaction that I see from the woman, as I work that pussy inside, outside, up, down, clockwise, counter clockwise, left, right etc...Damn, it makes my mouth water just thinking about it.

if after few minutes she changes or screams for fucking that means you suck :p

But the disinterested look on their face speaks volumes...

I have been told I'm pretty good and have even been the subject in a thread or 2, and have been ranked as well.

MM

with a grain of salt. Just the way I am.

Absolutely taken with a grain of salt.  The last thing most are going to do is tell you that you are a bad lover, in ANY way.

If she gets wet, clenches her fists, curls her toes and shudders then you did your part.  If not, then not.  Some of these women have the hottest and cutest little sounds when they cum, Sexy MJ (recently retired) and Aerial May (Sexy Gymnast) come to mind, and that is a wonderful part of the experience.

I have only ever asked one provider for what was essentially a report card.  I am married a LONG time and was a good Catholic boy even longer before getting married so had limited experience coming into this hobby.  So yes - eventually found one, mature provider who I trusted to give me honest feedback by email afterwards and it was wonderful to get that feedback on the experience from her perspective she definately played it straight from A-Z.  I would not expect most providers would be comfortable with this, but she most certainly was and understood the value to me.

I want to enjoy myself too. So if they aren't doing it 'right' for me, I tell them how I like it. And when they get it right, I tell them to stay there .
I love the reaction when they can please me. It turns them on... which turns me on more!
xox

Got onto me about DATY. I took it with a grain of salt because she bitched about everything.