We’ve talked about this before, but I couldn’t find the thread. I’m the older guy who can only do early morning appointments, because I have a disabled wife that I caretake all day and all night. I have had a bunch of providers who have accepted me for an early morning appointment, then ghosting me, no shows, changing their minds the morning of the appointment, when I call for directions, etc. Every way a provider can waste my time because they don’t want the early appointment after making the commitment. These few hours in the morning are all I get. They ruin my  week, as all of this I have to plan for and schedule.in advance.  Luckily, I haven’t lost any deposits. But I do loose my precious few hours.
It just happened again this morning at 8. I contacted a provider yesterday, new to me, and set a date for this morning..an hour before the appointed time, I texted to get the address. No answer. I explained that I need 1/2 hour to drive there, so I needed the address by 7:30 a,m. No response. I texted 3x more to get a response. Nothing. This provider did not text me either the night before or today. I finally gave up and was accommodated by a provider I have seen a few times before.
So, I am totally disgusted by the lousy attitude, and insulting treatment by some providers. Can anyone suggest some way I can help prevent this poor treatment.
OBTW, If you want this kind of treatment, try  380860, TS Cheryl, in Fairfax at the moment. You can also risk the same treatment as I got from  181321, TS Megan / Melany.  To only mention the last two.
Any suggestions?

I totally understand your dilemma because my time is extremely limited as a full-time single super Mom & caregiver for a combat wounded disabled VET. Good to post the TS’s ghosted you, but they obviously, do not care. Booking means your time is reserved. I love early am appointments, but many hate them. Sorry that is a reoccurring problem for you. Change your providers your choosing. Smile for me! I cherish my adult fun time.

You have to remember that MANY  but certainly not all, Providers are lacking in the 3 CS.
1.  Communication Skills
2.  Customer Service Skills
3.  Common Sense
Everyone gets ghosted;  it has happened to me, not very often, but it has happened.  The 1st reason I believe you are encountering difficulties is the time frame you require.  After all they are referred to as Ladies of The Evening- Not Morning!  I also love to start the day off with a bang, but the only time that happens anymore is if I spring for an overnight!  I am sure some of the providers you have reached out to figured, well I will MAYBE see him in the morning if I feel like it,  Lately it appears though, that they have no desire to follow through, likely because they are disorganized and the demand at the time of the day is low!  The 2nd reason is some of the sites you are finding these providers (Hot.com, Bedpage, and Sumosearch) really are not the crème de La crème! On the contrary, these sites attract the bottom feeders of the hobby, Providers and Clients.  I have never been ghosted by a Provider I have found on TER or P411. The few times I have been ghosted the ladies had posted on STG/Sumosearch, and Bedpage!  So I cut that out.. Better luck to you going forward!

I feel for you, buddy. That's a tough situation and I admire you putting your wife's care first.  
 
Are you only interested in TSs? Also, are you booking for less than an hour?
 
If only TSs, you're options in our area are limited and you're running through them pretty quick.
 
Less than an hour may not be financial incentive enough for them to get out of bed, for what I suspect is true for them, 3 or 4 hours early.
 
Answer the questions and I may have some options for you.
 
And... don't forget to xpost this one on the DC board.

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They are in the minority but do exist. A while back during the winter months only had early morning escape times available. Found three separate providers who actually loved the time.
None were in the 25 and under group and in most case would have the session instead of their early morning gym and then clean up again and go to their day job.  
Had one screw up one time and over slept so was ten minutes late. These were all weekday sessions so none were at six on the way home . My best winter in the hobby ever.  
Sadly all are gone now .

Firstly, I find my providers here and at TS Escorts, or TS 4 Rent. I never find my providers at the sites you mentioned. As for them being “bottom feeders” I don’t consider $300 -$ 400 “bottom feeders”. Not everybody can afford women $700-$1,000. I don’t ever even consider anyone who expects more than I can afford.  I’m sure they are paragons of virtue at those levels, and have supernatural levels of sexual skills and beauty. But they are out of my budget. Most of the providers that have actually showed up have been really nice. But, if women aren’t busy in the morning, they can pick up extra money with little competition. And, personally, I have always treated these ladies as a gentleman. I’m always clean, polite, ON TIME, considerate of their time, and I never refer to them as any of the corse words some around here like to use. And, oh yeah, I tip appropriately.  
Really, what’s so damned difficult just turning down my request for an early morning, when I first ask.?
I have such a strong desire to tear this last and any future ones a new one by text. The last time I corrected one, I got an indignant response like they were the victim.

Thanks, guys.  I would be happy with a female. I always book for an hour minimum..

The Providers you have seen also list on the sites that attract bottom Feeders.  While glancing at your reviews they stand out! Bedpage, SumoSearch, and Hot.com. I do not believe anyone who indulges for $300 to $400 is a bottom feeder either!

It's the way communication is done these days, whether looking for a hooker or on Match. Ghost = not interested. It's not even considered rude anymore. But that's when it happens before agreeing to meet!
 
Your case is a perfect example where it's downright rude, uncaring, inexcusable, and thoroughly self-centered. I think you need find a way to get across to them the outsized impact ghosting you AFTER agreeing to meet has on you. There have got to be words that are inoffensive and not self-pitying that would get this across. It's been pointed out that I don't exactly have a silver tongue so, unless I get a stroke of genius, I'll sit this part out.🙄

Ooops. I thought "bottom feeders" was a reference to DATO. My bad.

...to post this in more than one place.

vigorous told me to x post. I thought it was an accepted practice to increase exposure. Please accept my apologies for an honest mistake.

Yes.. It's you..  You don't find threADs from these bitches annoying, do you?  A legitimate question gets posted, and granted you are technically right that it shouldn't be posted, and you get your panties in a wad..  

Your first post got zilch or basically no replies. Here you got more than one reply, helpful  or otherwise. Your post got more exposure and different takes.  
So don’t sweat it, Holy just seems like he’s wound too tight.

Looks like you are going thru a lot in your personal life..  One of the things you have to understand that it takes a special hooker to accommodate early morning appointments..  8:00 AM for normal people is midnight for some of these bitches.  There are some hookers in Vegas that won't even see anyone before 2:00 PM..