Find yourself a female Dr. One with smaller, slender fingers...

Trust me, that changes everything!

Re: Prostate exam, no the real kind.......

Pay backs are a bitch huh (lol) It's called karma!!!
What goes around Come's around (Rotfalmfao) ha-ha-ha

I am not a great fan of doing a screening digitl prostate exam.  Looking for a prostate cancer that way doesn't make the most sense.  (There can be other reasons for a prostates exam, but that is another story.  In that case I usually leave it to a urologist.) While there is controversy, what I think should be done is: get a PSA check at age 40 to establish a baseline.  For high risk people (African Americans, those with a family history of prostate cancer, those on hormone replacement) get a psa every year to detect a significant rise (PM me if you want specific numbers.) In those not at high risk, you may decide to have it checked less regularly until you are fifty then have it checked every year.  e don't know why some people can watch their prostate cancer without consequence while others watch it explode.  Until there is better knowledge (for my colleagues, I know about the recent study of bio markers, but the data are not clear enough IMHO.) it is probably better to treat a prostate cancer as soon as it is detected.
By the time you can feel a prostate cancer, it is no longer very very early (though often sitll treatable.)

...is not entirely physical.  That doctor's finger is smaller than your bowel movements.  The reason it hurts so much is the mental and emotional resistance to being penetrated.  And if we want to get all Freud on this, we store a lot of emotion anally.  There's a reason we call disagreeable people "tight-asses."  If you work through it, prostate stimulation can invoke very intense orgasms for men including multiple orgasms.

But I'm sorry to hear you had such a rotten experience.

I'm almost 52 and I've been getting an annual prostate exam since I turned 40. While I admit I like it much better when this hot Asian chick I see in NYC sticks a finger up my ass, the REAL prostate exam just isn't that bad!

I submit to you that, if it hurt that much, the doc may have been shoving something bigger than his finger up there (J/K)...or you just need to relax and lose your hang-up about the whole process.

OMGGGGGGGGGGGGG Ridge!!!

This is the funniest post you have ever posted. Seriously I damn near had an asthma attack laughing at you.

Ok here is the thing about anal sex....it takes a required skill set to really enjoy recieving AND GIVING it...and it is not for everybody. There is nothing as intense as having a man who KNOWS what he is doing giving me a nice greek session...I would rather have greek than DATY...give me both....pound my va jay jay and I am hooked....an asshole does not have the same physical capabilities as a va jay jay...the anus is very very sensitive and can't stretch like a va jay jay. So you are correct....BANGING SOMEONE IN THEIR ASS IS NOT COOL....unless she prepared and numbed it...which is no fun for her...she can't feel anything. Taking your time and following a real greek lovers lead at her pace....and going really slow......feels reallllllllllllll good...add a vibrator and man there is no other way to have sex.

I am sure you spent years trying to explain to many women that they need to relax, breath, and deal with you trying to pound their assholes into the floor....well now you know it is not that easy. I am sure your own experience has left you with a clear understanding of how it feels to have someone in the back door who does not have a clue how that feels.....and does not care.


Welcome to the world of GREEK!!!

One day while getting a very nice happy ending at a MP I frequented, the masseuse decided it would be fun to give me a prostate exam just as I was getting to the point of no return with the happy ending.

This had the effect of multiplying the intensity about ten fold, and I started coming back to see her frequently.

Some years later my MD decided it was high time for me to start getting annual prostate exams, so the turn around, bend over and snap of the glove scene began.  Afterwards he said:  "Now that wasn't so bad was it?"  I responded:  "I've had better."  He almost fell over laughing.

or failing that, bring a "friend" along with you to get you ready for the exam '

but - truthfully - I abhor having anal sex with a woman who sells it only for the extra franlkin or so, and who numbs her rectum so she can "take" it.

When a lady *really* enjoys it and will guide you to do it the way it is pleasurable for you it is an entirely different experience.

Stop being such a pussy.  One of those exams saved my life.  My cancer is gone and I still can get it on.  If you think that finger hurt what do you think it is going to feel like when the cancer spreads to your bones because you were such a pussy now.