I've been seeing the same provider regularly for six months, about 1-2 a month, and we have a great relationship.  Lately she told me that she wants to see me more frequently, and she wants to give me a 'special rate'.  My 'special' rate would be a pretty huge discount - like 50% discount.  I guess she figures if I pay less, I will come see her more frequently.

Surprisingly, I continue to pay her usual rate.  I've seen her a few times since then and I have yet to actually pay her this special discount rate - I've been paying the normal rate plus tipping pretty generously.  I appreciate the special rate but I'm still weighing out whether I should be paying less than her other customers and why she's doing this right now.  I feel like she'd expect me to come in more frequently, which I would - but probably not so much that it would change the amount of money she gets from me a month that much.  I also feel like if I start seeing her at the special discount rate then eventually I will get lazy/bad service from her, and then I will be resentful.  I figure if I continue to pay the same as her other clients then I reasonably can expect the same level of service.

At the same time I feel like maybe I am turning down a lot of money and sex by doing this.  I was wondering if anyone has any advice for me on this?  Wondering if I should just go ahead and pay the new special discount rate.

All I can do is relate my own similar experience with two long time favorites who at some point asked me to cut their rate by a C-note.  I did not question them as to why.   I did as they asked, and service continued on just as fine as ever, and I kept seeing them with the same frequency, about once every 10 weeks.

 
By the way, their rates were very reasonable to begin with.

 
Go figure, as they say.

This is my twist on your story but using another scenario. I’ve been seeing various business women the past 12 years or more for various services. Over time they stopped charging for some services or threw in extras that they don’t normally provide to other clients. When asked about their generosity, they explained that they enjoy me more than the others. The others are a pain in the ass. Always late or complaining.  

Maybe your gal is securing you as a really good client and wants to weed out the bed clients.

Don't question why. If she wants you to pay less than her current rate  just go with it.

My experience;

Girls in my rotation give me a great discount to play with them. One that's retired sees me for nothing.  I offered to pay her. She insisted that I give her no money.

(I'm just joking.)

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...if she didn't want you to take it, right?

Her reasons could be many but seeing as how she initiated the offer, why not take her up on it?

If the level of service declines, then that would be your answer.  

My ATF hasn't raised her rates to me in the four years we've been playing together. When the subject came up (she raised her rates in her ads, but told me via text that I was "grandfathered"), she said it was because I was a "trouble-free" client and she looked forward to our time together.

do you mean branch managers or more like travel agents, and what kinds of extra's do they throw in?  Free shipping or free drinks when you book first class, or what?

the conundrum.  You will indeed be in a position where if she is tired and decides to give you a lazy session, you will not be able to complain, because her answer will be, "Don't complain, you're getting a huge discount."   If you pay for a Chevy, you are likely to get a Chevy.  If you prefer a Mercedes, you need to pay for Mercedes.  How often do you think you can get a Mercedes for the price of a Chevy?  

 
While I have never had a discount offered when I was already a regular, I have had a number of real life outside relationships with providers that I originally met as a customer.  At some point when things get real, you will hear the words, "You're my boyfriend, so you don't have to pay anymore."  This is when the relationship gets even more expensive.  Lol

You should give her the price she is asking for and not pay the old rate any longer.    If she is going to give you bad service in the future she'll do it at whatever rate you end up paying, so why pay more?
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Familiarity does tend to make everyone lazy.  That's just a human condition.  I mean if you become friends, you are more obligated to be generous with friends.  So instead of being only a customer, now you are someone who is obligated to give back a little. Now mind you the spiritual benefits of friendship may outweigh the lost benefits of a consumer relationship, but just realize the tradeoff.
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I was once offered an immediate and insistent 15% discount on future visits.  I just took it to mean she would like regular income and found me tolerable.  

Ladies often offer theses sorts of discounts to guys who have a half role of dimes and cum quickly.

So that’s why I never get a discount? 😎

"Familiarity does tend to make everyone lazy.  That's just a human condition."
I know exactly what you mean. I recently decided at a session with an ATF of mine that things have run their course and I won't be booking with her any more because she started doing little annoying behaviors that would keep me from seeing any escort.

One of the reasons she was an ATF in the first place was the amount of attention she paid to me during our sessions, the way she focused on me, I loved that. This last session, however, she committed three cardinal escort sins:

 1 after we had showered together and had some foreplay under the water, she spent too much time in the bathroom primping while leaving me lying on the bed, almost 20 minutes.  
 2 once she came out, she decided that she looked so good that she wanted to soendvthe next 10 to 15 minutes taking pictures of herself for future online ads. At first it was a little fun, I even joined in as photographer, but it got out of hand once it required a few costume changes, all on my time.
 3 next was another 10 minutes of answering texts on her phone.

I kept reminding her that I was there, that time was ticking by, that we only had 90 minutes, she kept telling me "Ok, just a minute"  She had done these things in smaller degrees before, but never all 3 and never for half the session time. I understand that she had just become so I used to me that she actually took me for granted. Fine.

If it had been a first-time session with an escort, I would not book a second with her. The fact that an ATF had dissentigrated to these 3 combined acts in one session indicated to me it's time to move on.

If it doesn't bother you, keep paying the regular rate + your generous tipping.  Why change a good thing that doesn't bother you?!

Accept the rate and ride until the wheels fall off

as a "keeper" in her view. She wants to see you more often and has tried to make that easier for you to accomplish.  

I wouldn't question her motives or intentions, just enjoy a great relationship more often.

I would do nothing to cut her normal income... see her more frequently, tip, etc.. so that she does not lose out in this. If you can't do that, just keep to your original arrangement.

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Dear Mya,
Although that is true, you are in a business where patronization is everything.  Also, the chemistry between two people is also not to be underrated. With that said, provided that the economic climate is right and everything is stable, the rate modification would be a good move.  It is someone that you like the sessions go off without a hitch and it is almost like being with a civilian.  Remember, old business is as important as new business and if you retain certain customers you might have to make some modifications for them to be within reach of you.

Yes, we get on really well and I know she likes me as a person.  This is why I doubt she would be trying to somehow screw me over, I'm just trying to be careful with this.