Why is it that hobbyist will ask me  

...because it's January 8 and you're on hiatus until the 18th...

almost everyone of those fine gentlemen and have made the best friends! Don't loose the moon while counting the stars!

family member that's not doing well. Had to take the time off or else I would have regret it if something happened to them. A lot of people find me popular now that I'm on hiatus Murphy's law lol

Go schedule time with another sex worker.Sex worker busy.Variety sex workers in business.....Happy birthday!

When I started my business, I would take anything that came my way. [Im an independent contractor]. Now that my business has taken off, I am more picky of the jobs I take...just because I dont really need the business that bad anymore to deal with certain jobs, or people I know is going to be a problem from the get go. I dont see it as discrimination. Obviously, no woman should see, or feel they have to see a man who is violent, but in your own words, a person that has bad hygiene, or refuses to take a shower is your deal breaker. Thats okay. You have the right.  

Re: If he can't get hard, then what's the point? (eom)

For some impotents the point is the fact that they miss the touch of a woman...their smell, taste, appearance...the sound of their voice and the feel of their body against his...

A disabled man who can't have an erection may still want the company of a beautiful woman--just to hold her, caress her,  run his fingers through her hair, etc.  And a provider may like that as well.  

That's fucken awesome.  

and don't want to show up at someone's door and get rebuffed again.

I wish you and your family well...

I spent almost 5 years with a condition that rendered me impotent...you can than your lucky stars you don't know what I know...

Re: If he can't get hard, then what's the point? (eom)

I've seen many men like that you are not going to get hard if you are nervous or have problems. Understanding is a big thing, some men it takes longer and others just want to enjoy the company of a beautiful educated woman. Sorry you would have never found me in a bar. #justsaying

To be rejected in a P4P scenario, can be the worst. Sad as it may be to some johns, hookers are people too, with their own prejudices, preferences and tolerances. Luckily, hookers have a choice with whom they spend their time with regardless of the monetary incentive.

We choose who we want and if they do not accept there are many that will

) Massage parlors. Usually run about $50 / hour. If you don't require a happy ending, then you don't even need to tip. You can get all of the "touching" and physical contact that one normally gets from sex. Plus a killer massage to boot. To the person with ED: Your muscles will feel nice and loose and your overall mental well-being will be much improved. And the physical contact you get CAN be every bit as intense as what you otherwise get via intercourse.

I can find a MILLION girls in a bar who will cuddle and NOT fuck me. LOL

And I can get them 100% for free!  

providers not wish to see me and my husband because we are both of larger size, one blatantly said, i do not see plus size women, or men over a certain size....even though she herself was NOT what you would call small, her weight was listed as 145 and her height was 5'6, so needless to say she is what I would call plus size, didnt piss me off as i am MORE than comfortable in my body and as my hubby is well endowed it was her loss. LOL  
while i do understand that you have the right to be choosy about who you see, there is a better way of informing a client of that.   sadly not everyone knows this.

So...

Re: I can find a MILLION girls in a bar who will cuddle and NOT fuck me. LOL

why do i have absolutely no problem believing that headline?

Re: I can find a MILLION girls in a bar who will cuddle and NOT fuck me. LOL

Because... The truth is a motherfucker sometimes.

As you know in this work we have to be comfortable who we are seeing. I know for me I have had traumatizing experiences  more than once with certain people and for that reason I would not see them again because the sheer thought/memory is disgusting....I have talked to several ladies with similar experiences... That alone is more than valid to not see a certain type of person.....and if I am repulsed by the way someone looks hell no I would not see them. You don't have to be a model, you can be overweight, and have many imperfections but there is a freaking limit!! I'm not going to feel disgusted to make a couple hundred dollars. Its our perogotive to see or not see anybody for any reason.My mental health comes first. And that makes me a bitch?? So be it!! I'm not going to traumatize myself trying to be politically correct in whom I see and don't see....

The difference is it doesn't cost me a dime to not get laid.

o way in hell am I going to pay a gal several hundred an hour to not fuck me.

Get yourself some kisses.  

You always were the stupid brother.  --z

That's different a larger man is different because that is affecting your body how does a 65 yr old that find you adorable you don't want to see because he's old. Hey like I said to each their own but not me. Age/gender/weight in this hobby affects you lets see where that golden pussy syndrome get them but hey that's none of my business.

with this job. Hey I can't tell other providers who to see but to me is ridiculous that a man would have to ask that because some moron put him through that. At the end of the day it just pussy, I personally as a hobbyist won't be disrespected beautiful women out there. Let it be known Roxanne sees them all.

So yes the providers are getting paid but it still comes down to sex and having a good time.

Hobbyists pay for fun and good time with sex workers. No time drama

The drama part sometimes is in question.
It's sad but true.
Some people on either side forget it's about having a good time.

of course you're never going to get it, but nobody here cares that you care how other guys spend their money.

Personally I agree.  It's your body at the end of the day and you get to do as you see fit. Personally I am not going to be responsible for giving some 75 year old man a heart attack because he took a viagra. Perhaps I watch to much TV but so be it. Also I don't see anything wrong with picking and choosing. Its like finding a great pair of heels. Just because it fits doesnt make it right for you. Also what happened to quality over quantity.  And shame to the women throwing shade because a whore still values her pussy. Maybe a revaluation is needed on the home front. There's a difference between getting money and getting got.

How is one to give you her very best if she feels bandwagoned into doing so?

I for one don't see guys over a certain age so apparently I fall into the "discriminatory bitch" category. Since it has to do with my personal comfort, I make no apologies for it. And while I may not necessarily agree with ladies who discriminate based on other criteria that I find unnecessary (race, for example), there's no way I'd begrudge them their right to choose who they want/don't want to share their bodies with.  

Calling out escorts being bitches, laughable.

You can not be serious.  I decided who's cock I want in my body period!  I don't discriminate one bit but I've turned down MANY I just didn't click with.  I also don't see guys young enough to be my son either. Any kind of mental instability is not someone I want to see either.  GTFOH trying to judge ANY lady that does WHAT SHE WANTS with her own body! You yourself are doing the judging with this ridiculous post. Gee, and I thought you were a nice, cool person?  Lots of ladies will find offense to your post I'm sure. Wtf...

I mean I'm not interested in sucking a 20 year old's dick in my personal life i'm not gonna start if contacts me within the hobby with 400 to spend. I really don't discriminate on much of anything but age (I have a minimum not a maximum). It's all about personal comfort in one way or another.  I don't discriminate on the mentally ill but if you're not taking your meds i'm not taking your money. There are some things that some of just can't "act"/look past.