I'm posting this in alias to protect the provider involved.  You could read my reviews and know who I'm talking about and I don't want to harm anyone as the question is for me.  I'm white.  I recently saw an African American provider who provided an awesome experience.  I'm talking the kind that leaves you loopy with a hard on for days.  

I googled her provider name to see if she had a web site.  I was directed to her web page.  On it she talks openly about her dislike of white people.  She makes fun of the white men that come and see her (how small and pathetic, how they aren't as good as African Americans, etc).  She talks of how much she enjoys taking their money and giving it to the people.  She did nothing during the session to let me know she felt this way.  In fact the subject of race never came up from either of us.  It wasn't relevant.  She was an incredibly hot young woman, regardless of race who showed me a great time.

I was thinking of seeing her again, but knowing how she feels about my race has made me question this.  Should I care, or should I just keep remembering the great time I had and go back for more?

Thank you.

If you were both of the same race and you had the same great provider experience only to find out that she thinks guys who pay for sex are losers and that she can't really stand them, would you still feel conflicted?

My guess is yes.  You admit to being loopy for days afterward and now your find yourself having second thoughts about visit #2 upon this revelation.  It seems that the wonderful illusion that was presented to you when you were together is somewhat altered when you realize that it was an act.  So to your bottomline question...

If you can clear your head and accept having  rock-your-world sex with someone that has a quality that you find despicable then go for it.  If you know yourself and fear that the lingering thought will impact your pleasure then stay away.  It's been said a million times...our brain is our most sexual organ.  Personally I know myself and I would be unable to push aside what I learned.  I'd start looking for another wonderful lady becuase there are plenty of them in this hobby.  Good Luck...                    

-- Modified on 9/22/2006 11:38:53 AM

You already have had a session with this provider, but did not see her website until afterwards?


How did you find out about her in the first place?

Why weren't you curious to find her website before you made a date with her?

Why would a provider put stuff on her site that is guaranteed to turn off a sizable portion of her potential customer base?

You would have had to know her website in the first place to even post a review here, or was the site a listing on Eros, or some such thing?

In any case, here's what you can do about it:  Ask her why she would post something that is so offensive.

And what does she mean about "giving it (the money) to the people?"  What people?  Can I have some?

This thing has weird written all over it.

Please share with us what she says.

And for what its worth, I know an African-American provider who won't see African-American clients.  She says they are "in general" too disrespectful of her.  So things do go both ways.

I looked for her website to see if she had a photo gallery.

Would you frequent the shop of a businessman that dispised your race?

I agree - confront her.  But who knows whether or not she even knows the truth?  She may be saying that out of guilt.  I wouldn't see a racist.  Maybe someone hacked her site and put up phony comments.

then you're too on the fence to have a good next time.  Really, think about it, even if you could forgive the things she has on her site, could you really forget?  Willy Nelson has the answer to that question and the answer to your "dilemma" is quite obvious:  Find someone else.

I agree with mrfisher and jaytee - something sounds fishy about this whole thing.

Her site may have been hacked but if it remains that way for more than a few days then chances are it's intended to be that way.

Bigotry and intolerance are the cause of untold misery in every corner of the world.  If she *is* racist don't see her again.  Do you really want to f*ck somebody who thinks you are inferior?

Let's not be naive here.  Why would someone want to hack her site and put up phony comments?  That's extremely unlikely.  You can wait a couple of days.  If the site stays the same, you can bet they're her genuine comments.  So now that you've confirmed that they are her comments, what good would it do to confront her?  It's not going to change the way she feels.  She may even tell you it's none of your business.  The fact that she has these thoughts on her site means she probably has readers that support her attitude.  You've discovered a secret, ugly side of her.  It's up to you to decide whether you can accept that and still have a good time with her.  Personally, I couldn't.  Would you be able to support a business knowing that the owners hate Americans and the profits support terrorists?  Hatred is an ugly thing whether it's directed at race, country or religion.  You should post a link to her website so that the rest of us can recognize her true nature and avoid her.

Check out other links, like from this board and from TBD.

I doubt that it's been hacked-- that's generally too difficult.  There's a thread down further about dirty tricks pulled in this business.  Check the URL carefully.  Check the email address given on the website-- it might be slightly different from her actual email address.

Then ask her about it.  Mr. Fisher is right, it's just strange to put that on a website meant to attract business.  

If it all checks out, just the remember the good time you had and move on.  You will regret it if you don't.

-- Modified on 9/23/2006 9:51:17 AM

Since we cannot see what she wrote in totality, nor in the context in which it was written it is hard to play decision making for you.

However, armed with what little you have explained, I personally would call and chat. Not "confront", that ruins any chance of communication. I would want her to explain if she feels up to it the vast difference in the great experience she provided, and her written words if they are hers. There might be a very plausible explanation (seems unlikely) and is worth a phone call if it was rock-your-world experience.

If the conversation goes no where fast, it would be thanks and goodbye for me.

I don't deal with bigots, regardless of race etc.

I read a post on another escorting board not to long ago where an escort stated that she went driving on LSD and got pulled over.  She then related how she was able to get away without a ticket from some combination of charm and wit.

The response from the peanut gallery was deafening:  "How dare you say you go driving on LSD like that.  How completely irresponsible!", ad infinitum.

Then, the rest of the story:

This provider lives in the Chicago area.

Most everyone in Chicago drives on LSD at one time or another.

LSD = Lake Shore Drive.

And now you know the rest of the story.

Moral, don't assume.  Check things out.

Good call Smarty.

Reon't see a racist

I agree with Carrie.  First, no way did you not see her site before you met her.  But on the off chance you did, wait it out and then if the site staye the same, don't see her again.  Why would you want to see someone who says that about other people, regardless of race?  If it were me, seeing that would have put a serious damper on my feelings for her.

Kate

It was also a bad assumption on the provider's part that everyone would know that her reference to LSD meant an actual street.  However, that was one short reference that was misinterpreted.  I think it's more difficult to get the wrong idea when the provider is writing several sentences about how she dislikes white people.  I haven't seen the website and I wish Bigapple reuben would point us to it.  Don't assume is a good policy but I get the feeling he's not going to get any other credible explanation from her.  Smarty's approach is worth a try.

Who did that song anyway?

You're right that one shouldn't assume things. I've rethought and altered my previous post.  Especially since this woman's posting and behavior during a session did not fit.  In another thread we discuss outings and other dirty tricks.  That website could be very well be false meant to undercut her business.  Perhaps the guy should call her attention to it.  Maybe she doesn't know it exists?

Lake Shore Drive

There’s a road I’d like to tell you about, lives in my home town
Lake Shore Drive the road is called and it’ll take you up or down
From rags on up to riches fifteen minutes you can fly
Pretty blue lights along the way, help you right on by
And the blue lights shining with a heavenly grace, help you right on by

And there ain’t no road just like it
Anywhere I found
Running south on Lake Shore Drive heading into town
Just slippin’ on by on LSD, Friday night trouble bound

And it starts up north from Hollywood, water on the driving side
Concrete mountains rearing up, throwing shadows just about five
Sometimes you can smell the green if your mind is feeling fine
There ain’t no finer place to be, than running Lake Shore Drive
And there’s no peace of mind, or place you see, than riding on Lake Shore Drive

And there ain’t no road just like it
Anywhere I found
Running south on Lake Shore drive heading into town
Just slicking on by on LSD, Friday night trouble bound

And it’s Friday night and you’re looking clean
To early to start the rounds
A ten minute ride from the Gold Coast back make sure you’re pleasure bound
And it’s four o’clock in the morning and all of the people have gone away
Just you and your mind and Lake Shore Drive, tomorrow is another day
And the sunshine’s fine in the morning time, tomorrow is another day

And there ain’t no road just like it
Anywhere I found
Running south on Lake Shore drive heading into town
Just snaking on by on LSD, Friday night trouble bound

-- Modified on 9/23/2006 3:14:41 PM

...I agree with the idea of talking to her about it.

Granted, it may be hard to hack in and sabotage a site these days, but its not wholly unlikely that something could have happened where someone else, like and ex or something, had access to it and went in and changed it without her knowing and then locked her out of it... my girlfriend had that happen to her when she left her bf, he screwed her royally. But, seriously, think about it-- that could be why she never gave you the address to it in the first place, and why it wasn't linked onto whatever ad you originally found her on. Perhaps she had it removed so people could not see what happened. Honestly, that just sounds entirely too contrived to be real. It sounds like exactly what someone would put up to try and kill someone's business. I mean why would someone put something like that up on a public accessible site they try and conduct business off of...

I say, call her up (don't email, it gives her a chance to think up a good answer if she is truly a racist), and see what she has to say about it...

(bychance, would you mind sending me the link to my personal email? I am curious and like very much to know who she is. I am not going to say anything, I would just like to see for myself...)

Dani

The good old days. I have driven that road many times over the years...sometimes with that very music playing. Chicago is a great place to live.

It certainly describes driving that road in the spring.  It also describes dropping acid-- I'm sure.  But it works better one way than the other.

Now can anyone find the lyrics to "Mass. Ave." by Willie Alexander and the Boom Boom Band?

I've always been curious about that old Boston underground favorite.

She sounds like a racist.  Mel Gibson was trashed for silly comments he made when he was drunk yet this provider is sober when she posts them. Why would you go back if she hates white people? If you said those comments about her then it would be war!

I would never see anyone who think that way. Many times I was told after showing up that I don't see black males. I just thank them for their time and leave. I know it is part of life but nothing can beat anyone who think like this. She need to realise this is a two way process and her success depend on people like you exposing her for what she is doing. Move on!