I have been on TER for a few months but only recently found out about the "White List" and discovered that one of the providers I had seen had given me an Okay, while the others had not. Then reading another posting, it was mentioned that typically the client needed to request a white list okay from a provider, they usually aren't given otherwise.

So, my questions are:

1) From a provider perspective, how valuable is it for a client to have multiple white list okays?

2) Is it true that providers typically only give a white list okay if specifically asked?

3) Do other clients often/usually ask for white list okays following a meeting?

Thanks!

1. Not a provider
2. Not in my experience
3. Sometimes I have asked as I'm walking out the session. Sometimes they just appear.
4. Don't over estimate the white list. Yes, it's a nice feature about TER, but it is only one aspect of the reference check, and you must give out your ter handle, which some clients do not want to do before a session.

For me i'll give an okay but depends on the person and/or how well the session went and/or how many we've had.  Some of my coolest regulars don't have any whitelist referrals.  Out of most of my encounters I've only had 3 asks for okays. One from here and 2 on date-check

it just showed up one day. I wonder if she regrets it?LOL  She probably doesn't remember doing it. SSHHHH.......she drinks also(whispered).LMAO

Since some guys don't want to have information about who they've seen out there and are nervous, so I don't post one unless they ask.  

On the other side of things, whitelisting is only part of the screening picture and it's hard when guys get mad that you want more when they have old whitelists and/or only one or two.  The reason it's only part of the screening is that some guys will go see a couple girls to get whitelisted and behave themselves just long enough to get in to see other girls and then misbehave.  Guys with a lot of consistent whitelists though, you can pretty much bet will be experienced and respectful clients since they've been doing this for years.

All in all though, it's a good addition to the screening package but not the whole thing.  Also if the ladies who whitelist someone are known to be reliable, it is a very helpful part of the picture in my mind. Every little bit helps us feel a little more secure.

1. A white list is good but NOT the only thing we look at in seeing clients. But each gal looks at whitelisting differently because everyone gives them differently.

2. I give whitelisting only after I have seen a client a number of times.  So if a client asks for one I tell him he needs to earn it.  I believe whitelisting should be like honor roll.  
But if I have a guy earn it I will give it without him asking but usually it is asked for.
3.  answer above

Bottom line is each gal has their own beliefs when it comes to whitelisting...perhaps standards should be set.  I know of a gal who gives a whitelist after seeing every client, whereas I am very selective in who I give it as I believe my reputation goes along with the listing.  So if he f's up then it looks bad on me too.

Confusing right?  With no standards the whitelisting means different things to differnt people...both clients and gals.

Thank you Misty! Very well thought out answer and very helpful. Hugs, Lance

are certain ladies who are whitelisting EVERY single guy they see. Some guys KNOW who these ladies are, so they write her a glowing fake review, next thing you know he is whitelisted, even tho he has never met her.

So Ladies DO NOT for your own safety rely solely on a guys whitelist. Just as some reviews are fake so are some whitelistings