Anyone here literally dating a provider? Would like to share your experience how to make an escort fall in love with you? I'm pretty sure anyone of us whom has seen a numerous of girls, at least felt in love one time and it just recently happened to me when i saw this girl. She's just gorgeous and of course love sex but what impressed me is that she also a hard working lady. She had a job and being a provider just her side work. I don't know if it possible that girls who chose to be an escort had taught each other not to fall in love with a client. Everything is strictly business!

There was an Awesome Provider that used to work in my city for about 15 years. Super Nice and Great Performance. She was the only one I was seeing. Then she decided to move to another state when things got slow. I was pretty Sad on hearing that. So I decided what the Hell, I'll drive to visit her. Now after a few trips to see her, it was worth the drive. She's still Nice and Awesome since the first day I met her 20 years ago. Am I or her in Love with one another? I'd say it's close. I just consider us to be great long time Friends. I'm leaving on September 9th and staying with her for one week. What the Hell, yeah I Love her.

Someone knocking your socks off in bed or being drop dead gorgeous to the point that she makes you dizzy, is NOT LOVE! And, why would we want to fall for a damn client? They are usually married men who are cheating on someone else, so not exactly the best way to gain trust from another woman if you know what I mean. I don't much care and am not judging, but I would have to be a complete dumb ass to think someone already cheating would not continue when things went south between us.  

What you said is right but IN your case. Maybe most of your clients that you have met are married man so you thought all men are cheater, but what about those single guy? Like myself i am single and don't have a gf so that's not consider cheating, right? When the thirst come, provider are basically the fastest way to hydrate( sorry if this sentence offended you guys LOL).Yeah right i paid girl to fk me but that doesn't mean i am a heartless beast and i will settle for the right woman.

While I've met a few great gals where there was some sort of chemistry or something between us that was a more real emotion that's not the norm in this hobby. Big diffrence between lust and sexual chemistry than love, this should be a required course in high school maybe there wouldnt be so many divorces. If you're looking for love here you're in the wrong place. Yes you can make some cool friendships here but to test you're theory call the gal that you think is in love with ya or vice versa and say " hey I'd love to see you but I'm a bit strapped for cash and listen to the crickets chirping in the awkward silence. The Beatles said "can't buy me love" they were full of shit. Well maybe not but ya get the point you can buy a couple hours of it anyways, but once the meter stops running go back to reality.

Wow. Seriously, some very lonely people in this world. Not mockng you, but I just don't get it. What is it about some people that makes them sooooooo dependent on others for their so called happiness? I am just not built that way I suppose. I need my family and God to be happy, and that's about it.

People wonder why we PREFER married guys...duh, they are not fkin stupid for the most part.

Yes it is, what's sad or funny depending on how ya look at it is if some fellas are this emotional or delusioned here imagine what the poor gals have to listen to behind closed doors. Don't know how y'all can keep a straight face sometimes!!!

The fear of carpal tunnel syndrome.

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Honestly (WARNING: brutal honesty ahead!!) it's pathetic! You don't even know her. She's a pretty girl, she was nice to you, she was willing to have sex with you. ALL OF WHICH YOU PAID HER FOR. Some guys just take basic kindness/professional friendliness and RUN with it to the nearest Vegas chapel!!! Until they turn around, and the girl is running away screaming.  

HAHA, good morning everyone.

Well we did get married and pledged to give half of our assets it away when we part. Smart

and no, I don't really feel like sharing all of my experiences in this department, get back to me when I am PUI, and I may feel like sharing. lol

Most providers, just like most women in general are seeing "someone" why can't that "someone" be me? Honestly, it's not that big a deal, but it does help to not be a lying, cheating pig of a married guy if you want a "professional" to start giving it away for free.

I am sorry, but too many men wonder why they are taken advantage of...because it is really THIS freaking easy to get a guy to think you love him, and keep taking his money. There are women in this business who do just that. Me...not worth the hassle. I can't lie too well, and I would actually feel guilty about taking things so far just to be a hooker on retainer. If I want a SD, we will work that out, but to lead some guy on for years on end is pathetic.

my friend. There is a reason they call this a hobby . . . Be clear that fundamentally this is a business transaction, a wonderful, fun, exciting and most times quite satisfying transaction with beautiful, sexy and very accommodating ladies - but it begins when you  walk in the door and ends when the door closes behind you and frankly that's the point . . .

I'm on Eros under MY TERMS. I want to get paid per date. End of story. I purposely DO NOT detail long-term arrangements or make any provision for them on my site, because that is not what I want.  

Even, in the unlikely event she does fall for you, are you comfortable with having an open relationship? Or are you the possessive type and want her to quit the biz?  

I've done it, quite a few have done it, but it takes an iron fortitude to do it.  and what London describes is not love, here in the English language, we have another word for it, its called LUST!

ROTF :p

If a provider is really good at her job I guess this is the result, men falling for her. We all get it and it's not fun or flattering(well a tiny bit) but then I just get annoyed and then have to have the chat and then risk losing money when I hurt someone who now wants to walk because I don't fel the same.  

A lot of ladies act. I incorporate my personality, but there are times I really, REALLY, have to act because the chemistry isn't there.

...insisted I say I love him, just so he could imagine I was his girlfriend during session. (this was a long time ago.) I obliged. I then got text after text saying he would take care of me and if he could be my real boyfriend. He would pay all my bills...

... you have to be soooo careful. The PROVIDER doesn't know the guy!

Had a hangover this morning, sorry! :P

Well said.

It does seem that the clients (of mine) who profess to have feelings for me are definitely the stingier ones.  

and I've also had some clients I've really liked. A few of them I remember to this day, and would really like to see them again, but they probably don't know how to find me. But I'd keep it professional because sometimes, friends who don't see each other so much can have a much better time...

Much is said and written about what is exactly being bought and sold between ladies and gents who frequent this board and in what context do these transactions take place.  Well, after speaking with a dear friend today, a perfect analogy hit me.  We're all at Fantasy Camp.

Love is all about chemistry.  I care deeply about some of my long term clients whom I've gotten to know more intimately and personally.  By the way, none of them are married and all of them are much older than me.  What set these gentlemen apart was that they gave me little (and Big) gifts that I never asked for.  

Can't handle the velcro effect some guys produce. Everything comes with a price and those big gifts might look all shiny and new in the beginning, but sometimes the ladies find out the hard way that there is a lot more involved. Those guys usually want a lot more of "you" for the price of that gift. Gifts are supposed to be given free of strings, not so much in this business.

How utterly mature of them. I bet when they don't get their own way at the office they pout and stomp their feet in defiance.

All of the ones who called me names this summer asked me on free dates after they met me ONCE. When I had to put a diplomatic stop to their emails etc. (for example, one guy asked me to take pics for him at my house - it just SO wasn't a cool request - way out of line, and kind of creepy, since I was afraid he wanted to look up my location in the metadata), suddenly, I was cold, businesslike, fake, using them, and even once, 'Oh, I see now, I'm just another john. I guess I forgot you were a W----.' I'm like, I used you? Where did you find me (answer: eros or p411)? I advertised paid dates, and that's what you got. I never advertised girlfriend-for-life, or in any way hinted at it. Insanity.

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