girls when giving a bj do you have eyes open or closed? guys when getting the bj do you like the lady looking at you or not? i love looking at the guy when doing this. i guess it is a controll thing. and seeing how much pleasure i am giving them, yes me,,, baby i am in controll right then. it feels so good to see there face..

Nothing is better than eye contact when getting a bj

Sham

ditto!!!!!

Good to see there's another provider who's a part-time control freak. Eyes open, eyes closed, it makes no matter. That being said, it's unusual (at least for me) to have a woman even give a BBBJTCIM. The girls of my generation weren't giving these gifts. Before I got into hobbying, my last BBBJTCIM cost me a tennis bracelet and a trip to Aruba.
  The novelty of having my ATF look at me while she's driving me nuts (no pun intended) is wonderful. IMHO, when given to me by a woman (especially my ATF), there's no such thing as a bad BBBJTCIM.
   OK, Sassy, you started playing with this toy. Now come over and put it back the way you found it!!

I also agree,but I have to admit,I can't tell if she is
looking at me or not. Most of the time my head is back against
the mattress,my back is arched,my eyes are rolled back in my
head,and my mouth is open as i'm gasping for air. Yes..there
are times when they will slow down a bit and give me a chance
to catch my breath,and then I will look up and see her looking
at me with those eyes that say "YOU'RE MINE!" I really love
at this point those teasing little licks while she's looking
at me with those eyes. I'm at her mercy and she knows this
as she begins again,sending me back into convulsions.

There is nothing better than recieving a bj from a woman who
really enjoys it and is into pleasuring you. This power they
have over us I will gladly submit to every time.

"guys when getting the bj do you like the lady looking at you or not?"

It's never been a big turn-on for me. (In fact, it often looks silly and strained in porn movies.) Eyes closed, as if she's focusing on the act, seems more natural and thus more sexy to me.

--b.

I had a provider SCREAM that at me while I was going down on her as she reached orgasm. It was one of the hottest in a long list of hot memories of her. Now I know why it turns women on when they're giving head!!!

I absolutely love a woman to focus on the task and to look up at me when she's got me on the ropes and i'm squirming around.  DAMN that's HOTHOTHOTHOTHOT!

When I am pleasing my partner, my eyes are focused on her face, watching the many expressions, furrowed brow, eyes that no longer focus, lips drawn tight against the teeth, beautiful.

yes you did!!!

Shaye

ps. Sometimes I watch, sometimes I close.

For me, I need to have my eyes closed, and I tend to lose concentration, when they are opened LOL I also get caught up in my fantasies while sucking his "member" with my eyes closed. I get more turned on that way.

I am in the minority because to do not like the woman looking at me when giving a BJ.  I prefer her to concentrate on the task at hand.  

BJ's are like pizza.  Even when they're bad, they're good.  So don't worry about my reactions.  Trust me, I'm enjoying it !!

Placebo

Well, that would be best then...

I like to connect with a woman during oral sex and seeing her eyes helps me feel more connected.  I'm also dominant so if she isn't looking in my eyes when I want her to, I'll just say something like "Look up at me" or "wake up damnit!" as I slap her face (kidding).

A big smile for those who like to watch my reaction.  Yes, sometimes they say things like "I love sucking your c*%k."  The look is their eyes is priceless; for everything else there is MasterCard.