Ok ladies, which do you prefer guys that pop fast or ones that you have to work at, or somewhere in between?

Sometimes 30 for an hour appt.

for me and for my partner. Sometimes I'll slow the pace, sometimes pick it up. Keep with what we're doing, or change things up. If you stay in the moment and pay attention to your own arousal level and your partners', you can control how fast or slow things move.

don't you want to cuddle and get to know me after you popped?

BEFORE I "pop" (we need a better word for this) and then cuddle and talk some more after. Rushing sucks.

I should try that thank you

...which is why I gotta take it slow and typically chat & mess around for at least the first 20 minutes of a session. It is what it is. I know myself very well - there isn't much that I can do to "turn it off". When I am in a room with a gorgeous woman and she's doing all sorts of delicious things to me, I can't hold on.

It depends on the lady if she one and out the door or if she truly like what she does. Also if she enjoys being with a guy for the full hour.

I like to savor every minute.  So I prefer to go slow with plenty of foreplay that keeps us both on the edge until we can't hold back any longer.  As I've grown older, I tend to prefer quality over quantity, so I'm happy after just one pop ...LOL ...with plenty of cuddle time afterwards too

As an official take-forever guy, I hope I *get* to wonder about that...

Yes

I like to do lots of foreplay so my lady is "in the zone."  And yes, many times I pop sooner than I want to, but I make up for it with some intelligent conversation with an intelligent lady.

I am going to address this from a different POV.  

Cynical?
No.
Realistic?
Yes.

I let the provider know so we can fuck forever. That way she does not think she is failing at her job.

No because I want to kick you out ... lol I know that the first thing that may come to your mind .  
I feel men may be slightly embarrassed if this may happen but its very flattering to me . It boosts my ego and I feel powerful and so sexy ! Im thinking in my head yeaaaaah this S**T right here is GOOD . haha.  
 I personally enjoy the four play the most . So drag that part out for longer ... you can always get a back rub after

I suffered from premature ejaculation for most of my life and wouldn't have lasted 30-45 seconds, let alone minutes. Now, in my middle+ 60's I seem to have the opposite problem, worrying about if I'm going to make the poor lady work too hard. LIfe's a bitch.  

Very interesting to read about a lady with the same problem a lot of men worry about. Thanks for posting. I would think recovery time for a second pop would be less for a woman but maybe it doesn't work that way?