Even though I don't go FS when I see a provider, I do select those that offer it, generally a better experience for me. But that's just the background info . . .

What has been really interesting to me is the different responses I have gotten when I let the lady know I am not interested in FS (well, not interested isn't entirely accurate!).

One girl hinted that I could get a discount next time (after making sure I didn't self-discount this time!)

One astute girl had read my reviews and picked up on my style on her own.

One girl gave me a huge hug and told me I had just made her day.

Another girl made sure the rest of her menu was OK with me, in a very concerned 'I don't want to do anything you don't' kind of way. 'Can I . . .' Very cute

And yet another tried to convince me that I was really missing out, because she is so very good. (I really believe she is, too)

Of course I make sure they understand it's my personal preference and not a reflection on them.

-tessen

no provider has commented on it in particular, and they just go with the flow. One commented that she really wanted to suit up for some cowgirl, but she really seems to get off on the penetration part.

I do the same and make sure they know it's a personal preference, and not a lack of interest...

The one time I "went there", she was a really hot provider with a rather lame performance, overall.

Rule number 3 or 4 on my list..

With any first time friend.. I let you lead.
I am always in control or I at least like to think so. but, you lead as far as you want to go....

Playtime doesn't have to cross the FS line for it to be amazing and fulfilling. It is much deeper than that to me.
Kissez all over
Sage

I've had some wonderful dates where FS never came into play, a couple that it never even occurred to me until later.

Full service is no longer an option for me because of meds; however, I have seen full service providers and advised them of my situation up front. We ad-libbed the sessions,  and had a great time.