I have been told I am a great kisser. I shall attempt to share what I think makes me great at it. This is obviously written from a female’s perspective and as such may only benefit a lady.

1) To me, kissing is an exchange of energies. Lacking a better analogy: imagine two actors in a shouting match - each actor can only return as much anger/ energy as the other. Hence the ‘fiery’ of the scene can only be as good as what each actor gives to the other. Match the passion/ energy your partner displays.

2) Now understand that a man – being a man – likes to be in control and be the conqueror. As such, the energy you display should never be more than his. If you display too much fervour, he might just be find you too aggressive and be put off. He wants you to enjoy it. Let him take the lead.

3) A man will kiss you in the way he thinks you like to be kissed or kiss you in the way he likes to be kissed back. Imitate his moves. If he kisses you lightly on your lips, do the same. If he deepens it, follow suit.

4) Throw in your own moves to surprise him. Use your creativity and imagination. Again, match his energy level.

5) Whatever you do, don’t lick his nose. That’s just disgusting. I’ve obviously tried that.

To me, you can only be as good a kisser as your partner. Pucker up. Practise makes perfect. And enjoy.

Let me know if there are any ladies who have any other kissing tips?

-- Modified on 9/6/2007 3:20:29 AM

I enjoyed reading your post. Kissing is one of my favorite activities during an appointment, and I am looking forward to trying to apply your tips during my next appointment.
Any tips on how a guy can become a better kisser?

Runningman

-- Modified on 9/6/2007 3:15:37 PM

Wow Jade!  I'm getting hard just thinking about the way you kiss!  I love to kiss as well and is prob the main reason I seek out GFEs.  However, some ladies have different standards for what that means.   Any suggestions on when to attempt or not attempt FK?  Also, what's your distinction between LFK and DFK?

Nothing is more erotic to me than a woman who takes the lead with DFK and shows some aggression of her own. Makes me feel likes she really WANTS me and is not just going along for the ride.

JMHO

my first sexual partner when I was a teenage kid only wanted to kiss and nothing else... so all our sex was about the experience of kissing... I still vivdly remember the feeling of running my tongue across her teeth and what a discovery that was, or the smokey flavor of cigarette on her tongue...

I guess the cultural difference may be at play here. Being an Asian, there are a lot of societal and cultural expectations as well as stereotypes on what a woman ought to be whether at work or in bed.

I have found that this 'matching' of energies has worked well for me.

Generally my caucasian clients expect
- expect to take the lead
- expect me to be the more exotic, mystical, submissive one
- complain about the more aggressive western women

I agree.  I used to date a gal and that's all we did.  I'd park at a nearby park and we'd kiss for hours.  Never did get any of that, Bradley.

That would be very crude.

I enjoy women who are aggressive, and I also enjoy the ones who want to be submissive, because sometimes in that way, a woman can actually achieve greater power.

Wasn't it Shakespeare who wrote a play called:  She Stoops to Conquor?

(Perhaps here it should be renamed:  She schtups to conquor? 8o)

WOW! I guess there are cultural differences and I don't know much about your clients - but I like the earlier post - I like the more aggressive women because she is more mystical, exciting, entergic and gives off a certain karma that she really wants you! I have encountered kissing on both ends and then some - well you can kiss my cheek but nothing on the mouth!

So - while people have different styles - I have to say - if a lady is really into this - well it just makes me that much hotter and more appreciative of the moment and our time together!

I would love to take your course.  Where are you located?  Your profile says "other".

I am in the Far East. Singapore.

and I'll let you know when I can get back in town.  8o)

-- Modified on 9/7/2007 6:40:14 AM

If Jade will come to Phoenix this could be a possibility.  What a thought OMG.  eom