i have only been a hobbyist for a short while so i only have a few reviews under my belt. i cant seem to be able to book with those whom i would like to see because i dont have whatever it takes to create an interest for them. i thought the interest was money? i wont spend any more money on providers who are imo second choices. ijn this present economy why so many rejections?

oh well guess the wife will have to do

i used an alias because i dont want pm's trying to convince me to hang in there being that hanging in there would be spendinjg money foolishly

Pick ten providers you are obsessed with.

Contact each one of them ONE time by TER PM with your references and  your phone number.

Tell each of them  you would like to see her one day . NOTHING MORE unless she asks first.

If she doesn't reply don't try again for at least 90 days.

When the first one replies you are good to go don't tell her you've been dreaming about her and how excited you are.

If none of them reply, try civvies. They operate under the same principles .

I am wondering during the course of the verification process, do the women every ask you for certain things with respect to information? Also is she getting adequate information from reputable sources about your fitness as a client as well? These are all relevant questions that you would want to ask the young ladies when you are going through the verification process.  If you asked that question, the providers in question would be more than willing to elaborate on why your not passing muster at certain stages of the game.

You are fucking up obviously, and not doing your homework.  Some guys are not cut out for the hobby.  Don't worry..... I'm not going to try to convince you otherwise.

While all the ladies DO care about the money, for many of them it is not ONLY about the money.

There are issues of safety, respect, fitting into the rest of her life's schedule (read:  kids, day job, etc.), and trust that all ladies require to some level.

Even beyond that there is the issue of supply and demand.  If you have your sights aimed very high on the looks/reputation/cost scale, those ladies may have more business than they need based upon whatever their business model is.  The more they are in demand, the more selective they can be.

Much also depends where you are.

But in spite of all I or others might say, it is YOUR decision, YOUR descretionary income, and YOUR value judgement about where to spend it.

Good luck in whatever you choose.

Geez! Nobody is forced into this hobby! At least not on the client side. If you don't like it and you think it is spending money foolishly,  then quit! But the only reason to share that on this board, is that you ARE looking for people to convince you to hang in there, or you are looking for pity. Wrong place for pity. Hell some people here might tell you to go find some rope!

"ask you for certain things with respect to information?" does that mean "ask you for information?"

"is she getting adequate information from reputable sources about your fitness as a client" does that mean "is she getting referals?"

"These are all relevant questions that you would want to ask the young ladies..."  if he said those things NO ONE would see him.

"willing to elaborate on why your not passing muster at certain stages of the game." does that mean "tell you why they say no?"

Certainly not my smarter brother.  He is a great humanitarian.  I call him The Albert Schweitzer of Whoremongers.  He even helps old providers across the street.

Oh, nobody I know eom

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At least I would if there was a length of rope on the other side. lmao

What type of responses are you getting from those who won't see you?
Since when do you have to, "create an interest for them"
Gotta be something else going on that you are not telling us?

.....will visit with a gentleman, because of the dollars invloved.  While I realize my gentleman friend, and I are not "going steady", I choose to visit with gentlemen I know I will form a long term "relationship" with.  This is based on common interests, his profession (not for the reasons you think), long term "goals", and a phone conversation before we meet.

  My guess is that you are presenting yourself in a way, that ladies are a bit turned off. Or, perhaps, you are not willing to be screened?

  You can pm me, if you would like more input.

Hugs and Kisses

The all about money attitude turns most first rate providers off then, you end up with “its only about money providers”. Get it?

Once a year or so, I go two or three months without seeing a provider because nobody answers my appointment requests. Nobody being defined as first choice, second choice and third choice in a given city that I am traveling to. Lately, however, it seems like I can hardly get an appointment request sent off before an answer comes back.

Who knows why? I have asked myself your question (in this economy, why so many rejections?)  But I certainly don't worry about it. I would estimate that I see 75% of the providers I contact.

I've been doing this for over thirty years, and there isn't much that gets me very upset about the nature of the business.

Dupy has chronic logorrhea, a/k/a diarrhea of the mouth.  It's incurable.

It will reduce demand thereby having the dual effect of making providers more available and reducing their price for those who have not quit.

Dear Duplicitouslust,

I'm wondering during the course of reading your shit, do people every(sic) ask you to reduce the number of words with respect to delivering your information? Also, are you getting adequate pussy from reputable ladies to maybe help you relax and help you come off that high horse? These are all relevant points that you would want to seriously consider if you want any young ladies to see you without having to pay for them for "copulatory activities". If you asked that question to yourself, the people reading your shit would be more than willing to elaborate on why your not passing the qualifications of having any game.

I am sorry to apprise you but I get screened and accepted very easily in the hobby.

necessary to find attractive ladies who will see you.  It is all about doing your homework and taking the right approach.