I scheduled a date for a couple of weeks out with a highly reviewed provider/companion, and she is already asking me what hotel I’ll be staying at. I haven’t had someone ask me this early before. Is this typical/normal? I’d rather not have the vice squad knock on my door instead of her. I’m really looking forward to the date, but this made me feel a little nervous. TIA

She’s highly reviewed? I promise she’s not working with the vice squad.

If vice is already working with your companion, what makes the difference two weeks out or the next day?  

If you think there's a chance this provider is actually LE, then you should not be seeing them in the first place, IMHO.

I like to know what hotel I am going to, so I know the layout. Parking. I don't think it's a big deal. Many providers have 4 or 5 star requirements. If it's in a bad area, or polluted with unsavory individuals she may pass.

But it does happen on occasion. Since this sounds like it’s your first time with her, she doesn’t have any baseline to assess your judgement in this regard. Some women just have different lived experiences than others and it’s quite possible this provider in question got burned in the past and the hotel info she got the day before in that case didn’t come close to her minimum standard.
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When I am contacting a provider for a first date for outcall, I always stipulate in my opening date request that the hotel will be an upscale one in such and such area and that almost always allays her fears.
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As for LE, I wouldn’t sweat that at all with what you are telling us. If she is highly and often reviewed, you will be fine. Doing outcall lowers your already very small risk as LE doesn’t work that way.

It sounds like you’re not confident in your vetting of the provider, or you may be a newbie? Clarify what research you did (always trust your gut though. It’s better to be safe than sorry)

I’ll sometimes ask for the general area just so I know approx travel time. I generally don’t ask for the exact address but honestly why would it even matter? You aren’t giving her the room number. I certainly wouldn’t give the room number out until a few hours beforehand, but what exactly do you think is gonna happen if you give hotel information?  You do know if it’s a sting they can also arrest you if you give them the information a few hours beforehand also right? Anyway… as long as the girl is well reviewed and legit you are fine either way.

Thank you for all of this. I appreciate your perspective.

Thanks for your thoughts on this!

Honestly, if she’s highly reviewed, I wouldn’t worry. If someone like QB or Claire asked, I wouldn’t bat an eye. And to be clear, highly reviewed to me suggests this provider is not newish, is currently active and has 15+ reviews over at least a year’s time. And recent reviews matter. You tell me she’s highly reviewed but has no reviews for 2+ years, I might not feel as comfortable.

Extremely unlikely Law Enforcement would be operating 2 weeks out.....usually they do a "Wham-Bam'Thank You Mam" hit and move on----News crews and hopefully our boys and girls in Blue have better stuff to do than trail an escort for two weeks.....

I don’t do outcall much, only when I’m traveling, probably less than a dozen appointments all added up. But it’s been pretty much like that almost every time, if not every time.  

It's a fuzzy, vague term that seems to mean she has many positive reviews. So why not just say that? Personally, I just won't use it.

Anyways, that’s a fair question and I occasionally use the term so I’ll toss in my two pennies.  

Good additional points. I will add, when it comes to very specific “line in the sand” numbers and details, it’s not one size fits all. In the end, you need to decide what’s your comfort zone.

You are just expressing normal anxiety about this lifestyle as we have ALL been there. Feel free to post here about anything in the future that gives you pause, as there are really good people here who will help you sort things out. This community can be so amazing and I have been on the reciving end of so much help from so many over the years.  
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But you are good to go with the girl in question, I am sure, now go have fun with her!

Does "highly reviewed" mean her scores are high (the opposite of Lowly reviewed??) or that she has a large number of reviews?  A better, more specific term would be "well-reviewed."  Maybe not.  Never mind.

that the guys who wrote the reviews were high when they wrote them.

Your point about her reviewers have a good review history is an important one.  

Last year I took a long drive to a city two states away to visit two ladies I really wanted to meet.  

Unless you have some kind of outstanding warrant, it's highly doubtful anybody is setting up a sting to bust one guy on an outcall.

Relax.

Whenever I make a booking usually the girl wants to know where I’m staying.  Especially in Vegas where I know a few have been kindly asked not to be on a particular property 😂

This way it is in my calendar and I can plan my day. I need to know if I am going downtown or Summerlin or the strip. If I am make plans before or after I want to know the logistics. If I get another booking for the same day, how much travel time do I need between dates. My calendar has the hotel and time, not your name so it keeps me organized and my calendar doesn't have your personal information on it.

Of course she wants to know where she will be going.  It’s a matter of security.  She is doing you a favor by making sure she will be comfortable and secure. No last minute cancellation because she doesn’t like the hotel.

I would not see a provider that I was concerned about working with LE.

in my homebase Vegas guys will book weeks and sometimes in months advance. Especially if they are coming to town for conventions or booked their vacations way ahead time to lock in their travel prices anyone who travels nowadays know to book in advance since travel is significantly higher nowadays.
I will say 95% of the time the gent who reaches out to me with screening and introduction he gives me his hotel location in the initial correspondence.What I have been experiencing while on tour as I am mostly incall while traveling.Clients want my location way in advance.. I understand planning for drive time/weather/road conditions this is why I will give a general location that is within 5min from my hotel. I would think this would be sufficient.For most it is others not so much.

Personally, I'm fine with general location for travel and timing.  I've also had a few last minute changes that MIGHT have been planned or might have been unplanned. I'll usually call (as instructed) 5 minutes early and say, "I'm real close to your Hotel A." and maybe get, "Oh. I had to switch to Hotel B, it's right across the street." Not a big deal to me. There are many reasons to switch hotels. ... Or maybe it is just easier to say "Hotel A" for convenience and comfort even though never had a reservation at Hotel A and was really planning to be at Hotel B across the street all along. Not a big deal to me.

Sounds like you had some sociopath clients.  

Yikes! This guy has some control issues, among many, many others!

Thanks for all the feedback, everyone! In response to some of the posts…

In Vegas roughly 25% of residents work in the hotel/casino industry. Considering that not all providers are open about their activities, they may want to avoid certain properties to prevent the possibility of awkward situations.

Don't worry about it. I often will even ask ladies for hotels in an area they'd feel comfortable in before I book.  

a provider here in nyc once told me she went out to long island to tour and when she checked into a particular hotel, she got a call from hotel security respectfully telling her they knew who she was and what she was doing there, and she had one hour to leave.