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FMTY?
lololancer 32 Reviews 2392 reads
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1 / 27

Anyone here partake?

Pros/cons?

Thanks!

(Look Ma, no caps!  😊)

MDSTUDS2003 77 reads
posted
2 / 27

If from me to you it it could just be and Incall.  
Or talking about donating ?

lololancer 32 Reviews 79 reads
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3 / 27
GaGambler 84 reads
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4 / 27

Pros, None that I can really think of

 
Cons, It at least doubles the price of the date, and there are PLENTY of gorgeous local girls that I will never get around to fucking. I just don't see the point.  

 
Maybe it's just a factor of having seen so many women in my life, I just don't get all worked up about any woman that I only know by her online presence. I can't imagine scheduling a multi hour or overnight date with a local girl that I hadn't met much less flying a stranger half way across the country. If you have ever struggled to get through a two hour date with a person you don't "click" with I am sure you can just imagine spending thousands of dollars to fly out a complete stranger only to find out that you are like oil and water with her.

 
Now I suppose I would "consider" flying out a girl who I had seen before and had a great time with. I have flown out ex GF's to come see me when either they or I have moved to another state, and a couple of them were hookers or ex hookers so I guess I actually have done a FMTY a few times, but none of the actual visits were "On the Clock"

mrfisher 112 Reviews 98 reads
posted
5 / 27

for gals I might otherwise never see again.

Usually it is for someone I met when they lived nearby but moved away, or perhaps someone I met when I was out their way but they don't tour.

In exchange for covering the airfare, they often give extra time which is nice.

Jinx_The_Cat 33 Reviews 86 reads
posted
6 / 27

I don't have the time money or energy to see even a fraction of the local ladies that catch my eye.  Occasionally somebody will mention an out of town girl that is a must see.  I would occasionally reach out to such lady and inquire when she will be touring to my town.  If not, well such is life.

anomy08513 58 Reviews 77 reads
posted
7 / 27

I travel for work and would fly out my ATF when I attended conferences or meetings and just stay an extra day.  We had a very good rapport so just being able to relax with someone without time constraints and see a new city were worth it for me.  I wouldn't recommend with someone you've seen once or twice.  Sadly my ATF has retired so I doubt I will ever have the same comfort level to do it again.

John_Laroche 75 reads
posted
8 / 27

It's one way to make sure your date isn't a no-show due to traffic I guess.

 

But seriously, no. No.  
Maybe if I hit a mid-8 figure net worth. Until then, I only buy local.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 88 reads
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9 / 27

unless you are so rich, you light your $50 cigars with $100 bills.  I was tempted ONE time when I was in Vegas.  There was a convention in town which I was not a part of, and all the ladies I knew were already booked up.  I thought about bringing in a girl from LA, but decided I would take my chances after calculating it would cost me about $4-5000 for an overnight with fees and expenses.  Fortunately, a girl I knew had a last-minute cancellation, texted me, and I was able to take his place.  2 hours for $800!!!  I saved a ton.  

lololancer 32 Reviews 94 reads
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10 / 27

“Georgia Gambler” posted a LEGIT message that’s actually WORTH reading?!  😳

Damn, I guess if you live LONG enough, you DO see everything!  LOL!  😆

lololancer 32 Reviews 80 reads
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11 / 27

No takers.

I myself have NEVER done a “FMTY,” as, in agreement with the previous posters, I agree there’s just too much LOCAL talent.  Besides, travel “expenses” cut into “playtime” funds.

I’m just amazed at how some “pros” mention the option as if it were NO big whupp for US to do.  🙄

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 162 reads
posted
12 / 27

Some guys have disposable income that makes all these monetary considerations trivial.  JFK as president had two hookers on staff, known as Frick and Frack.  I never figured out why someone like Harvey Weinstein bothered with actresses (who generally aren't always that pretty without makeup) when he had the bucks for unending stream of hookers.

KJ5233 85 reads
posted
13 / 27

I've very recently flew down to Florida to see a ATF. Although it was nice to reunite the chemistry wasn't all there. Cost for travel, hotel and entertainment for 5 days over 2K. Not counting the cost of said ATF; not worth it.

justsauce16 4 Reviews 91 reads
posted
14 / 27

Maybe if I lived in some flyover rust-belt state that didn't have a market, sure, ship them in.

 
Also hi gang, idk how long ter's been back, but it's good to see familiar names still whoring around. Missed you guys.

AznWhtTailHntr 15 Reviews 80 reads
posted
15 / 27

If you are on the coasts and they cum to you, why pay the expense? If you drill dry holes all day, then maybe it’s worth it.

my-0.02-cents 84 reads
posted
16 / 27

I would rather just fly out to her area see her and take a mini-vacation.

derekmcminn 79 Reviews 82 reads
posted
17 / 27

Buy local. Wherever you go, always buy local. If you are an LA native and you go to NY, why would you fly in a girl from LA instead of sampling the local talent? I am sure NY is just crawling with hot commercial pussy. And vice-versa. Even if you go to Dumbfuck Egypt, I doubt you could not find one worthy hooker for the night. FMTY myself means Fuck Me Thank You, not your original definition.

JackDunphy 53 reads
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18 / 27

I thought this line was interesting Lex:

 
"The most glaring question is this: If rape were only about power and not about sex, why does the rapist engage in a sexual act? Why not acquire power some other way?"

 
I know the "rape is about power" line is repeated often, so I am not bashing you for using it, but did we ever stop to think if it's really true? And if it's true, is it true for all rapists in every case?

 
This is all above my pay grade but I wonder if we can ever speak definitely about these type of things.

justsauce16 4 Reviews 33 reads
posted
19 / 27

Everything in the world is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power.

 
Specifically, it's the power of validation, because you're fulfilling a biological imperative. That's a much deeper validation than most things.

John_Laroche 34 reads
posted
20 / 27

no not in 100% of cases, but (again MHO) why else would a guy as rich as Weinstein use it? While you're answering that, also explain prison rape.

 
I'm sure there are plenty of sick fuckos that actually think "she really wants it" or they're so horny they can't control themselves, but men (predominantly) in a position of power are raping to degrade or control.  

 
And then there's Cosby, a different kind of sick fucko...

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 74 reads
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21 / 27

Sauce.  Glad yo see you’re still interested in pussy. Lol

justsauce16 4 Reviews 73 reads
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22 / 27

Good to be back CDL. When did this place fire back up?

JackDunphy 49 reads
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23 / 27

And sure, I would think one of them is power. But in every case? I wouldn't think so.

 
With some, it may just be simply about sex. They want their nut, they are evil, and they take a woman against her will.

 
For others, it may be mental illness. For others still, it may be drug or alcohol addiction. IDK.

 
But if rape is only about power, why don't they use other means? I mean they can overpower a woman and NOT have sex with them but they don't.

 
Again, all of this is heady stuff and I don't think any of us could possibly know fact certain if any of these things society just says is true, is actually such.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 36 reads
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24 / 27

Usually, when a man and woman meet with the possibility of it turning into a sexual encounter, the one who brought the handcuffs has the power, and the one WEARING the handcuffs has the right to call it ruffied and raped if the photos show they were enjoying it too much.  I thought everyone knew that.

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 36 reads
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25 / 27

Domination is pretty hot.  I find chicks that are into being submissive and pretty much clear everything with them before I do it.

It's definitely an evolutionary impulse since it helps ensure your DNA wins.

So it is hard to differentiate lust and domination.  They might be two sides of the same coin.

Hpygolky 214 Reviews 82 reads
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26 / 27

Nah, once was enough but she was worth it. She lived in LA as I do, But seeing that I don't get out much in LA, we decided to meet in Vegas.She was someone who just had that look that I am drawn to. It was one of those YOLO moments that took me over. I flew her in, she stayed the night, and she left in the morning,Now I just do the DMTY....ladies in the OC will now visit me while I'm in Vegas..and yes they drive there.

WIMissScarlet See my TER Reviews 87 reads
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27 / 27

I LOVE to travel and because of this I think I probably have one of cheapest travel rates. I have been to CA, FL, Mexico, Dominican Republic, Ireland, Slovakia, Czech Republic, Germany, and Austria. A regular client of mine is taking me to South Africa to celebrate my 40th this year. I request $500 a day plus all my travel expenses. I get to see the world, get laid, and get paid!!!!  

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