Not exactly a newbie in the hobby. Have seen some remarkable women over the years. The following question may seem like a rookie one however, and perhaps it is…

If you are already a member of the site that uses okays then you went through similar screening. I don’t see indies or agencies who require more screening than that. I’ve lived in places that didn’t have a lot of selection. I would just go take a trip and get my fill. Fmty was also done. Now I’m back in a heavily populated area so it’s not an issue.

In short, no fucking way.  

What is this, a credit application?  

The paystub is kind of weird.  A driver's license and LinkedIn profile is standard for a lot of providers.  I've done it numerous times and never had a problem.   Also DL and work website.  

Regarding  an  "ID"  requirement,  I'm  even  suspect  of
this  request  due  to  many  "Data  breaches"  aka  the
"Ashley  Madison"  debacle.  

I would not send an unredacted copy of my DL -- face, year of birth and first name but everything else redacted. I would suggest just asking them if alternative screening options are possible.

I myself have been a long term client of the OK community. Back in the day it worked like a charm for many years. I was able to see almost anyone across the USA after providing  my (OK info ) . But then Gina took a back seat for a while and then eventually sold out  ( bless her for the great work she did for years )  When I signed up with the OK sight they knew more about me than the IRS, particularly because I was self employed and a business owner. The amount of info I had to give up was very scary.  
 I am on the same wavelength as the poster, when is enough- an enough ?  Twice over the past three years I have sent a sent a provided a highly redacted picture of my licenses with masking tape over everything but my picture and my date of birth.  Both times I was in a tough spot , traveling with no provider pre scheduled. I regret doing it both times as we all know what the small head will do to you.  Almost always you can find a reasonable provider in any area who doesn't do this stupid stuff with advance notice and planning. I would love to hear from others how they deal with this issue. This post is not about being combative to providers, I recognize they need to be safe also. Looking for fair answers rather than an argument            

…but i stay away from all agencies because with the new “human trafficking” and “all women are victims no matter what” narrative out there, agencies are prime targets for law enforcement because they want the clients, which are usually higher end. And the last such law was passed under Trump I so in order to throw a bone to women voters we may see another such law aimed at “human trafficking.” It is the one thing feminists and evangelicals enjoy.

I would not share a paystub with anyone.....especially on line....also NOPE on Drivers License on line.......too many obvious chances for your info to end up hacked......I never really minded showing a gal my drivers license and back in the day was sometimes asked for my plane ticket.......but none of this would be shared to an unknown individual on line.......when you have a chance to look behind  he scenes you would find that a lot of gals  handlers are not folks you would want to have easy access to your stuff....easy to sell---easy to use, etc.........you get it..>>!!

Im retired  and the screener told me I had to give him my systems from my social security payments. What an idiot.

The reason is obvious: when LE busts an indy they get only two arrests, at most, the girl and the monger. When they bust an agency they may get several girls and also management. It makes for a much bigger splash in the papers, as happened some years ago in NYC with a large, very well-known agency that I'm sure still can't be named. A girl I used to see got caught up in that one.
The only thing more likely to get busted is an AMP.

Looking for what others think. I see facetime or any recorded video as the biggest threat of all. I have never done facetime and never will. It seems to me that in some point of the video call, Sex, meeting up or some type of incriminating words will be recorded from one or both parties. No lawyer in the world can get you out of a video like that. Anyone see this under a different lens or viewpoint ?    

And Fuck No!

Fuck no.

And accepts no references. Ie, you can't get around these requirements. Even if a girl knows you and can vouch for you, they will still won't let you in.

have changed their policies.  I was approved with all of the BA orgs by texting a girl who was currently working there and asking her to get me approved to see her with the booker.  She texts the booker, says she has seen me in OC or LA and I want to see her there, so he should let me book.  She gives my first name and my hobby phone number so he will know who I am when I call or text.  If the booker doesn't respond to me, I will text the girl again.  Once this session is over, the bookers let me see any other girls on their roster.  I have used this method all over the country to get approved.  It does take patience, because I have to wait until there is a girl working there that I know from somewhere else, but these were all done years ago and many of the girls are retired now, but I'm still established with the booker by way of my continuing patronage.   A booker's job is to keep the girls safe, not restrict their business with customers they know from other places they have worked.  

If they don't want your business, somebody else will.  Don't sweat it.

There is no reason not to name it.

It's one specific org and yes they became stricter back around five years ago when they had a scare. Since then it's a very strict policy. Many mongers did get grandfathered in.

I joined after you and I didn’t have a provider vouch. So you have to go through more screening.

I'm not providing a pay stub to anyone. That's a big no. This isn't in line with what most agencies or independenets do. I don't feel it's necessary.

I'm not sure which agencies you're thinking about using but I have an idea what kind it is
 And I hope this post doesn't go off into some political shit storm
But consider the current climate with DHS coming to a city or town near you, it'll be inevitable in time when some of these agency could get pop'd. Fearing the risk of deportation to gawd who knows where I'm pretty sure the owner, booker or even the girls might sing like a canary to save their skin. I'm also sure someone will want to see the list, kinda killing two birds with one stone.
I'm alittle concerned in that few months ago I sent my redacted DL (they didn't ask for more)to an agency, all went well but now, just the thought on what's going on,I'd be leery of sending anything other then my name, age, race and a few references if they ask going forward.
Now, allow me to put my COO hat on...think about this. I hope this doesn't come off as a lecture...because I'm too old for that
I don't know what is you do for a living. But if the company's money is involved where you're a purchaser, a contract negotiator or a CFO for a small company then the company knowing what you do for kicks can be problematic. Yes the bros in the warehouse will get a kick out of it. You'd be “Da Man” but upper management will look at you differently. May not be the best career move, if you're in the position to make financial decisions.
I'd keep this shit on the down low..Just a thought

Im pretty sure whatever political climate is going on. These agency’s won’t give three fucks about turning anything in when it comes down to it. I’d even say that goes for independents or mongers. When it comes down to it people will save their own asses.

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I think this ties right into this conversation. Yesterday I received a unsolicited email from a provider I don't know and have not contacted. She is just my type however, Late 20 - mid 30s, Blonde, Hot. The first red flag was this.

not retain the information.  On one hand, it's simple human nature to keep something that may be of value down the road, especially if it doesn't take any effort.  To that point, to get rid of it does take effort and although minimal, it's still something and if a person is busy or procrastinates or simply gets distracted, the info remains on hand.

No reputable provider is going to send you an unsolicited email asking for your screening info and to book an appointment, especially if she is as good looking as you say she is. That is not a thing. You don't need to go any further.  

To be clear we as providers have to give all of that personal information as well when we register and post ads. Not sure of your definition of a "reasonable provider who doesn't do this stupid stuff" means. My incall is my home. I have had guys contact me for an appointment that through my screening process I found out they were wife beaters, rapists, or pedophiles. Obviously I did not book with them, but how do you think we as providers are supposed to keep ourselves safe from individuals like this without doing screening? But I also know from the client's perspective that it is becoming more and more difficult to know who is a real provider and who is a scammer. As a provider I get a guy now and then who contacts me that I know is just a time waster but I also know he is not going to blackmail me, steal my identity, or scam me out of $$. Unfortunately this is going to continue to happen while sex work is illegal. The majority of the world sex work is legal or decriminalized. Guess what the scammers do in those countries? They set up shop in the US where guys have no recourse. I am not sure anyone has the answers at this point with the current environment we have to work in.

Agree that you need to redact certain information on any DL/ID you might provide. But I would say look very carefully at that DL/ID. I know mine not only has the easily visible ID #, along with birth date, issued date and expiration date (which in my State tend to all coincide) but has some very small, micro text, that has the ID # as well in watermarks and the hologram.

Absolutely, details and how they appear can vary from state to state. It’s important to make sure what you want covered up truly is. Pretty sure, my name, picture, DOB, issue date, and if I am an organ donor is what remains.

There was a booker I used to see a couple of ladies. She wasn't completely honest and was on the aggressive side. She followed up multiple times asking if I wanted to book another appointment. I told her I wasn't interested in using her services any longer.

You would be a fool to think 💭 you’re not at jeopardy. Regardless if you had to submit real life information to be on this particular website. The fun fact is a provider who is not a big #’s gal meaning lots of entertainment, nor does she offer her own dwelling to entertain its less, likely to attract unnecessary attention. 🚩  

Thread has largely taken off on a tangent so thought I'd just ask.