My take on the point you raised is this: Would see her again does not have to mean will see her again. It means that afterwards I felt the time and money spent was worth it and if I had the chance to do it over again I would. At least that is what it is for me.

And if you want to see a certain someone again (and maybe even again and again...), that is fine too. It is always your choice

My further thoughts on this:

No matter how much we enjoyed the time and talents with the provider and wrote that review in the resultant afterglow, the reality kicks in sooner or later that this is a business transaction. And this is ok. No messy breakup if you don't want to see her again. That is part of the deal and an unspoken understanding by both parties.

We have our jobs to pay our bills and also some extra for what we want, including this hobby. They do this for a living. We get to be with ladies who would not want to or be able to date us in a regular relationship, and we don't have to deal with her personal life and related issues as if we were in a regular relationship. We get to experience being with a number of different ladies as long as we compensate them for their time. We are the ones paying and therefore we get to choose who to go to at any given time.  

The desire to experience being with different ladies is I think the same force driving us to forever innovate and move technology and our standard of living forward. We are never satisfied, and always want more and better. There is even a name for this aspect of the human nature: The Hedonic Treadmill.

Only once or twice did I wait till the 2nd or 3rd visit before writing the review.  I think I do this so as to have the details fresh in my mind.  As far as repeating more than a few times, it all depends on the lady, her schedule, my schedule, finances that month, etc.  I tend to stick to one or two favorites most of the time but sometimes like to branch out and see someone new.  I find that (especially on Long Island) the providers with good reviews get ultra busy thus making it tough to get an appointment.  So sometimes reviewing can be shooting yourself in the foot and make the provider you like too busy to see you!

I have done reviews after one session, wanted to repeat, but never got around to it. One problem is obvious, ladies on tour and in town for maybe two days every six months. Another is finding someone really hot on the other side of town and then... You know how it goes.

Women I don't review at all I feel I can see again or not. No big deal. But when I find myself killing the mood by reconstructing the memories in a review...that gets me wondering what's going on.

Being able to see several beautiful women is the great thing about this hobby. I often wonder how they feel about us guys providing a good review and then not going back and then they see us post a review of someone else or do they even care.

The morning after sex between two strangers in the night.  
   
 Him  "I'll give you a call"  
   
  Her   " No you won't"  
     
  Him   " Yes I will "  
   
  Her    "No you won't, I know you won't "  
   
  Him thinking to himself when putting on his shoes ..... How does she know I am lying ?  
   
  Her talking  to herself when he doesn't  call ....... I shouldn't have been so easy for him, maybe he wouldn't have lost interest in me so quickly.  
   
  Perhaps that's why some providers don't call you guys back as quick as you would like,  
    they know they can keep your interest more in tune, if they aren't always playing your song, "Anytime you want me "  
   
http://www.vagalume.com.br/mya/anytime-you-want-me.html  
http://www.zapkolik.com/video/journey-anytime-530918

   

 

 
 

I am perfect for this job i approach it with the mind of a sociopath, None the guys are "special " to me, I am doin it for the money and to have an easier lifestyle. None the clients are guys i would date or fuck for free or in my personal life, No offense,  
 i dont care if they come back, there is always more. in fact for me the repeats are the most likely to want to get discounts, I actually make more seeing all new clients, The longer you know em the longer they stay and i notice i make more just havin like 3 i dont know, that dont wanna get to know me, that come in and out in under an hour .
                       The ones I know for long time none pay by the hour and all get or stay way otc.
just my two cents, I dont know if they call again and sometimes i ignore them on purpose to meet new clients thatl keep it business, When every repeat client thinks they are now like your pal, and wanna stay all dam day, You can quickly get burnt out, tired and broke!!!!
 I am not doing this to build lasting long quality friendships with men 35 years older than me i have nothing common with nor find attractive,  
 Want the truth,  haha.xo

Sounds like you are infatuated and do not want to share her with others until the infatuation wears off. Not that unusual. If you keep doing this, you will probably get a lot more realistic about what is going on and stop feeling that way. In the meantime, doing a review destroys the romantic illusion you have about her, and with that you want to go elsewhere and find that illusion again.

Pretty natural. But your attitude will evolve as you continue. Can't think of why you would want to change that until and unless it happens naturally. Have fun and roll with it.

There are reasons why you should review after the first date (that is what people want to know, not how she is on the third or some other later date), and reasons why it might be helpful to you to review after the first date (writing your review and reading the reviews of others would help to remind you that this is P4P, she is not "yours" in any sense whether you review her or not). Eventually you would get used to it and stop having this concern that reviews turn you off to the provider. But the best reason not to review after the first date is simply that you prefer not to, and that should, win out.

Personally, back when I reviewed a lot, I enjoyed reliving the many delightful moments. I did not consider at all that anyone else would be reading what I was writing. I did understand it might help the lady, and I liked that - the idea of helping her. Back then, I also found it a little uncomfortable to read other reviews about a lady I was seeing - if she did exactly the same things for another guy, it bothered me, and if she did more for him than me it bothered me even more (I always assumed those reviews were true for some reason, silly as that is).

I still mostly avoid reviews these days, but only because so many of them are beyond boring. Now I get it that any lady I see is doing the exact same things for at least 10 other guys every week, and that there probably is not much that differentiates me from any of them as far as she is concerned. This turns out to be liberating and opens the door for a lot more honesty, maybe even creating some basis for something that is like a friendship, but it still is P4P, first and foremost. Still, there are benefits to losing those romantic illusions.

When I write a review and say I plan to see the lady again, often I actually do not plan to see her again. What I really mean is that she delivered a very good time, was clearly worth what I paid, and I have zero regrets about seeing her. To actually go back and see her again means there was some spark or connection that I want to explore again, while saying that in a review means something more along the lines of there being no reason to not see her again. That spark or connection is a highly personal thing, and while I suggest it in my review when it is there for me, I do not include it in the scores or the overview because I doubt it means much to anyone else, and it would result in me downgrading women who are very good providers just because we did not get along as well as I do with others.

Anyway, I would not worry about saying you would see someone again and then not going back. Nor would I worry much about seeing a lady two or three times and then moving on. Sometimes it is just a brief infatuation with a pretty and willing woman, and it wears off quickly. Sometimes she gave it her best shot the first time and after that she lets up, or it just gets repetitive and boring. Happens all the time, so move on without any concern. And if you should choose never to write reviews, that is okay, too.

You are here to have fun. Ladies would prefer a nice, happy, clean, prompt and well-paying client to just about anything else, even if you only visit her once and/or never write a review. So do what you want to do.

But, as I said at the beginning, I think you are working through some other feelings about the ladies you see, feelings that are not directly related to reviews. Eventually you will quit or get past that.

zig

to comfy and take advantage.  
              I see new clients for 2 hour dates and they really only stay 2 hours,  
 Any one who is a regular I cant get a 2 hour date rate out of them , with out them staying the entire day/night. makes me avoid even meeting with same customers over n over cuz thats where i make the least . I make more havin 2 or 4 that keep it business and dont take up so much time/energy.
              I agree, This isnt a venue for relatinships its an agreement between two people. The more drama and feelings and nonsense thrown in the mix it looses its fun for me, I am doin this so as to have the time for my other interest and school. When it becomes those things are being taken from me because i am getting burned out i get resentful then dont een wanna meet the regulars, i totally agree the magic is taken out after too many meetings,
 I dont have a single repeat client that will pay what he paid our first meeting before i let em get comfortable. Not one!  
it seems the more they visit they wanna give less and less each visit.  
I think keepin it new and exiting is key for me if i wanna use this as a tool to use it for what I meat it for to supplement my income to pursue school and have more free time for my art and music,  
 When it becaomes that it has become my life and the clients are suckin the life our me and no time for personal life cuz they all wanna be my "friebnds" aaah! gag me!

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Well I guess you told us mongers. Nothing like a cold blooded P4P to put it all in perspective. BTW, I have seen highly rated providers whose rate was $1100 an hour and another whose rate was $185 an hour. I have been back 5 times to the lower cost provider because the experience was every bit as satisfying, just without the bells and whistles and fantasy. In the end a cup is a cup that lasts a few seconds, and the expensive ones are no more intense or lasting than the cheaper ones. I'm just saying....

The question wasn't meant to place a value on clients becoming regulars, but about how clients might stop seeing a provider they have repeated with simply because of how their perspective was altered after writing a review. I don't know if this is a personal quirk or a familiar pattern that others experience

Whether or not I write a review has absolutely nothing to do with why I repeat. But if you feel you're jinxing the whole thing, then don't write them. Or only write them for the average girls. By the way, you must be a baseball player. That's quite a superstition you've got going there. I'm putting on my hobby rally cap, so the lady will answer the email I just sent her. Last time, no cap, no answer.

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have a car we run errands dammit. if they wanna stay otc, fine, But I am a human too and have shit to get done, You wanna stay otc and be "friends" good fill the dam gas tank we are runnin errands bitch. lol.  
                    I dont have a car but i do have many clients that are tolerable nice people i put to work during thier OTC time .
 I will hang otc, but when the clock stops and the time you piad for is over, three rules,
 Dont expect me to stay in character and tAlk incessantly about sex and your dick.  
 Dont try and cuddle.
 I hang otc with regulars but damn i am not staying in Dramatic porn star form , Make up comin off, Maternity runnin suit and nikes are on. And we got stuff to do, Grab a paint brush muther fuckers.

or romantic.
          in fact he is comin early for an overnight this weekend, but we got alot to do. I got an errands list a mile long he better fill up the gas tank. Its not gonna be fantasy the otc time just two people chillin,  
                i take advatage of the offer for otc time,.. I havent driven in 7 years actually and dont even need a car . I just get clients that became regulars to help me with rides places, Some of them are pretty decent company i like the otc freindships i have with many of them. Dont see an issue with it.
 But no I dont get attached or care of they call after they review. To be frank. In all honesty did any of them care when i went in for double breast biopsies 2 months ago and found out i had tumors{non cancerous fiberous} That i need surgury to get removed?
 Were any of them sendin moeny to help with food or bills since i couldnt work with black n blue tits? fucks no, they didnt give a fuck,  
                i actually did do one appt with black n blue tits and insisted on keepin bra on, after the double bipopsies, it sucked, he didnt care and didnt put it in review but i definetly only scored an 8. One client made a joke what are you gonna offer appts in a fuckin hospital johnny?  
 That was an awkward 2 weeks i had to attempt to work but tell otential customers my tits are black n blue and i gotta keep the bra on for the appts.
           what a night mare.
But no all the clients that become regulars that i then never get the same donation offered as they offered thier first visit.
             I am tryin to survive like every other person and cant be attached, them becoming your friend also means that the donations get smaller and smaller and smaller. That has and is my experience with them they hustle me.
                 So I am ok with givin otc time to regulars but i am not servicing them during the otc time and damit i need to still get LIFE activities done if they wanna stay otc. i am ok with it but not servicing them otc.  
   But yes it is a job and you have to be tough to do it and not allow things to get too close, They will take it and run with it and think yu really like them, Then you can watch the donation dwindle. It happens.

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oh some one gave a deposit for me to meet em at a woburn hotel.
 no early mr fisher. 7 pm is all you get me for{then rest of night} and next afternoon}
 that should be enough of me for you for one weekend any one, .