Heard a great line...from a provider recently.  I asked, everybody seems to have their own definition of a GFE...she said, Girl Friend Experience? Hmm.  Ok..so I nag you about something inane for the first half hour, then, depending on whether or not I get my way, I will either pout, or gloat, for the rest of the time...

Might be a good idea to ask, is this a "honeymoon period GFE?" or a "settled in for the duration"  kind.  Just a thought.

I'd like to add a thought to this, about what I personally think is the best (for me anyway)...

I call it a KSE.

A KSE is like the time one of your college buddies invited you to his parents house for the weekend, and you had a great time with his Kid Sister. The Kid Sister Experience.

For almost everyone is seems to be the same. Goofying around during the meeting, fun and relaxed, with just the right hint of sexual tension (cause you both are attracted to each other physically). Then the passion of releasing yourselves with each other.

Works for me. How about you? Any thoughts?

I'm really not good at fitting into nice and neat little acronyms and categorizations... Plus the whole GFE thing, well I agree with the provider you spoke with. "Girlfriend experience" has some really negative connotations, most of which are the very reason the gentlemen in question is seeking time with an escort, as opposed to time with a girlfriend.  Let's face it, lots of men, married or un, can get a girlfriend IF THEY WANT TO. When they don't, it's because the experience winds up becoming too complicated.

I'm not complicated, at least in this particular sense...  I'm simple, I want to see you leave with a big smile, weak knees, and a little happy gasp.  Or two or three.  Will I chit chat with you when you arrive if you like? Sure! But I can do without it as well. Think about it... there is definitely something very hot about totally anonymous sex, no strings, just raw, unabashed, ravaging! Am I empathic, intelligent, do I care what you feel? Of course! I wouldn't be in this 'biz if I didn't. But that is there regardless of what course our session takes, and the only thing that can change it is any individuals behavior.

I think the term GFE was originally intended to mean a session that did not seem forced, that was more relaxed, where the lady made you feel special. But believe me when I say that I, and other lovely ladies, are quite capable of doing these things with or without fitting into that categorization.  Maybe the best thing all around would be if clients could evaluate each lady as a *unique entity* instead of trying to smoosh her into someone's predefined acronym.  I realize that some feel that that little three letter symbol might make it easier for some to make their choice of who to see... I disagree though, because there is variation NO MATTER WHAT... we are all individual and unique and your experiences from GFE to GFE are, of COURSE going to vary. Variety is the spice of life!

Hugs*
Nicole

Maxman:
I think she voiced what has been percolating in the back of my mind for some time... As far as GF's go your friend hit the nail on the head.  I love a GFE but if they were to treat me like a
PHGF (Post Honeymoon Girlfriend) I would go for the PSE or SO3LA (some other 3 letter acronym)
ah but what is in a name?
LM
--"A rose by any other name would smell"

Let me translate....GFE means DFK and BBBJTC....Don't take things so literally folks!

Your point is well taken.  Some hobbyist's just want sex and nothing else while others would like to take some time to get to know the provider.  Different strokes for different folks.  I for one, don't like to be rushed or feel like I am just another guy in the queue.  I try to do things that get me out of that senerio by scheduling at least two hours with any one provider and allow sufficient time in advance so we may email each other if the provider wishes.

Just my view!

J

LOL Honey, I *know* exactly what it means...

Altho I've never heard anyone say it means BBBJTC before, and if you came based on my descriptions of me as a GFE for *that*, you would wind up disappointed and I would wind up upset... no good for either of us.  I do love my protein, but darnit, it takes that risk factor right on up. =\ Bummer.

But, if GFE means... BBBJ and DFK and DATY....
why call it a GIRLFRIEND EXPERIENCE????

I think the term originally meant a certain type of experience... the way the provider could make you feel special, and welcome, and see to your needs... and instead it now means a checklist of very specific sexual things.  Plus the fact that everyone defines it differently... (Like me never having heard it to mean BBBJTC before!)... so why not just evaluate us as unique entities? We *are* all unique and have special things to offer each gentlemen.

But, I'll add I'm not here to argue, just here to give you things to consider and ponder... so if the term GFE floats your boat, you are welcome to it

Hugs*
Nicole

I think it's a given that all hobbyists want sex... What's not given is what context would turn them on the most, what their fantasies are....

And GFE did at one time, mean what you are saying it means.. at least I *think* that was how it was coined (I am not sure on this as I was not around at that time), but it now means very different things to lots of different people.  I love my clients and I love chitchatting with them and having discussions with them... but there is something to be said for a strong man walking in, grabbing me, and ravaging me tooooooooo.... *not* assembly line style, more it's own unique thing. We can always chitchat afterwards, TOO! LOL

Oh well, I'm just a kinky girl, what can I say??? I like it both ways, or any way, I love it all! Best of all worlds, even

Hugs*
Nicole