I'm brand new and I'm also fat.  Will I have any problems?  Should I check to make sure the provider is OK with fat guys?  My money is green.

Obviously some ladies aren't into fat guys, but vast majority don't care one way or the other.  

Checking is always appropriate.

find your penis. I think you are good to go.

Great question - how fat is too fat?  I have found that most ladies don't care but, on a first date, I warn them anyway that I am fat. Only a few have not wanted to see me due to my size (PM for names if you like) or even asked questions.  In 3 years of this hobby, I have found the vast majority of the ladies are gracious and make the best of things.  I also do a lot of research and try to see the most highly rated and classy women. I have never not been welcomed back because I try to be a gentleman, considerate and generous.

Many girls, for the right coin, will wipe his ass for him. Scat play is pretty big in certain sectors here.

Vast majority of the time you won't have anything to worry about. All these ladies have been with every type imaginable (looks wise, performance wise, size wise ...they have seen/done it all). The great part is that you will never know if it bothers them because they are professionals and act accordingly. Your manners and cleanliness go a LONG time way with them; do your best with these 2 things and you will be well on your way. I also understand your concern in that I am not hung (at all) but I just go back to the fact they have seen monster hung dudes and micropenises and I am somewhere in between (albeit closer to the later).  Hell it's one of the reasons I jokingly call myself theperfectjohn - the lady doesn't have to worry about being sore after we are done hahaha. So if you feel it will put your mind at ease to let them know your stats beforehand then you will be that much more comfortable when they reply back that they can't wait to see you.

While, I would love to tell you that the size (of your body) doesn't matter, the reality is it's just not the case. Yes, it's a pay for play game, but that does not mean that every lady has to take your money and set up an appointment if you don't meet their criteria.  

they'd go broke.  However...  your biggest issue if you have a tummy roll is to be sure you take pains to be clean.  Be a gent...  if you are heavy, certain possitions will not work or will put undue weight on her.  As a pro, she'll likely have positions that will work.  CG tends to be a better one.

As long as you're respectful and clean, your size doesn't matter to me in the least. One of my favorite regular clients is on the north side of 300 pounds. There are a lot of girls like me who will be very happy to meet you.

As long as you're not fat and lazy. If u want me to ride u the entire time because you're to lazy for any other position.....then I'll pass!! Oh and fat and bad hygiene definetly is not a good mix!!!  
As long as you're a gentleman....not a creep....and your money is green.... I don't see the problem.
Good Luck babe!!!

I have exclusively dated big guys before and man, they really know how to work a pussy! I have had some great sex with big guys so I am a fan of big poppas always! And of the ones I have known personally, they have never been unkempt, always impeccably groomed and smelling fresh, and able to stroke a little while longer than most and always willing to please!

As long as your clean and respectful I have no problem seeing you.  
I had one very large client, he disclosed it up front and was very nice. I enjoyed my time with him but I felt horrible, he was so big that I could not spread my legs wide enough to really get in my groove! We got the job done but I felt like it would have been so much better if I could do a full split! Lol

I wouldn't want an appointment if she didn't want it.  That doesn't seem like it would be fun.

I have really good hygiene and decent stamina.  I'm actually fairly athletic with some muscle, it just has fat over it.

Wallets.

I appreciate all the info.  I think I'll just mention it when I set the appointment and maybe send a picture if they want it.

Every escort is different so just ask, if you're interested in seeing her just email and her are you okay seeing fat guys

Never, ever a need to send a photo to a girl and anyone who asks you to should be avoided like the plague, imo.

and you got what it takes to be just fine; you represent yourself very well.

Of course, the guy doesn't really have to do that with me, but I've noticed its a trend. And gets the point across without sounding too sheepish. Say it with pride!

I just advised someone in the last few weeks to take his down.

Steph xoxo

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I always wonder why guys have pics on P411 accounts, etc. just not a good idea IMO.

Guys actually put pics up there? No way.

Not many, but some. I haven't seen it much lately though. I still don't get it.

I wouldn't send a pic that shows my face.  That's crazy.

April 1st is still over a month away. I can't bite on that one..............

IMO, that's a bit insulting - it's almost as if you think these traits are more likely for an overweight guy.
Let's just assume he's a regular dude like the rest of us who is a decent guy who takes care of himself like any mature ADULT male does, but who also happens to be heavy.  Isn't that the better starting point for assumptions?
I'm usually the farthest person from "the sensitivity police" type, but your post just struck me the wrong way.
Seems like a straight-forward, "no special requirements for heavy guys" would have sufficied just fine.

LOL

the only thing I discriminate against is people are RUDE or MEAN to me.

Absolutelly not! Someone is fat, the other one is slim...what really matters is an treatment and your behaviour!
No stress!

I understand what u mean.....and figured my post might be taken the wrong way. I feel the same way about a man weighing 180lbs. All those traits are turn offs coming from any man. So I still stand by what I said. It was taken wrong because I said it in response to a "fat man". It pertains to regular men too

Well I think u will be ok. I have seen my share of fat men and its really not that big of a deal. Thank u for not taking offense to my reply! Good luck babe!!!! If you're ever in Northern Va I will gladly show u a good time!

Lol I'm not going to prove it lol! But as Steph said, I do tell them it's not the best idea.. but I get a little lectury about it..  "hey. Wtf are you doing?!?!"

That came off much better.
Obviously heavy guys - like members of other "groups" too - can be sensitive to perceptions, so it's wise to be careful...

Of course.....that makes sense!!
I will be sure to use my words carefully next time..... Thanks!!!!

I prefer people who are larger than me. Once you get over the 350lb mark however, it becomes difficult to be intimate. It pretty much require that I be on top, and there's a good chance that it's not going to work. Not to mention that your penis will be shorter because of the padding at the base.  

Did you finally figure who Ickey Woods is? and did it really take you over two months to do so?

85% or more of their business is for guys that can't get laid.  
Either they are fat, old, ugly etc.   They provide a service to guys that can't get laid based in these attributes  
15% see providers becuase they don't want strings attached
They want to have sex without all the phone calls, texts and dating
That's the bottom line folks

Or do you just want to gratify yourself by thinking that you're in the top 15%?

betting against FIDIOT is usually a pretty safe bet. lol

Taking any rules you might have for not dating p4p clients out of the mix, for my scenario.

Looks aren't as much of a factor for me...I think that anybody who lives an interesting life and has a brain in his head (and takes care of himself) will appear attractive in some way. There are barely any who are so repulsive I'd just have to grimace and say "NO!!"  

I don't know who you are, but I was entertained by this post! 'staring dick in the face for 2 hours'...funny as hell.

Is your ass clean and I mean squeaky as well as every other part of you. And yes check because some are not.

It's his nut so I do not expect to do all the work trying to stay perched on top a wide girth and if he can't hold himself up in mish and his bulk prevents proper respiration i will pass. If a guy can't at least do half of the work, then I am not interested . I work smart, not hard.

I can change some names but we have a lot in common as far as these scenarios go. Oh except for the marathon dude, that will never happen over here.  

in a heartbeat. It'd be downright refreshing. Have fun, stay safe.

Thanks for all the good advice.  I'll just let the provider know.  If they don't like it, I'd rather move along anyways

They cling to the idea that most of the guys who engage in P4P are fugly, stupid, have no game, yada, yada, yada.    They send/post their photo to say "see?  I am not some fugly, fat, bald, dude, you will be GLAD to do me, I am not like most of those 'other' Johns."  

A guy can be gorgeous and a loser.  

I had the opposite happen. This dood worked out a lot and would actually flex his muscles and pose. He'd ask me, "Do you think I look more ripped than the last time you saw me?" or "Do any of your other clients have abs like this?"