So I had one of my longer dates.. and our chemistry was flowing, I totally dug him.. I was completely not paying attention to time whatsoever, I was just having fun.  

I think it was just one of those things.  Not everything is gonna be right 100% of the time.  If the talk is something you've been doing in other sessions and it hasn't been a issue before, I would not worry about it.

yes I am a bit better than that lmao! poor jerry!

Everyday there are posts about how gross the men are, how a woman could never actually cum with us, and how the envelope is all that matters. And we've all heard the same about how we could never know if a woman is faking or not. Admittedly, we also hear about great dates and how the same women are really into it.

You can make some  guys happy some of the time but not all of the guys happy all the time.

In a later scene in that same Seinfeld that BP posted, George is tossed out on his ear when he told the gal he just had great sex with that he was so impressed with her "show" of dirty talk.  "You really had me going.", quoth the prince of idiots.

So it is with this guy. Sheesh!

Some gals do a better job of it than others, and I'm sure some gals are genuine, but no one in their right minds ever says anything to acknowledge that it could be faked unless they want a kick in the balls.

In any case, I always appreciate it whether genuine or not.  It's good either way, usually.

And he was looking at his watch too?

Seems it is a case of one-way chemistry - a sad but not unheard of facet of this hobby.

Don't give him another thought.

why stay almost 3 hrs into a 2.5 hr appt? I would have understood if told upfront and he left leaving maybe $100 cancellation or what not  

Especially when it seems real.  But you need to understand that many guys are understandably skeptical.  They want to believe it's real but have a hard time accepting it.  Re the watch, perhaps he was just pacing himself and being respectful of your time, taking nothing for granted?

not worth one more minute of your time if 'he' thinks you were faking it. Only you know how you were feeling at the time...HIS loss. Unfortunately most men question everything no matter how genuine it is in this business, and those who do are the ones who miss out on truly genuine experiences.

actually want a clock in view for exactly that reason - pacing myself. It helps immensely.

From what I read, you were really into it and being yourself, that's awesome and never change that.

I've had guys that I literally thought were sleeping because they were so freaking quiet, then a minute after thinking that, I had cum on my face lol. He is obviously just one of those who has not had much experience with women who are vocal in bed, and thinks all of them must be faking it because he is not accustomed to it. How a guy who pays for ass can be so sheltered, is beyond me.

he actually told me he thought I was faking it !  

Ladies that don't make a sound is like fucking a Ninja.  

a fake experience?  

a lady i saw, with whom i thought i had good chemistry, emailed me cancelling our second date, saying she didn't like the dirty talk i was doing during the session.  which was mostly just "oh you nasty girl, you bad girl, i'm f*king you" etc etc etc.

You said it was a longer session and you dug him.  If you would like him to come back, you might send him an email and explain you weren't faking a reaction and the dirty talk was natural to you.  

This guy sounds a bit like a putz. I know it's impossible to forget on command so might be most productive to do whatever helps you clear your head and then focus your positive energy on the next session.

I certainly wouldn't worry about it although I can see exactly why it bothered you. Maybe yu should let him know that it was not an act the next time you talk to him. And like someone else mentioned...I don't think he intended it as a negative remark, most likely just assuming that because you are a provider that you probably aren't enjoying yourself.
 Speaking for myself: if I wasn't enjoying what I'm doing then I would most certainly NOT be doing this. I enjoy men and I enjoy sex so it's just natural for me. Don't get me wrong there are times when I meet someone and things just don't click as well as I would like (or they would like) but then those are usually the clients that are one and gone. Can't please everyone all the time...right.
 But it sure sounds like you have your act together and that you are in this for so much more than making a living. (almost wish I were a male hobbyist so I could experience a session).  Stay safe and ENJOY!

Every one of us is a mishmash of insecurities, neuroses, and desires that makes us occasionally impossible to understand. Maybe he was having a fantastic time and you inadvertently triggered a memory of his ex-wife. Maybe he was falling in love and was forcing himself to remember that you were a provider. Maybe he is an asshole that enjoys emotionally hurting women when he senses they are vulnerable.  Whatever it was, it was about him, not you. Hold your head high, dismiss him from your memory, and hopefully the next client who rocks your world is fucked up in a way that doesn't wreck the moment.

You know you read alot of shit on the Internet.
It can cloud judgement.
Example....
My shoulder was hurting the other day. A little numb.
I knew it was because I turned my head just right, and pulled a muscle.
I decided to go online and check it out anyway.
According to Dr. Google I had a stroke, a heart attack, and I should be dead.

ROFL! I would say something like: "George?!?!!

Or so you thought but did not want to reprise her role. Just glad you found others that wanted an encore.

to be honest, looking back what i thought was shyness on her part (due our just having met) turned out to be a deliberate distance she put up between us.  oh well, i have found some great ladies and don't harp on the mis-fires in this hobby.

Agree

I thought she might be faking it or a little over the top but I enjoyed it anyhow and would not have been a dick by saying something to her.I saw her again and it was the same but afterwards when she asked me to just hang out then went to dinner I new she dug me as I did her.I can see though how some guys may assume a woman is faking it but that is mostly because of their insecurity about themselves and has nothing to do with you. I would say that I do not think most ladies here fake it though, if they like you they will let you know by there reaction to you and if not they will be a little more distant but still provide a good service.Just because we are paying doesn't mean the women can't be into us also.Just as in real life we do not always like everyone.

I've found that it takes time for a lady to get comfortable enough to let go and really get into the dirty talk. That would've turned me on, even if it was being faked, which you've assured us it wasn't. As with anything though, everyone is different, thank goodness.