I understand why FS providers charge more money but sometimes I feel like FBSM providers deserve to get paid more since they literally work harder especially the good ones. You know, they are on their feet for a whole hour or more, they have to climb on the table and rub their boobies on us and at the same time keep the conversation going. FS providers on the other hand (non-GFE) suck a bit of cock for a few minutes, ride for a bit more before most of us bust a nut.
Not meant to offend anyone just a bit of tongue in cheek - here's to all the providers!
If you're not gonna see a GFE FS provider, it's not even worth it IMO, because sex without chemistry or a connection is a turnoff.
FBSM is great. It's nice to just lay there and watch her do all of the work.
I'm sure all guys like both but may lean towards one or the other more.
I guess it depends on your mood.
Some offer FBSM only but at a reduced rate because that is where the market is at, and they don't want to ignore that market.
On the other hand, doing a good massage takes some work and skill. Some gals also tell me that they enjoy giving the effort, and see massage as way more involved than just lying on top or under a guy getting FS.
The situation is not entirely unlike what you find in the rest of the work world where back-breaking labor pays less than cushy white-collar jobs.
The difference that is a bit irksome is that goog massage takes more skill than FS.
what is FBSM?
Full Body Sensual Massage
"suck a cock for a few minutes and ride for a bit?"
Providers like that are the reason the rating system has a category "she just laid there".
While I have seen a few women like this over the years, the majority of the escorts I have seen work much harder than this. Is it harder than giving a 30 or 45 minute massage? I can't answer that. I would say it's a different kind of hard.
I would also say I have seen plenty of FBSM providers who did the equivalent of "she just laid there". Very weak massage, quick, un-erotic soft touch, and then trying to get you to cum with a 3 minute power handjob.
I see a regular massage therapist who is a CMT (has about 10 other certifications as well) for $80/hr. She is a rock star therapist.
The only thing I don't get is a happy ending (she is so hot, though, and I wish she would surprise me just once as I've been seeing her for 7 years). Is it really a bad deal for the gal if she gets double for a little boob work and a happy ending (in a variety of ways)?
If I had to guess, if the FBSM gals started jacking up their prices, many clients might say "well screw that, for a few extra bucks I can go full service."
In the end though, the market pretty much rules the day.
If you work the same amount of time regardless of what you are doing, I feel you should be able to command the same rate. If I have to suck a guy off for 2 straight hours vs. having sex, I still worked two full hours, so I do see your point. There are good and bad providers at every end of the spectrum, but the FBSM providers that I know personally and have worked with do NOT give you but one pop for say 200. If you want msog, they too charge a gfe rate for that and you're still not getting laid.
That's from your perspective. Markets are DEMAND driven. I work for 2 hours as a file clerk. Then I go work for 2 hours as an Engineer. What do you think the market would consider more "valuable?" 2 hours of work is not generally equal across the board. Heck, read the reviews. Some ask a provider to stop a blow job so they can screw (FBSM not an option). That is obviously important to them. Look at you, London. You certainly can't charge more because of your incredibly inviting kitty (from an intercourse standpoint). You make up for it in other areas.
Bottom line is, you can't compare 2 hours of work to 2 hours of work unless they are identical in nature.
Now flame away, sweetheart.
If you want sex, pay for sex. Some guys have and will pay 300 and over for FBSM only. They do not want to fk, because it is like the Clinton thing...blowjob is not cheating lol. No offense, but FBSM and only oral for 2 straight hours is a hell of a lot more physical work vs. a 2 hour gfe where she yaps for 20 minutes when you arrive over cocktails, kiss her a bit, daty,etc. That is 2 hours of a slow progression where the guy also takes a good 20-30 minutes to also recharge, so really...what scenario is the provider doing more physical work? I would say the first.
I have had oral only dates, and believe me...my neck was numb by the time I was done, had bruises on both my elbows and knees, etc. lol. Can't say that about any gfe date I have had, though I do spend a hell of a lot of time sucking d*ck during those too ha ha.
I can appreciate that you guys think sex should be included when you're paying top dollar, but I can also see it from the massage provider's perspective as well. Here...girls easily get 200 for fbsm and that is only ONE pop with no touching either.
So yea, the market does determine the price because they are working and the reviews prove it. On the flip side, I know many girls who offer both fbsm and gfe which allows you guys to choose. I think the msog/gfe is like 100 more, but I think that is a good idea. Would never work for me, because the reviews would get confusing but it does appear to work for others.
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Honestly, I would think that this industry is one of the best examples of the free market out there. There certainly isn't any government regulation.
What money you can command for the exact service you provide is 100 percent market driven. It's a beautiful thing to be honest. Doesn't mean some won't overpay because of their perceived value.
U mention that you have friends willing to service your car on the side. Well, unless you are willing to pay their rate and they are willing to do the work, you don't have a market.
I honestly think we are talking apples and apples here. You do have to remember that free markets assume perfect information. It's always possible a person who paid $250 for FBSM didn't know the same service was available for less. Or they perceive one provider of that service worth $250 and another worth $200.
is getting a good 90 mn massage at a certified place after a steamy session with a provider. Nothing like that feeling of relaxation while your dopamine is still flowing. It's like decompression from the high
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