I don't want the scenario in some porn movies / some TER reviews - where the provider is so aggressive or unrelenting that the hobbyist pops "against his will."
  I mean, if I go preemie, that's my issue.
  But otherwise, I want the choice of whether to save my fuel for the main event. If she "just wouldn't stop 'til I couldn't help popping in her mouth" ... I'll be all "I didn't repeat with her because I didn't want to."

Why wouldn't I get around to bangin the shit outta ya? If you make me cum orally(and bless you for doing so), plan for me to make a valient effort to spode while firmly planted inside you. Earn your money!

and never got around to intercourse?

unless you really enjoy CIM yourself.  (And there are plenty of gals I know who do.)

In any case, that is one reason I long long appointments.  If we didn't get around to all the things we wanted to cover in the first round, there is always the second and maybe beyond.

I will give you an honest answer.  I rarely get off in the bag, so, a bj/hj is just fine.  And to be honest, I get off easier from the HJ.

what do you do to stop yourself and let her know you're about to, so please go slow? Do you say it?

Even if we're having intercourse, when I'm about to cum, it's off to the mouth.

I am not disappointed if you are with a quality provider who knows what she is doing.  My preference is to at least have started intercourse and finish off either way for round 1.  If there was only going to be round one and we hadn't started intercourse.......I would be disappointed.

Like Swim, I also have difficulties with the traditional condom; it is more effective as an erection killer than picturing Margret Thatcher on a cold day.

ike anything there are exceptions but they are rare.

I know that, sadly, I've got one shot. So if I'm getting really closing to cumming from a blow job I will ask her to stop. And maybe I'll switch to DATY or something like that, which I'll still really enjoy, but it will pull me back from the brink. Then I can get to the main event and take full advantage of my time. I also like to save some time at the end for recovery and cuddling (bring on the derision boys!!!)

Board games for the remaining time or learn to cuddle ........hny xo

I think they do their job so well, even wrote about it....but they require someone who keeps an erection.

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Per my senses, guys like teasing to an extent, then they want it rammed down your throat the rest of the time.  

Except for the cuddling part.  But, hey, whatever makes you happy.

Yeah, I say it. Nicely, but I say it, otherwise I am not having the experience I want and after all that is what is all about.

It looks like a party balloon sticking out of your who ha.
What can I say.. It makes me laugh.

I have cum from a BJ exactly once in the last ten or 15 years! (and that  just happened a few months ago)  I rarely come from intercourse either. It's the journey not the destination for me. If I reach the destination during a session, it is a bonus.(and when it does happen, 90+% it was through hand work)

Slow, long and sensual

My preference of course is to always include the main event and lots of it, but if things got hot enough that I came from a blow job, which has happened only once or twice and only in civvie life, I think I'd be anything but disappointed.

I blow the best nuts from blow jobs.
I thought we all did? Geez.

You fool!

I'm sure some guys would be happy to schedule with us ladies and teach us. That's the next thread.

and my mood. It's rare to cum from just a bbbj,  it's usually a combination of bbbj, intercourse, thatn back to bbbj for the finish. And a second pop is usually strictly bbbj.  

When I'm really worn out, I crave just an extended, deep, slow, tonguey, blowjob. If I'm stressed, I want to fuck that anxiety away. If I'm paying for an hour and I dig her, you can be sure that I'll spend half the time eating her out to help coax a stellar blow job out of her. I'm never too worn from work/school to eat pussy. When I watch porn, I go mainly for oral scenes because I like seeing the girl's face while getting eaten out or working a cock.

For me an orgasm is an orgasm is an orgasm lol

I can't cum from a BJ but I can from a good HJ.

the cover diminishes the sensitivity/enjoyment of FS. I am more than happy with a BBBJNQNS session with lots of foreplay and then an ample amount of touching while cuddling after I have DATY which may be before of after the BBBJ depending on how things go. Most of the time I am also a one-shot wonder so I want to enjoy my time.

I've been in that situation before; it just gave me a reason for a return visit. No need for a refund.

Not hiring you for talk and cuddle. You are hired to suck, fuck, blow, spread-um in as many positions as I (who is paying you) to perform. If I nut with the beginning BJ that just means more time for me to spend in your asshole. I can talk and cuddle with my dog. I love my dog, I'm not there to fall in love with you or listen to your trivial BS, the same BS you told the guy before me and the same BS your gonna tell the next guy. Now stop talking and work your hardest to get both of my nuts in your mouth,and if you do get the urge to say something just hum it to me with both nuts in your mouth. I promise to smile shake my head yes like I really do care what the fuck your humming about.
or no tip!

I'm pretty sure that you just put yourself on the top of all ladies, "please call me!!" List..

I do not always want the same thing all the time. I got into this hobby for variety and that includes different things with the same and/or different women.

Now tell us how you really feel!

Bc I'll make sure you get your cuddling, snuggling, smooches, etc. you'll be my little fuzzy doggie the whole time.  

Exactly what I'm talking about "YOUR NOT HUMMING YOUR TALKING" And PS, I do see alot of you girls and its not you calling me, its me deciding  which one of you I want to fuck and have never been turned away with cash in hand. HUM me a few bars!

I have issues down there and if I get mine and the lady is OK with calling it it is good. I do worry about the lady not getting hers and will gladly DATY until she is happy.

wish don't contact them? That they hope they won't be the one walking through their door, because they know they have to please you, but truly don't want to because you're not a nice person?

I don't want to .. and usually re-direct so I can slow down a bit.. I presume 1 shot on goal so would like to make it last.. I can get going again.. but try as I might.. there is no second coming (yet.. but it is fun to try)

Its now how you get there as long as it is the best orgasm ever! i have found other methods, to give better and longer orgasms,