...I'm reading another post regarding a dude thinking his oily massages were Nuru sessions but he went beyond that to describe is strategy for getting bbfs.   It starts with a nice camel slide while talking dirty, then rubbing his tip on her clit and "if she responds positively I just shove it right in".  

....they'd limp back out missing an appendage that I'm sure they'll miss. Those nuru girls don't play around and they don't tolerate shit like that.

That said, I'm not entirely sure that was the intent of what the guy said.  I suspect the "responds positively" is expected to do a lot of work in the statement. But as you say, there has to be a lot of trust and if one doesn't actually ask first then the potential for a miscommunications is present.

quite a few times with real Nuru gel not oil but I have never had a gent attempt to do this.
Some ladies are completely naked when doing Nuru some have on bikini bottoms and no top.
As soon as I think a gent is going to attempt to do a camel slide or attempt bbfs I tell them I do not do camel slides or bbfs it is not safe.
Yes a guy has to have consent from the lady in the scenario you described. If he does not that is rape period.
If a guys here think this is ok they are predators...is there any specific threads where guys here think this is ok?
I would like to read so I can AVOID these guys in my opinion are dangerous and predators.

Look for the ones that attack me and then search their recent posts, won’t take long to find lol

Was it agreed upon before the camel slide that it was going to be a sexual encounter or was it ONLY going to be a FBSM?

A description of a typical experience exists in this thread. In your opinion, was consent given?

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No consent was asked for or given. IT’S SEXUAL ASSAULT. PAYING FOR SERVICES DOES NOT GIVE ONE CARTE BLANCHE TO DO WHATEVER ONE LIKES.  

Edited my typo.

I just got a Thai massage that was no different, than any other FBSM.

I have made it a habit, when visiting a lady for the first time, to take a few minutes to go over the NOs.   I start with the few things I don't want her to do, and then she can list the things she would prefer not to do.  We then exchange things we really like to do.  No one likes to be told no in the heat of passion, and this prevents that from happening.  That said, you never put the key in the lock without permission.

the provider was Thai!

I had a Nuru massage.. the girl was all nude. We were both covered in gel. She was working a really aggressive slide. We both were enjoying ourselves. Without a word she put ne inside suddenly & I came pretty quickly after that. She asked me not tell anyone that she did that. I didn't.  O got a test 2 weeks later.. all good..

What about her test 2 weeks later?

I have had multiple top providers provide a NURU slide where they get on top and eventually try to stick it in w/o my consent or sometimes whisper something in my ear telling me that bare is so much better or something like that.  Too risky for me.  I pulled it out instantaneously the few times that it happened --- within seconds.  I think that they just mistakenly assumed that is what I wanted.  

Can't find a link -- but think there is probably a thread over on the K-Girl board that has one.

other nuru and others don't.  The Thai agencies that used to be in SoCal always had at least one or two ladies offering nuru for a modest upcharge.  

As someone who went to a lot of sex parties pre-covid, a typical rule is anything besides a clear "yes" is a "no". It is not a popular rule, but it works. At these parties people trying to have fun, not get rаped.  

I think due to the prevalence of BBFS being preferred by many mongers lately.  It kills any chance of a repeat, so I think it behooves the ladies to make sure it's okay before they do it.  

it is NOT a "tricky topic."  You have laid out clear conditions and expectations.  Good post.

...Mongers are reading the (hopefully embellished) reports of BBFS popping up all over the place.  One might think any session that involves a Kgirl automatically now includes it.  This shit is going to come back to haunt many of us in the future.  More guys are wanting it, some demanding it and others just STICKING IT IN when THEY perceive there is an opportunity to do so.  Oh, I forgot to include "using force" in the sticking it in part...

I meant that it's tricky when you don't follow a strict ruleset and just go off by expressions, perceived implied consent/ageeement and so forth... that can lead to potential arguing, issues and fucked up lives.