It can’t be service alone.  Plenty of ladies have 9’s or 10’s. What is extra special to make you want to go back again and again?  What stays in your mind?  

An all time favorite you with for whatever reason.  
Mine: Time knowing each other, friendship, getting along fine and PRICE.  
Some were and then they disappear with time. Stay as good memories. Others still staying until who knows when.  
Most of those that disappeared only gave me their work phone number. The one that don't started working with a few known guys and give out personal phone number.

An ATF is a sex worker that you click with not just sexually (but definitely sexually) but as a person as well, that you wish to repeat with. It isn't just about looks or mad skills. I hae had ladies that had amazing looks and amazing skills but never became an ATF. I also had a lady of average looks and good but not exceptional skill that I just clicked with and see over and over again, and became real friends with. Even after she retired and the client/provider relationship ended the friendship still survived. It is about the personal connection.

Certainly true.  Can’t forget that eventually it comes down to $$$. Once you get past that, a bit subjective, as you’ve mentioned.

That would put her in the running. Then I narrow it down from there by factoring in OTC length & frequency.

the letters "ATF" in your review.  Its really the most accurate way to know.  

Every now and then I meet a gal who may not be that gorgeous, and may not perform that great, but I'm just enamored to be near her.

A search of Google and the Urban Dictionary turns up zilch. Have you just created a neologism?
Or just jism?

-- Modified on 5/4/2020 11:55:14 AM

-- Modified on 5/4/2020 12:09:00 PM

Deck the halls with Boston Charlie,
Follorah and Kalamazoo.

Actually, it's:

The only provider to truly qualify as my ATF went through the following with me.

you meant "falderol."  You were so close, I would have given it to you.  Conan is a little harsh sometimes.

He checked.

Chinks so fanny.

There doesn't seem to be anything in it about Christmas.   The one I'm familiar with starts out, "Deck the halls with bowels of holly."  Holly is symbolic of Christmas . . . .  no matter where you choose to decorate with it.  Lol

She would bury the possums for two weeks before pickling them, then stretch them out on a rack and baste them with candied soy sauce.

Nora freezing on the trolley is at least a reference to the season, so if Jingle Bells can be a Carole, so can this.

served Himalayan possum.  She would first have to find Himalayan in the road.

worked the Helsinki circuit, or you would know better.

What you describe is what I would consider an ATF, something that you look back on over a period of several years. I too have what I might describe as an ATF, we met as hooker/john, but our relationship has taken many twists and turns over the many years we've known each other and we are in a place now where we are simply friends.  

So many guys use ATF to mean "current fav" I don't think its ever going to change.  Maybe they just don't know that the "AT" means "ALL-TIME", which is the same as once-in-a-lifetime, so once you have an ATF, the term can't be used for other girls unless they are replacing the former ATF.  If everybody was consistent in only have one ATF at a time, reading reviews would be a lot less confusing.

Pffft ... As if you know? I sleighed them at the North Pole.

It's Jesus? Carp all this time I thought it was Greeks yelling "Hey Zeus".

when you stand at a urinal, European.  

there are rings around Uranus.  

That Sphinx.

So this is like a RIDDLE.  It might never end. If it doesn't it will be longest post ever.

flexible enough to do this, there are about a hundred things I would do with the ladies instead than doing this by myself.  Lol

she made me feel beautiful.  From the first moment I met her, she was wrapping her arms around me and kissing me like I was her lover.

'My' definition of an ATF was, is and always will be, pretty much what scoed, Gambler, inicky, mrfisher and others said.  

I was  enraged when something happened to my true ATF. She texted me this happened and instead of me trying to be understanding and talk with her all I wanted to know was what was his name because I was going to find him and kill him.