It seems that some guys are reluctant to take a shower when they arrive at a provider's for fear of losing precious minutes they're paying for.  

Since it is in the interest of the provider to have the guy take a shower, doesn't it make sense for them to say up front that shower time of 10 min. is not included in overall time.  

It just makes no sense that the shower time be included as part of total time since 1/ the provider isn't acutally doing anything during that time and 2/ it is in her interest to incentivize the guy to take a shower.

I actually shower immediately before visiting a provider, so that I am squeaky clean and feel no hesitation asking for anything. I do happen to have a shower at my office, however, which is helpful in that regard.

I think the best solution is to integrate the shower into the fun... AMPs learned this a long time ago, and it is always good fun to get a nice thorough body shampoo as an ice breaker. For a provider working out of an apartment or extended stay where a body shampoo might not be practical, just showering together can be good fun.

Besides, if the provider washes the client's "naughty bits" she can be assured of their cleanliness, and can avoid the hassles mentioned a few posts down... also if the client is treated to a nice view of her similar ablutions, he can be assured that she is clean inside and out... nice feeling.

Its all in the presentation.

O.

If the lady wants you to take one, take it and stop bellyaching!

I shower before a provider arrives at my hotel and usually shave and brush my teeth. It's just good manners.

Follow the Golden Rule.

You let the lady know up front what kind of man you are. I also bring my own toiletries and towel.

By the same token, if I smell smoke on her, or that not so fresh aroma of baby wipes, or perspiration, I ask them to join me.

HPG

I too bring my own toiletries... I am very particular.

Also hobbyists who have an SO would do well to bring toiletries that match theirs at home, so they do not return home with a different scent.

O.

Taking a shower is always a good idea.  I've learned that I get better service and special attention when I do take a shower of have a body shampoo in AMPs.

In recent adventures to providers incall place, I've opted to take a shower, because she assured me that I will enjoy the time better if I took a shower.  While I was takeing a shower she suddenly joined me!  What fun we had?

So far all the incalls the ladies has joined me in the shower.  So why not take a shower?