deposits and sending screenshots of your ID…because the majority of the providers that guys want to see demand this garbage it’s really no way around it. i will reiterate unless you want to loose your livelihood you need to stop sending scree shots of your ID. in regards to deposits…let’s step up the reporting…i know a lot of guys don’t know about TER ripoff reports https://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/ripOffs.asp …before you send a deposit make sure you check if a provider has a ripoff report (in any city that she frequents) and if you get burned by a scammer make sure you report it.

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will "lose their livelihood" if they send a screen shot of their ID for screening purposes?  Are you going to snitch on them, or what?   Lol

here’s a hypothetical. you meet a provider and you guys really hit it off. you hit it off so much that you start seeing her weekly for months. let’s say you spend $1000 a week to see her. after a few months she gets lazy and entitled and stops giving you good service and at that point you end the hobby relationship. but wait…for months she was getting $4000 a month from you. do you think she’s going to be happy about losing $4000 a month? here’s where your livelihood becomes in jeopardy…you sent her a screenshot of your driver’s license so she knows your real name. using your real name she found your linkedin and your facebook  (that has your wife and mother-in law listed as friends). which is more likely…she just takes it on the chin and says oh well about losing $4000 a month in income or that she will threaten to reach out to your mother-in law on facebook unless you continue to see her and bring her that money?

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In the example you gave, the idiocy comes from being in the hobby and also being completely transparent on Facebook and linkedin.  Here's a compromise that has worked for me for years . . . .  if they will only take a DL for screening, then I text them a photo of a redacted version which omits my last name, DL number, birthdate, and street address.  If they don't accept it, then I move on to the next name on my list.   Vegas ladies use DL screening just to determine you are not local LE, which you can't be if you live out of state.  They also have my photo, so they know it's me when I arrive.  BTW, TER is the only social media I'm on.   Seeing hookers is not the only danger in being on other social media sites.  You have little to no privacy in the first place, so you should be admonishing mongers to not get involved in social media if they are going to participate in P4P.

I never ask for a Deposit & Screenshot of ID.  

everytime i have asked a provider about the whole driver’s license screening thing they tell me that they demand the guy’s full name and they won’t see a guy unless they can verify him on linkedin and/or facebook. so it’s news to me that providers have let you block out your last name in the screenshot you sent them. anyhow i’m old school…if references or checking my info on a whitelist aren’t good enough then i just move on to the next chick.

That she'll walk away.
Happens every f'ing day in this world.  If she has one client feeding her thousands a month she probably has several.  
If the client is feeding her every week he probably has as much on her.  
Mutually assured destruction.  
I don't give my real ID to anyone who isn't willing to share there's,  but your scenario is just a bit paranoid.

Only share as much about yourself as you know, or can find out, about them.  

We all should have our privacy.
I never ask for ID/driver license/LinkedIn/any person info

as most here know, but I wanted to draw attention to the stunning photos on your website.  There is little chance of me being able to see you if you are based in NY, but I wish more providers would put emphasis on flexibility and overall fitness the way you have.  I know I'm going to get jumped on for this, but kudos anyway.

I saw them. Outstanding. I think Kate should travel down to the DC area 😁

I agree 100%.  Amazing photos!

It's not that far and she would probably do it.  I'm in SoCal, and I don't think she tours that far West.  Most NY ladies don't.  

of the year to invite her down to stay with you for a week in Palm Beach to get away from the winter cold in NYC.   If you survive, you can tell us about it.  Lol

TWO solid, recent provider references, so if that combination doesn't satisfy them, I just move on.  

Amazing photos and poses.  

...and there are usually other ways to get vetted if you really want to see someone. I've booked 2 different sessions with 2 different providers within a week to get the 2 references I needed to see a girl that wanted either 2 recent references or photo ID. Was it worth it? Meh not really. Doubt that I'd go that expensive route again!

You've wondered about it and the only thing that makes sense to you is "gender transition?"  Really???

"My name is SUE. How do you DO?"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NIMgEEASoWQ
Johnny Cash. A Boy Named Sue.