1. Are you the type that has a wall up, or one who doesn't throw guys vibes?

2. What kind of "game" do you require a guy to have, or do you not require game at all?

3. Are you the d*ck-tease who dresses sexy(mini-skirts, heels, tight stretch pants, etc.)who every looks at and say's to himself, "Man, that chick is hot, I wanna f*ck her?  

Just want to get an idea of what type of chick you are out in the public eye when you're not on duty.

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who goes to clubs in sweat pants and a tight t-shirt as I LOVE to dance and find it more comfortable to do so in loose pants. Since I am pretty good at it (been in dance since I was 4 yrs. old. and have danced professionally for a variety of popular groups/individuals). I usually have no problem getting attention or phone #'s.

I.E...when I say "danced professionally" I DO NOT mean stripping. I actually worked with choreographers learning hip-hop, techno, country, rap, and rock routines for concerts.

I have been told on many occasions that women that dress in sweat pants and a t-shirt to go to the club are much more sexy and approachable than the ones that dress to kill. Hence the reason I come home with 3-10 napkins with names and #'s on them EVERY time I go to the club. Sometimes it is not all about the dress, but more so about the way you move that is attractive to guys.

As far as game...I don't like game at all. Just be yourself. If that is not good enough in the beginning...it won't be good enough in the end.

Put down the crack pipe and think about what you're saying.

4. there is the chick who goes to the bars with her girlfriends dressed all sexy and makes out with them and she is out for a good night with the girlz, you don't stand much of a chance

5. there is the chick who takes her BF to the bars dressed all sexy and will firt with him and her GFs at the bar

6. there is the chick who is dressed all sexy who goes to the bar to pick up some "carry out" she's there for business and approachable

don't assume that "chicks" won't take time off to just kick back with their friends.

i am one who rarely goes out anymore. when i do, it is because i want to kick back, dance my ass off and have a good time. so yes, my wall is halfway up. i am not rude or mean...but if i feel as though someone is bothering me..i push em off. I dont go out to pick up anyone...I used to when I was 19 or so. Now that I am a full time provider, when I want laid, I just throw up an ad

most of the time, i go alone. i may bring a friend or two.

i have yet to find a man to go dancing with me.

i wear jeans and a cute top...something breatheable. ballet flat style shoes...or 4 inch heels, depending on where i am going.

yes, i also took dance for over ten years. ballroom, hip hop, ballet, tap....and i have been a stripper as well. I just love loud music.

i cant stand games. I have often told guys and girls the pickup line that works the best for me is "hello miss...how are you doing?"

i dont go out to drink, as it costs too much. i rarely drink anymore anyways. (did too much of that while in the Army)

just me.

honesty in not buying "game" is to be commended.  Your profile says "other" which is where?

....'are a lesbian trapped in a providers body'.....that is not a sexy post my dear, & not really great marketing on your part. CBJ's is a tuff enough sell for you, but telling all the guys on a guy-gal fuck board you're a lezzy is not the smartest. Keep to just posting your hot pix on regional’s, & say nothing else, you don't help yourself w/these types of posting.

That's my review of your post 'Today'.
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I would just stand to reason that a woman would understand another woman's body better than a man.

I was pleasantly surprised a few months ago when a provider I had seen several times renarked after a threesome with another lady that I had been with many times before, that I ate her pussy much better than our mutual friend. She told me the other lady sucked on her clit so hard it actually hurt and was unpleasant and that she liked my less agressive technique much better.

PS There was no envelope exchanged that night, and I have every reason to believe her.

I have no desire to fuck lesbians, but I love to have sex with bi chicks, they tend to be the most sexual beings on the planet.

or he tripped over his mustache. lmao

Fact is 75+% of all providers are lesbian or at minimal bi. So what.

I'm dropping an envelope and pay you for the date. I will use your words; actually I'd love to have my cock worshiped by a bisexual such as yourself and though maybe I am not good at pounding I would love to take a pounding in reverse though. hahaha

some guys are under the delusion that a provider would want their attention when they are just out to have fun with the girls.

i can imagine (but ONLY imagine LOL!) there are other providers with long standing relationships with girlfriends where a guy _might_ get lucky if all of the girls agreed.

thanks for supporting my post that the OP needs to broaden his imagination a bit.

Drunk, sloppy sex with another woman is a helluva lot better!

I agree with you Sophie!

I never pick up guys for random sex. I get all the first date sex I want as a Companion.  When it comes to my life outside of this world, I want someone that will take the time to date me for a while without sex.

"I want someone that will take the time to date me for a while without sex."

If you're not going to give it up, then we might be talking to the chap right here on the GD. Shit he prolly is not married anymore because that hag did not want to give it up either.

If they not going to get it in civie world they gonna get it some where.

You send him to the illustrious GaGambler School of Mongering. lmfao

I am a single mother.  The bar/club scene holds very little intrigue for me - and it has always been that way.  As a teen, I never enjoyed going to parties.  I'd much rather go to a coffeeshop, or curl up at home with a good book.  I have a deep and abiding hatred for screaming to be heard over loud music.  That said, I do really like to go to my neighborhood bar on Rockabilly Night - you can't beat free, live rockabilly music!

If I do go to a bar, I dress casually (unless I feel like dressing up), order a glass of water (since I don't drink) and some wings or tacos, and feed dollar bills into the MegaTouch all night so I can play word games. If someone tries to strike up a conversation, as long as they can hold their own intellectually, I am more than happy to chat with anyone who is interested; however, there's no chance that I will bring them home at the end of the night, and I never even hint that anything more is possible.  I can be well compensated for NSA hookups, and my clients satisfy my need for sex; in my personal life, I do desire more.

My friends all make fun of me (jokingly) - they call me "The Shy Hooker."  I really am quite shy and introverted until I get comfortable, then I let my freak flag fly .  No one in my personal life would ever guess that I was a sex worker if I did not tell them.

in which i was definitely not the lucky guy. but in which _very_ little was left to my imagination.

one of the girls is known to me. the guy might have been a pick-up but may also have been a long time friend welcome to the girls in the party. i'd say the odds are 60-40 in favor of it being a long time friend but i'm not going to ask for too much information.

in an odd way.... it was interesting to see and certainly did me a world of good to observe. it changed a lot of my attitudes.... the visual is worth more than 100,000 words sometimes.

i'm glad to hear you are more cautious than possibly some. i am sure there are folks in the business not as careful as you. i wonder if you appreciate how many aren't?

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not that i am saying that someone who picks up guys in a bar for random sex is unreasonable or insane....

but it is refreshing to hear from someone that knows what she wants and doesn't settle or let herself get completely driven by the business.

you've got my admiration for this.

that providers go to bars when they're not working, TO GET LAID? Isn't that like the busdriver's holiday, when he has to drive his family across the fucking country for a vacation?

If I am in sudden lusty need, I can make a booty call to a man who already knows my body and will give me a roaring orgasm. Why risk bad sex with a stranger?  

I could care less if he gets it elsewhere.   I don't expect anyone I date to be monogamous. It doesn't matter what he does with other women, I only care how he treats me.

 I get all the sex I could possibly want as a companion. What I rarely get is the actual experience of just dating without the pressure to preform sexually. I miss courtship.  

There's some men who even in the world of Courtesans want to get to know me for a while before BCD, and I love and appreciate that. I prefer to fall into the arms of a friend, not a stranger.

I have no desire to be with a weak-minded man ruled by his cock. If not bedding me immediately is a deal-breaker: good riddance. There are better men out there.





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I probably don't.

Actually one problem I have with picking up a stranger for sex is the safety issue.  

I have no way of knowing if he's a safe, sane human being. Some of the most dangerous people are charmers, and if you live in a big city, you hear a lot of horrible stories in the news about women picking up men and being found dead or in hospitals.

At least as a companion I can check references.

Generally when it comes to private life, the guys I sleep with are ones I've been friends with in some capacity. We've known each other for a while. It's their spirit I'm attracted to.

down time is exactly that. When I am out with my friends or gal pals I am done being hit on. I play that game all the time at work and I don't want to deal with it when I am off.
I dubt you take your job home with you or out and about.
Sounds like a fantasy of yours to be picked up and fucked for free by a provider or two. Like I said why give away what you know you can market and sell. Down time is off the clock. we need off the clock time to recharge and regenerate. There is more to us than wanting to be fucked ya know.
I was in a relationship for some of my time in this biz so I didn't fool around off the clock and I value my off time to just be seen as who I am ...clothed thank you.
Not all ladies here are Bi and I am not sure its 70% in this biz who are truly bi.

got me to thinking.

Okay, lets say there is some immediate attraction and you drop your guard and want to see this civilian gentleman.

What with your explanation and I agree with the big city and the horror stories. Something just tells me either out of pure habit, or hey I know how and its what I do, I will screen him. Heck he has given me his name and phone perhaps he even shared where he works with you.

Are you saying you would not screen him? Just sayin

and value your non work men friends for their spirit then you are truly one of the whole and healthy ladies in the biz, a treasure as either a friend or strictly as a service provider.

Unfortunately some women in the business select their SOs strictly for entertainment value, almost as a drug to keep distracted and hold their life together. They objectify their SO purely in terms of what he can do for her. Then they complain and wonder why it never 'works out'.

It takes each seeing past the surface and giving a damn about reciprocally being good for each other. That's always good to see.

I count myself fortunate to have found a few providers who actually care about the well being of this client and who also take care of themselves well, as you do. These few I also count as friends.

but most providers that I have ever dated or had LTR's with, had a least a period of "friends only" even if we had been intimate on a professional basis.

I think one of the beauties of the hobby is that a man who is already getting a lot of pussy is not going to be "ruled by his cock" lol. I have no problem waiting a few dates for a special woman, at least as long as I am getting my physical needs met somewhere else.

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Sometimes I just like to people watch and I'm the DD.
But when I wanna rock the house .. I dress like a complete slut and get the dogs tails awagging!!
Kissez that make you hard
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First, this is P4P. Who cares if she is straight, bi, lesbian or martian (unless your captain kirk) as long as she has the right moves?

Second, who especially cares if Sophie is bi or lesbian as she is super-freaky hot (that damn red-assed picture today on the DC board is smokin')

One of the best memories I have was the time I called a (and here I had been thinking she was just a lesbian) friend, and she and her girlfriend were telling me how they were having sex on the table and asked me to come and join them. It's almost better if you think they're a lesbian because we men can let our limited brain power think we're actually being he-manly and maybe converting her (as if, but WTF, right?).

Lastly, she posted it, so obviously your opinion matters little to her.

Yeah Sophie you tell him!!! Hahahahahah I am laughing loud right now!!!!!

When I go out to the clubs I go with a group of friends, guys and girls and we just party our asses off all night long! It depends, I will dance with the cute guys but then thats it. I am not gonna go home with him. I might get his number but I will most likely lose it. If I get asked for my number, its not really MY number. I have never had a one night stand from a guy in a club, or ever dated one.

Then there are other nights I will go with same friends plus my boy toy and we will devour each other and have a blast on and off the dance floor.

If I am in the mood to rock the sheets then I know who to call. I got it covered.

When I go out I dress great. Im wearing nice, tight jeans, killer heels and a killer top. Or a sexy dress. I wear it all.

No I wouldn't, because the numbers in the trash can before I'm outside the bar door.

So where do you hook up then?   You have to be hooking up somewhere, no?   Granted, sure, it's very possible to hook up in the grocery store, but usually most of the time, two people of the opposite sex are hooking up at either bars, clubs, shows(concerts), and once in a while through friends.   Where did you meet your "boy toy"?

Every chick I've hooked up with and f*cked, I either met at a bar or club, and a bunch from the internet.  And they were ALL hot(hot as in porn material hot), in case you're thinking they might've been unattractive and desperate, and grabbed whatever guy they could get.   Rule with me is, I'll only f*ck the hottest.

Bars and clubs were invented to bring the opposite sexes together to mingle, that's their general purpose.  

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I met my boy toy and previous ones at my house or a friends LOL. Meaning they came over with friends, when I or a friend was having a party or a get together.

When I go out to a bar or a club, Im with friends. I AM NOT going to bring some strange dude home with me, and I am NOT going to leave my buddies to go off with some strange guy.

I do this and I get paid for it, but in my personal life I am me and NOT a provider.

I am enjoying life and having fun, and its not about the money. Its about having fun. Plus I am not screwing everyone on the outside , just here on the boards.

One point: Are your "buddies" such invalids that they can't make decisions for themselves as far as getting laid for a night?   What business is it of yours to interfere with what your girlfriends "free willingly" want to do and to make decisions on their behalf?   Now to be fair here, if the guy's a nut case(where you feel he poses some kind of genuine threat to her), then I can see that as grounds for stepping in.   Other than that, you have no justification or basis for your actions.   That's just not cool..at all.   But then again too, if a chick is genuinely interested in a guy, she won't let her friends pull her away.  

I'm sure a good portion of the women I've plowed too in the past have said the same sh*t before entering those bars/clubs, "I'm not going home with any strangers".   But guess what Starrburst?   I ended up f*cking each and every one of them silly that night.

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You so crazy! Uhhh in my posts I mentioned WHAT I do and how I DO it.I was talking about my experiences.

I DIDNT and NEVER said thats its f*cked up to go home with someone from a club. I just have never done it..plus I dont go clubhopping that often or barhopping. Also I havent had to deal with one night stands because Ive been in a couple long term relationships.

My friends I speak of are guys and girls, and yes the guys are sticking their cocks into as many pussies as they can, and I DONT care. Haha why would I and what made YOU think I do?

I have some pretty awesome parties at my house from time to time, or I will go to parties and I always know everyone. When I go to a club or a bar at least I have always LEFT with who I walked in with.

Hon sorry that my comments flew over your head and you definitely missed the boat on what I was saying. Im sure you did f*ck plenty of girls silly that you met at the bars or whereever, but its not such a difficult feat after the women have a few drinks/shots in them. Thats how most bar/club screws take place.

So TravelerDude, relax and take a deep breath. Everything is GOOD. I dont have the final say on who gets to see/touch/lick/suck/f*ck my friends genitals LOL. Maybe you mistook me for someone else, cause all I said is I have hooked up with people I met through someone I already knew and that I have fun when I go out. I am not a slut on the outside, but I am IN the Hobby world.

Safe Sex!! Sidney Starr

You started chewing me out about controlling my friends and not letting them go home with people..BUT alas, twas never there. Look again honey, REREAD. You got yourself in a tizzy and you werent paying attention to what I was saying.

Why ask a question on the board if you cant handle the replies? I was trying to be nice and join in, and you yelled at me. Ouchy!!! Someone kiss my booboo. If I dont hear from someone right away dont feel too bad, I will call my f*ck buddy hahaha.

Hey sweetie dont take anything too seriously, thats when things get dull. Having a sense of humor is a very sexy thing.

In the past I have called the guy outside of meeting him from the club, and when there were sparks on the dance floor it was boring as hell on the phone. This is quite common, just the way the cookie crumbles.