no Sweety, they aren't that bad.
They are just apes-sorry .I love men and I like the ones that are just plain -I don't know the words sorry-to touching a woman.
They are clever and fun but just a bit too rough from time to time. A lot are very clean and nice,just watch your nipples and clit because they are too rough so just be guarded and you will be alright.
Most men think the way you said-they pay ,they do what they want.
It is not that they hobby. It is that they are men in a patriarchal society.

Don't hold all accountable for a few brutes.

I have found the issues to be regional.

Where you advertise will affect your clientèle as well.
It is slow right now and the regulars are busy and you are left with these bottom of the barrel.

Remember TER is the minority of hobbyists regardless of the statistics on the site there are probably 100-maybe 500- non TER for every visitor.

I hope you can understand what I mean. Typing and computer is very hard for me.
Most guys go to EROS and don't even know about this and are too afraid to come here or even post.
Ok?
No worries.
Thay call a lot of girls ugly if you don't give discounts but thats ok, you won't lose any money.

Even the rip-offs go around ripping guys off and the site does not curb there business.

You just get to see the way men in general are and that should not be any surprise ,right?

No, it's not the norm

Welcome to TER Famke...

No, in general this is a very civil and nice place to be - sometimes people post without thinking.

So just ignore the fights adn if attacked swing back and wade on in and join the fun.

Giggle,
TS Jamie

...are a representative sample of people you're likely to meet.  Especially don't draw that conclusion from a small sample which may be just a few losers out there who might be making life a lot more unpleasant for everyone in their general area.

I don't have specific numbers for how many TER members there are, but I know it's in the thousands.  With that many people, you're bound to get some assholes in the lot.  The only thing I can tell you is to screen carefully for who you want to see; I've had providers ask for my handle as part of the screening process, which was presumably a way to see if I was one of those folks who posts unpleasant crap.  It doesn't mean that I'm not that way in person... but you can look at the assembled body of a person's posts and get some idea about what is going on with them.

Yes, it's a lot of work.  However, careful screening makes the odds of meeting up with an asshole much smaller than random chance would allow for.  Only you can decide what the proper balance for you is about screening labor versus clients you're willing to see.

Not all guys are bad on here. In fact, I can honestly say the guys I've met in person have been sheer delights. However, this is why you screen hard. If during the screening, someone starts to bully you or be rude and uncouth, simply don't see him. Then again, I'm just the occasional when I need money for books or to have a little fun type of provider (aka low volume) vs. the back to back kind (not that there's anything wrong with that.) I've always felt that because I really didn't need this to pay my bills that I can afford to be extra picky if I want to.

Katie